KaoriFan Posted September 24, 2006 Share Posted September 24, 2006 hi everyone, being among friends on forum, felt i just needed to have somewhere to say this. really had a bad day here, my father is going to have passed away by midnight, there is no hope of survival. he has been ill for a number of years and recently got worse. on friday he picked up an infection, which turned to gangrene. today we had two nurses and a doctor at home, they rushed him into hospital. once he was there, they diagnosed he only had a few hours to live. even if they operated he would have only 2 months to survive. so decided it is better for him to rest in peace with no more pain. we have the memories of a wonderful father for which i am forever grateful. being here tonight, pulling curtains as its dark, realising that tomorrow and forever on, will never be the same, just hurts so much. sorry for posting this, but i feel among friends and know we all care about each other. thanks to everyone i know here, all the best Ian Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whitesupraboy2 Posted September 24, 2006 Share Posted September 24, 2006 gutted for you mate. Horrible decision to make Is your dad with you tonight at home? or at the hospital? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peter richards Posted September 24, 2006 Share Posted September 24, 2006 ian sorry mate our thaughts are with you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rayman Posted September 24, 2006 Share Posted September 24, 2006 Sorry, my condolences to you and family! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wkdtime Posted September 24, 2006 Share Posted September 24, 2006 Hey bud i really feel for you, Im sorry to hear about your loss, you need to be strong for others around, and like you've said his memories will go on. Take it easy bud, chin up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kopite Posted September 24, 2006 Share Posted September 24, 2006 Very sorry to hear that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
supradibbs Posted September 24, 2006 Share Posted September 24, 2006 thats very sad just keep those thoughts off happy times with you and remember you are amogst freinds so you ever feel the need to shout out loud no one here will judge you for it all the best Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sooper-supra Posted September 24, 2006 Share Posted September 24, 2006 very sorry to hear this Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ewen Posted September 24, 2006 Share Posted September 24, 2006 You are indeed amongst friends. So sorry to read this, our thoughts are with you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KaoriFan Posted September 24, 2006 Author Share Posted September 24, 2006 thanks for all your kind thoughts. at this time it means the earth. both my Mother and myself are kind of at a calm, as he is no longer suffering. over 10 years of severe rhuematoid arthritis, and other things. maybe there was reason for this infection, to finally put an end to his pain and suffering. he is in the Conquest hospital in Hastings. and has been given sedatives to make the last few hours comfortable. thanks once again. i will be around forum still, as being among friends helps no end. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Homer Posted September 24, 2006 Share Posted September 24, 2006 So sorry to hear this Ian. What a horible decision to have to make Thoughts are with you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AshBhp Posted September 24, 2006 Share Posted September 24, 2006 My thoughts are with you, as i was in the same situation not so long ago. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stupra Posted September 24, 2006 Share Posted September 24, 2006 Sorry mate. I lost my Dad a few years ago, an I miss him every day. Like you say though, there will always be good memories. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SteveR Posted September 24, 2006 Share Posted September 24, 2006 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MR.B Posted September 24, 2006 Share Posted September 24, 2006 So sorry to hear this mate My thoughts go out to you and your family Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RobSheffield Posted September 24, 2006 Share Posted September 24, 2006 Sorry to hear this, my thoughts are with you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charlotte Posted September 24, 2006 Share Posted September 24, 2006 Take care tonight, it will get easier in time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muffleman Posted September 24, 2006 Share Posted September 24, 2006 Not much to add I'm afraid, but our thoughts genuinely go out to you and your family. Take it easy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trig Posted September 24, 2006 Share Posted September 24, 2006 My thoughts are with you and your family, just try and think of the good memories. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Animal Posted September 24, 2006 Share Posted September 24, 2006 Ian, don't know what to say, such sad news. My thoughts to you an' your folks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Max Headroom Posted September 24, 2006 Share Posted September 24, 2006 Terrible news I will say a little prayer for you all tonight. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JamieP Posted September 24, 2006 Share Posted September 24, 2006 Very sorry to hear that.. i lost my dad in may, i know how you feel. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zap Posted September 24, 2006 Share Posted September 24, 2006 Sorry for your news, I lost my dad 11 months ago and it still feels like yesterday, chin up fella. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jake Posted September 24, 2006 Share Posted September 24, 2006 Gutted for you Ian mate. You're in for a tough time tonight and the next few weeks, I wish there was something we could do to make it easier for you to bear. Be strong buddy, your mother will need your support. I know there's a few of us on here that have lost parents and the only positive thing I can say is that the pain you're feeling at the moment does fade over time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SupraAyf Posted September 24, 2006 Share Posted September 24, 2006 Ian, Sincere Regards to you and the family mate. Andrew Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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