black cat Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 and it was going sooo well.... we never even talked - it was all good it still is good mate....... dont talk wet man.... marry the girl. at least some one wants too. some blokes dont get the chance.... the sex thing after marrage, rubbish, its just the same as before. best day of my life mate... :D "Do it, do it NOW." (indiana jones temple of doom quote) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
penguin Posted March 28, 2006 Author Share Posted March 28, 2006 It's hardly the end of the world - it just means she loves you - why get in a stress??? Seems the ball is in your court and you can hold onto it for as long as you want. alex - always the optimistic one Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alex Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 alex - always the optimistic one Do I have some sort of reputation on here?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charlotte Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 Do I have some sort of reputation on here?? yep Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
black cat Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 yep i dont get it have i missed something?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bolsius Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 been with my mrs 14 yrs, we discussed marriage and kids, I told her at the start it wasnt going to happen, never discussed again Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alex Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 I guess I don't use enough... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dragonball Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 Mate - worry not Just bung her a bit of gold band and some decent zirconia I've been engaged 5 times and only married once (oh and best man 3 times) Anything to get a marquee and a salmon buffet Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
andrew7 Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 since...... november 2005 Wait until she starts farting in front of you, then make your mind up... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
andrew7 Posted March 28, 2006 Share Posted March 28, 2006 i dont get it have i missed something?? If you moved in with someone after 2 days and have been doing the cooking ever since, yes, you have missed something.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Faye Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 That's not even 6months!!! Give it, at least, a couple of years!!! (and live together first, if you're not already) Thats slack, Keith asked me after two months We took another 4 months to tell everyone in case everyone thought we were rushing it. After 10 months together we were married. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tbourner Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 I got engaged after 6 months, been together 3 years now and still not married!! Buying a house so probably won't be able to afford it for another 5 years!!! Won't matter if you propose now and don't marry for a while. Saying that, when put on the spot a woman isn't going to say "We'll probably split up soon this is just for a laugh." so obviously they say something 'jokey' about you not asking yet or whatever. Doesn't mean she wants you to marry her NOW!! I'd leave it and see if she goes off a bit - otherwise talk to her, we talked about getting engaged before I proposed (so I knew she wouldn't say no ). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
andrew7 Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 I'm afraid most of the time, getting married is the weaker, insecure partner's way of securing the other half. It's just a way of trying to hang on to what you think you need or want (or what you imagine your peers expect you to need and want)..... In a balanced relationship marriage is not neccessary as both partners are comfortable in their own standing and position.. Wait for it:hide: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charlotte Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 Coming from a divorced family i personally don't see the point in the piece of paper, but hey that's not to say its wrong, i love a good wedding. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
edd_t Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 I'm afraid most of the time, getting married is the weaker, insecure partner's way of securing the other half. It's just a way of trying to hang on to what you think you need or want (or what you imagine your peers expect you to need and want)..... In a balanced relationship marriage is not neccessary as both partners are comfortable in their own standing and position.. Wait for it:hide: hey i like the sound of that! am gonna use that! haha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ellis Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 OK, here's a thought, I met, married and split up from wife number 2 in 4 weeks!! The whole lot! Still a UK record I believe!!! 5 months? Ha - I scoff at relationships that last so long!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
penguin Posted March 29, 2006 Author Share Posted March 29, 2006 OK, here's a thought, I met, married and split up from wife number 2 in 4 weeks!! The whole lot! Still a UK record I believe!!! 5 months? Ha - I scoff at relationships that last so long!!!! take it being sober for the 4 weeks was not a priority Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Supragal Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 Honestly dude you have ISSUES. I am so deeply concerned for you I'm not even going to mention the fact you said too instead of two. Like someone said she was on the spot, that's just a jokey thing that people say. Is it marriage you are against or marrying her? Because if it's her you shouldn't be with her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ellis Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 take it being sober for the 4 weeks was not a priority It was a hot summer - fried my brain! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
penguin Posted March 29, 2006 Author Share Posted March 29, 2006 I'm afraid most of the time, getting married is the weaker, insecure partner's way of securing the other half. It's just a way of trying to hang on to what you think you need or want (or what you imagine your peers expect you to need and want)..... In a balanced relationship marriage is not neccessary as both partners are comfortable in their own standing and position.. Wait for it:hide: don't agree with all that, but thats your take on things Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charlotte Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 Honestly dude you have ISSUES. I am so deeply concerned for you I'm not even going to mention the fact you said too instead of two. Like someone said she was on the spot, that's just a jokey thing that people say. Is it marriage you are against or marrying her? Because if it's her you shouldn't be with her. Go Ricki Go Ricki Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
andrew7 Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 OK, here's a thought, I met, married and split up from wife number 2 in 4 weeks!! The whole lot! Still a UK record I believe!!! 5 months? Ha - I scoff at relationships that last so long!!!! Now that IS an expensive way to get a month of mediocre B/Jobs!..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
penguin Posted March 29, 2006 Author Share Posted March 29, 2006 Honestly dude you have ISSUES. I am so deeply concerned for you I'm not even going to mention the fact you said too instead of two. Like someone said she was on the spot, that's just a jokey thing that people say. Is it marriage you are against or marrying her? Because if it's her you shouldn't be with her. who me? ... its not that, just dont think i'm "ready" for something like that....... and issues? please elaborate Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
penguin Posted March 29, 2006 Author Share Posted March 29, 2006 Go Ricki Go Ricki this is psychological abuse of the male species... i knew all the girls would come together against the penguin Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
andrew7 Posted March 29, 2006 Share Posted March 29, 2006 don't agree with all that, but thats your take on things Well as only one in three marriages is (reportedly) happy, one in three only stay together for the kids and one in three go nowhere, then it's probably not far off the truth (would you buy a new car with this reliability record?).... And you'll find it's usually the weakest partner who gets cheated on first......... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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