Nick Posted September 27, 2007 Share Posted September 27, 2007 Happened to a friend of mine. He fell for this girl, bought her a car, washing machine and gods knows what else. After a 2 week holiday, the same day they get back she dumps him and says she's been seeing someone else for the last month. Thanks very much, now sling your hook. That's as bad as theft in my book. Not saying some blokes don't do the same, but either way people shouldn't be allowed to get away with it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tbourner Posted September 27, 2007 Share Posted September 27, 2007 I've already given the answer, if that fails to satisfy then just smash her face into the nearest brick wall as hard as you can. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charlotte Posted September 27, 2007 Share Posted September 27, 2007 sorry ill put it more clearly to you youre in a relaitionship, you shell out a fortune to the other half (on there request) you stump up a couple of grand, then they bugger off with youre money and pride! no one said anything about prozzers at least they dont hide anything:tongue: now in that situ what would you do? i know get borat to go kick his head in and get youre money back!!!! Oh ok, thanks for clearing that up. In a relationship I think both parties pay for things because they are in a relationship. I don't know the full facts of it so I can't comment either way. Clearly some men think with their d*cks and not their brains. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tbourner Posted September 27, 2007 Share Posted September 27, 2007 Clearly some men think with their d*cks and not their brains. I don't see how that would work. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charlotte Posted September 27, 2007 Share Posted September 27, 2007 I don't see how that would work. It doesn't, that's why they end up complaining about being in debt. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ECK Posted September 27, 2007 Share Posted September 27, 2007 Clearly some men think with their d*cks and not their brains. jackpot! still as you say it works both ways alex Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
michael Posted September 27, 2007 Share Posted September 27, 2007 http://www.alumni.american.edu/images/JudgeJudy_lg.jpg Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ECK Posted September 27, 2007 Share Posted September 27, 2007 I've already given the answer, if that fails to satisfy then just smash her face into the nearest brick wall as hard as you can. nail and head spring to mind!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tbourner Posted September 27, 2007 Share Posted September 27, 2007 It doesn't, that's why they end up complaining about being in debt. Oh OK. I'm in debt. And it's all (well mostly) Zoe's fault. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ECK Posted September 27, 2007 Share Posted September 27, 2007 http://www.alumni.american.edu/images/JudgeJudy_lg.jpg PMSL!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ECK Posted September 27, 2007 Share Posted September 27, 2007 Oh OK. I'm in debt. And it's all (well mostly) Zoe's fault. are you still with her? alex Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charlotte Posted September 27, 2007 Share Posted September 27, 2007 Oh OK. I'm in debt. And it's all (well mostly) Zoe's fault. Does she give good head? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ECK Posted September 27, 2007 Share Posted September 27, 2007 Does she give good head? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tbourner Posted September 27, 2007 Share Posted September 27, 2007 are you still with her? Yes Does she give good head? No Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charlotte Posted September 27, 2007 Share Posted September 27, 2007 No Hmmm. You must be an exception to that rule. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ECK Posted September 27, 2007 Share Posted September 27, 2007 Yes No then there is the problem dude!! dump her and find a wealthy bird that gives a good blowjob:cool: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tbourner Posted September 27, 2007 Share Posted September 27, 2007 Thanks for the advice, but I think I'll stick with her, at least until she cheats on me - then I'll follow my advice in this thread. Hmmm. You must be an exception to that rule. More than you think!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ECK Posted September 27, 2007 Share Posted September 27, 2007 Thanks for the advice, but I think I'll stick with her, at least until she cheats on me - then I'll follow my advice in this thread hey dude no offence intended im sure she's worth it;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tbourner Posted September 27, 2007 Share Posted September 27, 2007 hey dude no offence intended im sure she's worth it;) Well she was the one who persuaded me to buy a Supra when I was saying it was a silly idea!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ECK Posted September 27, 2007 Share Posted September 27, 2007 Well she was the one who persuaded me to buy a Supra when I was saying it was a silly idea!! WHAT!!!!!! she's brand new then, never let her go mate;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sean1933 Posted September 27, 2007 Share Posted September 27, 2007 Proceed through the small claims court. If you have enough supporting evidence that funds have changed hands then that should be enough. Ideally in the subject line for the paypal + bank transactions it should say "loan", but nothings perfect. Once a small claim has been presented a claim form will be presented by the court to your ex. She has the decision to either file a defence (meaning her time+money) or ignore it. If she defends then it will be down to the decision of the judge. If your presentable and would make a good witness then this will help. If she doesnt defend then the court will issue her with a writ (CCJ) ordering her to pay. If she doesnt payup or make offers to may monthly (schedule of payment) then you can request enforcement (further £25 i believe) to which the courts will write to her again. If this still doesnt work then you can also pay a further amount to the court for bailiffs to be instructed, obviously this is in the most serious cases though. And obviously until the CCJ is satisfied (paid) her credit rating will be seriously effected). Good luck!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tbourner Posted September 27, 2007 Share Posted September 27, 2007 If she defends then it will be down to the decision of the judge. If your presentable and would make a good witness then this will help. Do they take previous history into account in these situations? Like someone with a good credit history trying to claim something from a scummy tax evading benefit cheat? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sean1933 Posted September 27, 2007 Share Posted September 27, 2007 Do they take previous history into account in these situations? Like someone with a good credit history trying to claim something from a scummy tax evading benefit cheat? Only if evidence of this is presented to the court. Such as history of the defendant being a previous bad debtor, ie a credit search result showing scoring + any previous CCJs. This is not accessible by the general public so doesnt normally become part of the case. Even if a history of bad debt was presented it probably wouldnt have much effect on the judges decision. Being that it is subjective evidence and only shows the history, not the present....ie, they could be a 'reformed citizen'. However this is civil law so you only have to prove 'balance of probabilities' in your favour, and not 'beyond all unreasonable doubt' as you do in criminal law. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris Wilson Posted September 27, 2007 Share Posted September 27, 2007 Put it down to experience and don't lend money to anyone, or share joint accounts, If it saves you from further crazy acts, like marriage, it's money well spent, IMO Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SupraJames Posted September 28, 2007 Author Share Posted September 28, 2007 Thanks for the advice Sean, and dont worry Chris wont be lending any girlfriend any more from now, infact not going to lend any full stop Once again many thanks for all your advice people. James Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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