Guest NINJYA Posted April 29, 2007 Share Posted April 29, 2007 Jesus!! You have my upmost sympathy Ninjya. I can only begin to understand how you feel at the moment. Even though I have had my fair share of "Family" issues, I have never experienced anything like this. Beth will be very confused and will probably take everything out on you. It is true that youyr hurt the people you love the most in times of disarray. You must remain strong and support her as best you can, but don't become a doormat as that will not help either of you in the long term. I won't be particulatly sympathetic to your ex as I have no time for people who are that selfish. I think if you didn't see him again, you would both be the better for it! H. Thankyou - i know ive got to sort this out - i was crying to my mum yesterday cos i feel like i cant cope - but she told me i have to, and shes right. Its when ive been to work and i get beth from school - i feel so tired, then im cooking and cleaning and then she wants to play a game or go out on her bike, of course i do things with her even when i dont feel like it, i feel so drained. I think all the stress is making me feel worse, and i cant sleep -things are going round in my head all the time. Im off to the turbofit today with silversoop - get some time to myself. I know i shouldnt feel sorry for J but in a way i think if we were still together none of this would have happened. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gaz1 Posted April 29, 2007 Share Posted April 29, 2007 Thankyou - i know ive got to sort this out - i was crying to my mum yesterday cos i feel like i cant cope - but she told me i have to, and shes right. Its when ive been to work and i get beth from school - i feel so tired, then im cooking and cleaning and then she wants to play a game or go out on her bike, of course i do things with her even when i dont feel like it, i feel so drained. I think all the stress is making me feel worse, and i cant sleep -things are going round in my head all the time. Im off to the turbofit today with silversoop - get some time to myself. I know i shouldnt feel sorry for J but in a way i think if we were still together none of this would have happened. really feel for you and beth, but if you 2 were still together things could actualy be worse, you have a good day today and get your name back on the dragonball;) i think you need some chill out time aswel as the little one;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest NINJYA Posted April 29, 2007 Share Posted April 29, 2007 really feel for you and beth, but if you 2 were still together things could actualy be worse, you have a good day today and get your name back on the dragonball;) i think you need some chill out time aswel as the little one;) thanks mate, we both need some time , im really looking forward to getting out today. Just hope things get better soon. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gaz1 Posted April 29, 2007 Share Posted April 29, 2007 thanks mate, we both need some time , im really looking forward to getting out today. Just hope things get better soon. things will get better they always do, part of life is the crap you go through its shit at the time, but it does get better, and it does make you stronger;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest GirlRacer! Posted April 29, 2007 Share Posted April 29, 2007 That sucks Ninjya, you poor love. I really feel for you and Beth but you'll get through all this. She's lucky to have such a caring mum and it sounds like you're coping really well even if you think you're not. I hope your ex is ok, it's understandable you're worried - you can't just switch off when you've been with someone so long - but it definitely sounds as though you and your daughter are better off without him. I'm sure Beth knows you love her really, the poor thing's just confused. Take care hun, stay strong Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest NINJYA Posted April 30, 2007 Share Posted April 30, 2007 That sucks Ninjya, you poor love. I really feel for you and Beth but you'll get through all this. She's lucky to have such a caring mum and it sounds like you're coping really well even if you think you're not. I hope your ex is ok, it's understandable you're worried - you can't just switch off when you've been with someone so long - but it definitely sounds as though you and your daughter are better off without him. I'm sure Beth knows you love her really, the poor thing's just confused. Take care hun, stay strong Thanks Girlracer thats really nice of you, i feel better today after having a break - and a good nights sleep! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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