Green Peace Posted September 25, 2006 Share Posted September 25, 2006 Ian, Im so sorry to hear this. As Charlotte said it gets easier to deal with over time. A few of us on here have lost parents, i lost my Mum and Dad, thing that made me feel better was when i looked in the mirror one day and my Dad looked back at me, (no I havent lost it totally) but i have similar features to my Dad and Id never really thought about it till he'd gone, he is still part of you, you are a part of him if you look at it that way it kind of warms ya soul. Im sorry for the monologue (as usual) but i know exactly what you feel right now and we all feel your sadness because we are all only human. I always found it upsetting when i woke up and realised My Mum or Dad was not there anymore, I would wake up crying, its a tough thing to go though, your not alone, a lot of us here, understand exactly what you are going through. Dwell on the good memories of him share the stories with friends and us, that always helps, just take each day as it comes and as they pass. Oddly Enough Ian I lost my Father about this time of year I just remember the sun setting that day, It was the Autumn of my life!!!!!felt like it would be forever autumn (just Like the Song!)...but believe me the Sun did rise again one day, it will do for you! too! words aren't going to help that much i know, but i say this from the heart! Take care fella. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dragonlady Posted September 25, 2006 Share Posted September 25, 2006 So sorry to hear the bad news, our thoughts are with you. Ian & Sharon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gaz1 Posted September 25, 2006 Share Posted September 25, 2006 thoughts are with you and your family mate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
michel lane Posted September 25, 2006 Share Posted September 25, 2006 Iam very sorry to hear about this, my mother passed away last year very sudden, the feeling of never seeing her again always sits on the back of my mind, but i know he saw proud of me and what i had acheived in life. You father will have the same thoughs about you, he will be proud of what you have achived in your life. There is no words to express the sorrow that you will be faced in the next coming days, but rest assure your father will always be with you to make sure you never stray down unwanted paths . You have to be strong for your mother as she will need you the most as i with my father. Always remember you will see them again, this is just an exit of the motorway of life. I hope you will strong for your mother in this time need, my thoughts and sympothy are with you my friend. michel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
how_supra Posted September 25, 2006 Share Posted September 25, 2006 I've just read this thread and im in tears. Im so so sorry to hear about this, I can't imagine how you must be feeling. All the very best at this difficult time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kittyclaws Posted September 25, 2006 Share Posted September 25, 2006 thoughts are with you and your family Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Supragal Posted September 25, 2006 Share Posted September 25, 2006 he is in the Conquest hospital in Hastings. I know that hospital well. Very sorry to hear this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mike Posted September 25, 2006 Share Posted September 25, 2006 So sorry to hear this Ian... be strong bud... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Terminator Posted September 25, 2006 Share Posted September 25, 2006 Ian,please accept my sincerest condolences. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scooby Posted September 25, 2006 Share Posted September 25, 2006 Really sorry chap I know what is is like to lose someone close. If there is anything we can do to cheer you up let me know. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikeyb10supra Posted September 25, 2006 Share Posted September 25, 2006 My Sincere condolences to you and your family Ian, my thoughts are with you at this time off great sadness, your father will always be with you and your family in spirit, and you will one day be reunited. Be strong for your family and as already said, Time heals all Take care mate and remember your father will always be with you and your family Mike, Jo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ben-san Posted September 25, 2006 Share Posted September 25, 2006 Ian, Sorry to hear about this I can appreciate how hard it is to take on that sort of decision, we too had to make a call on our grandmother's quality of life for the better - no one should have go through that in any lifetime. Do keep your chin up buddy. We're all here if you need to vent some more. B Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thorin Posted September 25, 2006 Share Posted September 25, 2006 Terribly sorry to hear this, my condolences to you. I'm quite a private person in real life but I found writing about things like this on the forum does help you get it off your chest. Chin up fella. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KaoriFan Posted September 25, 2006 Author Share Posted September 25, 2006 thanks to everyone who posted in this thread, reading your thoughts and wishes helped me so much in the last 24 hours. also i appreciate everyone who was posting about their own experiences, really do empathise with you all and what you have gone through. my thoughts go to everyone who wrote their personal stories. for an update, my father made it through the night, though he is in an induced unconsciousness/coma with morphine. he is such a fighter, and won't give up. even though doctors said he would be gone by midnight last night. i know there is no chance of recovery, just the long wait. at least once the end comes, he will have finally found peace. and like everyone said, his memory will never fade. thanks once again, i am so honoured to be on this forum and have found so many that care. there has been lots of talk recently on what is happening to forum. this topic thread seems to show nothing happened for the worse. their are so many that care about others. what can be better than that, when help or comfort is needed everyone springs forward to leave messages. all the best Ian (p.s. one day i hope i can meet many of you and thank you personally) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elliot Posted September 25, 2006 Share Posted September 25, 2006 Sorry to hear about this Ian. Like many others have said, my thoughts are with you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
markssupra Posted September 25, 2006 Share Posted September 25, 2006 Very sorry to hear this Ian. Our thought are with you and your family. You will always have your memories and they cant be taken away. Take care Bud. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest mk47 Posted September 25, 2006 Share Posted September 25, 2006 Very sorry to hear this Ian. Thoughts go out to you and your family Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrRalphMan Posted September 25, 2006 Share Posted September 25, 2006 Ian, So sorry to here this, I can't imagine what you must be going through.. Hang in there dude.. Paul. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
black cat Posted September 25, 2006 Share Posted September 25, 2006 so sorry to here this dude, cant begine to emagine what your going through.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BEERSHZ Posted September 25, 2006 Share Posted September 25, 2006 so sorry to hear of this, thoughts with you I'd like the memory of him to be a happy one. I'd like him to leave an afterglow of smiles when life is done. I'd like him to leave an echo whispering softly down the ways, of happy times, laughing times and bright and sunny days. I'd like the tears of those who'll grieve, to dry before the sun of happy memories, that he leaves when life is done. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest W0LFMAN Posted September 25, 2006 Share Posted September 25, 2006 bless you all, Sorry, my condolences to you and family, best wishies Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GazzaGSi Posted September 25, 2006 Share Posted September 25, 2006 So sorry to hear this, My thoughts are with you. Take care. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KaoriFan Posted September 26, 2006 Author Share Posted September 26, 2006 thanks everyone, once again for all the kind words. have just called the hospital, and my father died peacefully and in no pain at 11.15PM last night. will be back later on all the best Ian Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snooze Posted September 26, 2006 Share Posted September 26, 2006 Thinking of you and your family, Ian. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harps Posted September 26, 2006 Share Posted September 26, 2006 So sad to read. My condolences to you and your family : Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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