RedM Posted May 8, 2006 Share Posted May 8, 2006 Pics would only have worked with a loaf of bread present! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Flat4_ire Posted May 8, 2006 Share Posted May 8, 2006 sorry to say but life is a bitch, move on, end of story!! full stop, i feel for the relatives but thats who has the grief no one else and its there time of need no one elses i work with bereaved relatives day in day out its my job, and tbh honest you feel for them, does it warrant me going to the pub and drowning my sorrows for to combat shock? does it hell, i will be doing that probably when my family are gone, no one else's ps any pics whatever about me but you must DEFINITELY be an asshole in real life outside this forum Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kranz Posted May 8, 2006 Share Posted May 8, 2006 First one's always the worst, especially the messy ones. After a few you realise you got to detach yourself from it or it could end up screwing you up. If you keep having flashbacks or dreaming about it for more than a week, start drinking more (and I mean a lot more), have trouble sleeping, are continuously irritated then you may have Critical Incident Stress. Let your loved ones know how you're feeling & they'll keep an eye on you. You don't always know when you've got CIS. A friend found Dr David Kelly (Hutton Report, Weapons of Mass Destruction etc) after he'd killed himself, she was pretty shook up. Take it easy, chill & remind yourself it wasn't anything to do with you & there's nothing you could have done. Steve Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peter richards Posted May 8, 2006 Share Posted May 8, 2006 flatty mate let it go ffs, we dont want another , well you know what i mean Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kranz Posted May 8, 2006 Share Posted May 8, 2006 whatever about me but you must DEFINITELY be an asshole in real life outside this forum Hmm, not really. Just his way of dealing with it. We all do it differently, and I agree its the family & friends that need to greive the most. Its not every day you see a dead body, unless you work in certain professions. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Flat4_ire Posted May 8, 2006 Share Posted May 8, 2006 flatty mate let it go ffs, we dont want another , well you know what i mean ah just saying! not starting anything! just thought that was a bit of a smart arse comment to make, chap just got a bad death ya know Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jamesmark Posted May 8, 2006 Share Posted May 8, 2006 whatever about me but you must DEFINITELY be an asshole in real life outside this forum nah just got a very thick skin, as nothing phases me (apart from one thing), if thats gaz's way of dealing with it then thats cool as no one can comment, i am just emotionally hard and able to turn on and off my emotions for example if you were lying there burning to death i would not even piss on you to save you, and before you throw your dummy out the pram and react to what i just said look at who called who first, anyway but as K14 SUP says maybe thats my way of dealing with, but i am always like this compastionate when i need to in my line of work but emotionally resiliant when i have too, everybody is different thats what makes us unique as for seeing dead people everyday, no i dont actually just a couple a week sometimes none for a few weeks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Flat4_ire Posted May 8, 2006 Share Posted May 8, 2006 well there ya have it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RobSheffield Posted May 8, 2006 Share Posted May 8, 2006 some of you newer chaps need to appreciate michaels humour, fwiw, made me laugh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clarkey Posted May 8, 2006 Share Posted May 8, 2006 made me laugh Me too. Strange that some of us (or perhaps, all of us) laughed at the Gene Pitney jokes, Mikey Barrymore jokes, George Michael etc etc. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
terribleturner Posted May 8, 2006 Share Posted May 8, 2006 Not a nice sight. Dead body don't faze me anymore after working in Camden. I met a kid at work who once was walking through the local Sainsburys car park and found a bag. He un zipped it to find chopped up body parts. Tasty. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boxtobox Posted May 8, 2006 Share Posted May 8, 2006 dude you need to have a drink .such a sad world Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rob Posted May 8, 2006 Share Posted May 8, 2006 Not a nice sight. Dead body don't faze me anymore after working in Camden. I met a kid at work who once was walking through the local Sainsburys car park and found a bag. He un zipped it to find chopped up body parts. Tasty. Were they Buy One Get One Free? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gaz1 Posted May 8, 2006 Author Share Posted May 8, 2006 ok had abeer now got my chinese takeaway i am now happy, but got to be honest was not happy when i seen him, and willthink about this day for a while now i live in this place during the week, in a bunker bin and its not great but i can do without the shit we get from the local pitsea scum which is a lot Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scoboblio Posted May 9, 2006 Share Posted May 9, 2006 thisisessex.co.uk has this immensely detailed story; http://www.thisisessex.co.uk/display.var.753578.0.body_found_in_pitsea.php Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jake Posted May 9, 2006 Share Posted May 9, 2006 thisisessex.co.uk has this immensely detailed story; http://www.thisisessex.co.uk/display.var.753578.0.body_found_in_pitsea.php Ewwww! I've just read that. It almost felt like I was there! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tom S Posted May 9, 2006 Share Posted May 9, 2006 Strange day, any local write up on it Gaz, will sort out the Pic hunters most probs! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
geoffvalenti Posted May 9, 2006 Share Posted May 9, 2006 we get a lot of shit from assholes around here Hardly surprising Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MONKEYmark Posted May 9, 2006 Share Posted May 9, 2006 my ex g/f is nurse and used to look after people and sit with them trough night.lots of them died.i thought it was a terrible job to do for only 7 quid an hour.they dont get much for what they have to put up with.also mates wife collects body parts when people get run over by trains and in car crashes. my ex is doing a 3 year uni course on nursing to get better money.she loves her job too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
michael Posted May 9, 2006 Share Posted May 9, 2006 mates wife collects body parts when people get run over by trains and in car crashes. Is that her job or just a casual hobby? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MONKEYmark Posted May 9, 2006 Share Posted May 9, 2006 Is that her job or just a casual hobby?her job.she loves it too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rob Posted May 9, 2006 Share Posted May 9, 2006 Is that her job or just a casual hobby? I like that idea, especially if they had a forum like here. Items for swap: 1 causcasian right hand, part of a pair, would like to swap for left leg, I will offer cash to make up the difference. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Terminator Posted May 9, 2006 Share Posted May 9, 2006 Gaz, sorry to hear about this. Not a pleasant experience. Its good advice about CIS, you just don't know how this amight effect you. I helped to save a kids life once, he made it too, but that really got to me. So look after your self. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kittyclaws Posted May 9, 2006 Share Posted May 9, 2006 I've seen more than my fair share of dead bodies,whilst in the Royal Navy I was in Albania, had to move a bed that was stacked with babies, poor little ones were waiting to be buried, pulled burnt bodies out of the sea etc. Also i used to be a custody officer in a crown court, sit in the dock durring trails etc, had one prisoner cut both main arterys in his neck, about 2" deep each, had to try to stop the flow of blood, spraying between my fingers it was. We did manage to keep him alive for 5 mins till ambulance arrived. I'm now a Train Driver. so far, only had to check the line once after the driver in front had reported hitting something, i just followed the body parts for about 1/4 mile till i found the main mass. a lot of people who can't take life anymore seem to prefer throwing themselves in front of trains, not just men as stated earlier in this thread, lots of women do too, one of the worst ones was a woman at gatwick, jumped in front of one of our trains as it was passing at 90mph. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gaz1 Posted May 9, 2006 Author Share Posted May 9, 2006 cheers guys, some really sad people around but do feel for them Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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