Gaz Walker Posted May 17, 2007 Share Posted May 17, 2007 Sorry to hear this matey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Supragal Posted May 17, 2007 Share Posted May 17, 2007 Actually 2 years is a long time. Longer than a lot of marriages last!! Sorry to hear this though It may not be the time but try not to think of it like you are, as in "I was right all along, age was a problem" else you'll fall into the trap of always looking for possible reasons to break up with someone, without even realising it, and that in itself will cause future issues. Think about all the fun you can have dating again Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
turbonut Posted May 17, 2007 Share Posted May 17, 2007 lol you will be fine i was in a 3 half year one takes time, better being single all the way:d any excuse to modify your car, i broke up with my ex just to finish my supe no lie:) yeah, I dropped the last guy because he wasnt worth the petrol and wear and tear on the car Now I'm having a fantastic time being single, doing lots of supra stuff, car shows, World super bikes next weekend etc. Made lots of great friends and having even more fun with the mates I already had! Be free, relax, have fun, get your life back on an even keel and enjoy being selfish and self indulgent It'l be tough sometimes but we're all here to help you keep your chin up lolxx Linda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chilly Posted May 17, 2007 Share Posted May 17, 2007 You could always go gay? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spidermonkey Posted May 17, 2007 Share Posted May 17, 2007 chin up mate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stonkin Posted May 17, 2007 Share Posted May 17, 2007 Hey mate. Know how your feeling buddy, really do. I'm sure you remember my breaking up thread. Everyone on here helped me so much through a difficult time, and i even made a very good friend out of the situation to. If your having a down day, dont be afraid to ask for some advice. You might not want to hear some of the comments you will hear from people right now about keeping your chin up, life goes on and all that, but i guarantee you would give the same advice to someone else. Things just always seem diffferent when its 'you' I moped about for weeks and weeks, but sooner or later you just have to pick yourself up and realise that your not going to let your ex make you feel down anymore. The days are gona go past whether you like it or not, so you might as well make them happy days. Only you can do that though mate. Its very true that if you have negative thoughts in your head you will feel down, even the choice of words you use to describe a situation, if you make them positive, you will feel positive. Perhaps try a self help book, i did and i hate reading, but it just enables you to relax and put your energy into a positive mentality of moving forward. The one i read was, Feel the fear, but do it anyway. Perhaps give it a try You may sort things out with her, or you may meet someone else in time, but give yourself time, use your friends and family around you and get stuck into some things that you wouldnt normally do. Perhaps join a gym, you will feel better about yourself and meet some good people and it will fill your evenings and w'ends a bit. Best of luck mate, if you ever want a winge feel free to pm me Christian Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Nicholas Posted May 17, 2007 Share Posted May 17, 2007 You could always go gay? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stonkin Posted May 17, 2007 Share Posted May 17, 2007 every ending is a new beginning, you just dont know it at the time! Remember that buddy... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cheekymonkey Posted May 17, 2007 Share Posted May 17, 2007 Mate I feel your pain - posted a similar thread a few days ago myself. Must the time of year or something. Admittedly mine didn't live with me but I do think I know what you're going through, but it's still really hard. Chin up though, as long as you got friends and family around and a nice car (that goes without saying on here eh!) we'll be OK. I think it was the age thing for us that did it too - she's 21 and I am 29. Wrong stage of life and all that... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bobbeh Posted May 17, 2007 Share Posted May 17, 2007 Unlucky matey. It must be hurting right now, but I'm sure you'll be fine! Good to see you're considering the positives already Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
penguin Posted May 17, 2007 Share Posted May 17, 2007 as its been said before - plenty more fish in the sea dude - it seems like a very tough time now, but it gets easier and you do end up being a better person because of it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stonkin Posted May 17, 2007 Share Posted May 17, 2007 and you do end up being a better person because of it Would certainly agree with that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
R3DG3CKO ROB Posted May 17, 2007 Author Share Posted May 17, 2007 Thanks for the support everyone. I'm a really positive person so I won't let it get me down I've just got that churned up 'don't want to eat' feeling all the time. To be honest I'm more worried about my finances now... my lodger has bought him self a flat and is moving out in the next week or so so now I've really got all the bills to pay I just need a really sunny day and have a good blast in the car with the roof off... that'll do the trick You could always go gay? lol, I'll pass thanks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mas Posted May 17, 2007 Share Posted May 17, 2007 Sorry to hear about this Rob, Now get yourself a supra driving girlfriend this time about the flat, Im sure there are many decent people who after a place these days so just stick an add in the local papaers and you ll be sorted by end of the week Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
supradibbs Posted May 17, 2007 Share Posted May 17, 2007 Bash it up some big fat tart that will make you feel better Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stonkin Posted May 17, 2007 Share Posted May 17, 2007 Bash it up some big fat tart that will make you feel better such a way with words Wayne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cheekymonkey Posted May 17, 2007 Share Posted May 17, 2007 I just need a really sunny day and have a good blast in the car with the roof off... that'll do the trick Go easy mate. I made the mistake of going for a drive in a foul mood at the weekend. Clear private runway, no cars in sight so I was being quite aggressive. Backed off when I saw I was approaching 160 leptons. Then the next day my tyre blows out at 40mph on the dual carriageway, no damage but imagine if that had happened the night before! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
R3DG3CKO ROB Posted May 18, 2007 Author Share Posted May 18, 2007 Don't worry, I'm not in a bad mood really, just feel rather sedated at the moment... I think I'll def go to Jap fest tomorrow, that should cheer me up - need to clean the car tonight and pray that it doesn't rain overnight... (must get a cover for the car) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cheekymonkey Posted May 18, 2007 Share Posted May 18, 2007 Well look out for my car, I'll be at JF tomorrow, and I have a car pass Take care James Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eve Posted May 18, 2007 Share Posted May 18, 2007 Rob, really sorry to hear that. Something in the water cos I split with my other half in March and i'm still in that sedated, stomach churning phase. We work together though and can't avoid each other so I am not suggesting your pain will go on this long. I sincerely hope it doesn't! Top tip: don't date colleagues! Waiting for my Supe (pick up 30th May!) has helped me, oh and I got a kitten, sounds wet but gives you something to love! On a general note, I'm fairly new to the owners club and it is really great that you can have serious (well some of us!) life support discussions as well as dream about our Supes! Eve:thumbs: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Supragal Posted May 18, 2007 Share Posted May 18, 2007 Top tip: don't date colleagues! Ahh. now I'd disagree with that but sorry to hear your experience didn't work out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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