mathew Posted December 6, 2006 Share Posted December 6, 2006 a few weeks back i had to pay a visit to a certain type of clinic:innocent: . i knew an ex girlfriend worked in the dentist section of this clinic and just my luck was at the desk when i arrived not realising i had gone in the wrong entrance. anyway she directed me to th part of the clinic where i should have been after a bit of banter. now today in work a colleague asked me how did it go at the clinic. i asked how did he know and he said his daughter had told him. turns out his daughter works there too but was off on that day and my ex couldnt wait to tell herthat i had been there. i dare to think what other mates she has told. now i thought that all this sorta stuff is confidential and surely what she has done breaches that. so do i write a complaint or just leave it go??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jake Posted December 6, 2006 Share Posted December 6, 2006 Nah, Just tell everyone it was her that gave you the Genital Warts Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charlotte Posted December 6, 2006 Share Posted December 6, 2006 I would complain, that's really wrong. Patient confidentiality and all that. So, what's up with your parts? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JustGav Posted December 6, 2006 Share Posted December 6, 2006 Nah, Just tell everyone it was her that gave you the Genital Warts Now that is payback.... I like your style.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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mathew Posted December 6, 2006 Author Share Posted December 6, 2006 my parts are fine now they just got a bit scabby with a bit of greeny browny discharge coming out every now and then. and my piss is green. nah it was just a check up after i heard a rumour about a certain female friend, all clear. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mathew Posted December 6, 2006 Author Share Posted December 6, 2006 who excactly would i address the letter to? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jake Posted December 6, 2006 Share Posted December 6, 2006 it was just a check up after i heard a rumour about a certain female friend I'm sure it was. We all believe you, honest. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charlotte Posted December 6, 2006 Share Posted December 6, 2006 who excactly would i address the letter to? Was it a GUM clinic? Whoever runs them? My brother and I were laughing the other day cause he went and had the routine check up, good on him for being sensible. But as he was leaving they asked him to give his mobile number and said that if he had anything and they couldn't get hold of him they would text him. Can you imagine?! "U have AIDS soz" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mathew Posted December 6, 2006 Author Share Posted December 6, 2006 yeah thats what they asked me. and if no reply in 6 weeks than its all clear. its been 7 weeks with no reply so its looking good ....now where did i put that wart cream???? lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JustGav Posted December 6, 2006 Share Posted December 6, 2006 Regards of the ribbing you will get because of this, I for one say good on you for going, rather than just pretending nothing happened. Far too many people risk things these days. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steviekid Posted December 6, 2006 Share Posted December 6, 2006 I would complain, that's really wrong. Patient confidentiality and all that. I'd double check that. That's certainly true with regard to your records etc but I'm not sure if it would apply to a receptionist simply mentioning you were in the building. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gzaerojon Posted December 6, 2006 Share Posted December 6, 2006 i had gone in the wrong entrance. there's the reason right there Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jake Posted December 6, 2006 Share Posted December 6, 2006 there's the reason right there Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mathew Posted December 6, 2006 Author Share Posted December 6, 2006 haha , i was wondering how long it would before before someone picked up on that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jakewebster Posted December 6, 2006 Share Posted December 6, 2006 Not wise being cheeky to the girl doin your test in those places. Holy S**t they can be cruel!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gamer Posted December 6, 2006 Share Posted December 6, 2006 nah it was just a check up after i heard a rumour about a certain female friend, all clear. who excactly would i address the letter to? Dear Dirty Bitch, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rob Posted December 7, 2006 Share Posted December 7, 2006 I'd double check that. That's certainly true with regard to your records etc but I'm not sure if it would apply to a receptionist simply mentioning you were in the building. I think it would, Doctors have the whole confidentiality thing as part of their professional status, but the receptionist would be expected to be discreet as well as she is the "frontline" for patients. Especially in a cock clinic. I would put in a formal complaint naming her, and stitch her right up. This sort of thing could go all the way to NHS inquiry so the practice partners will certainly give her a ticking off. Who knows, you could be famous and end up on the news. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrRalphMan Posted December 7, 2006 Share Posted December 7, 2006 Who knows, you could be famous and end up on the news. That's some motivation.. Evening news:- News dude - So tell me what happened.. matlee - Well I was going into the Cock Clinic to get my self sorted...... Don't forget the 'Hiya Mum' at the end.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sdavies Posted December 7, 2006 Share Posted December 7, 2006 Seriously wish these things didn't have so much effing stigma attached to them. This, along with lack of sensible sex education is the reason that there is a huge increase in various STD's amongst the younger folk these days (I keep hearing horrific stats on the radio atm), this is the sort of reason people get too scared/ashamed of visiting a clinic - that just cannot be good!? She should be royally booted for having a slack gob like that, working in a clinic with such a sensitive nature you would imagine they should be acutely aware of these situations and how to behave? - FFS. At very least a flea in her ear about letting on... then again, you just told us all your private business so I guess it is a principle thing for you at this point and not a sensitivity issue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suprash Posted December 7, 2006 Share Posted December 7, 2006 and not a sensitivity issue Depends if the cream has started working yet or not, lol....... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon K Posted December 7, 2006 Share Posted December 7, 2006 I wouldnt worry about it, by complaining your keeping the subject alive and in topic of conversation. Ive had similar situations myself. Situation 1 Whilst training a few years ago, I went on `gear`, which caused me to suffer a big injury to my back. Never knew until I came off the stuff and couldnt hardly walk. I had to have an operation on my back to fix it which required going up thru my arse, to my coxxic area. Whilst laying on the operating table, awake as I was too heavy for the nurses to lift over, one of the nurses reconised me. "Arent you XXXX from the gym ?" I remember saying "Yes, I am", and she saying " Yes, I thought I reconised you!" then falling asleep. As you can imagine, my balls / arse were well hammered during the operation, and I was in some quality position too I would imagine, all with this nurse present, watching :-). Lets say that I never returned to that gym again. Situation 2 GUM in Brighton. Yeap, had caught something nasty from someone, and had to go to the GUM. Cant say it was the first time, but hey when the beer is in you, you arent thinking too clever. Didnt want to go as the Bton GUM waiting room are full of terminal cases, but it was either that, or watch it drop off. So, went there, signed in, eventually got to my turn in the queue, when the Dr seeing me turned out to be a queer guy that worked in one of the clubs I was a bouncer at. He worked on the bar, but during the day was a nurse at the GUM. :-) So, imagine the next time I saw him, his man had been sticking things down my old boy's eye. I reckon 4 maybe 5 mins after Id left the clinic, that 90% of the people that worked in the club knew :-) The more upset you are, the more it looks like your trying to hide things, so I say bolloxs to it. Let them talk. Be old news soon. I see it as being brave enough to face a problem and get it sorted. I knew several tosser blokes who have stuff, that just wont get it sorted. SBK Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ark Posted December 7, 2006 Share Posted December 7, 2006 Personally I don't understand the embarrassment - if you have to go to the clinic, it proves you've been getting it, so you score bonus "man-points". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charlotte Posted December 7, 2006 Share Posted December 7, 2006 Personally I don't understand the embarrassment - if you have to go to the clinic, it proves you've been getting it, so you score bonus "man-points". Getting it from dirty whores doesn't count. Especially if you didn't use protection against surplus diseases. My STD lessons will be continued... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
R3DG3CKO ROB Posted December 7, 2006 Share Posted December 7, 2006 Very awkward situation but you were def doing the right thing.... If you complain it could make it worse... On the other hand - the damage is done and she does deserve a arse kicking for breaking confidentiality... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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