bens747 Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 It is with sad regret to inform those that I know in the club and who know me, that my wife died yesturday 4th March aged 29. On Friday the 3rd she seemed to have a bad cold or chest infection and was having problems breathing and by 15.00 on Saturday, she had passed away at Frimley Park Hospital. Everything that could have been done was done but alas I am now left to bring up Jessica on my own. It has been one of the hardest days of my life to explain to my 8 year old daughter, why she won't ever see her mummy again. But life will go on for Jessica and myself. I just wanted to let my friends know my feelings and hope that u never have to go through what myself and my daughter have been through today .... God bless u all ............ xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx I am heartened by all of the messages of support from everyone that has posted on this thread. Myself and Jessica have read every single one of them and am amazed at the amount of support from all of you. You have all helped to ease our pain at this difficult time through your messages. We especially liked the Foot Prints Poem which meant alot. Thanks to all of you from Ben and Jessica Lucy ... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GeordieSteve Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 I don't know you mate but by best wishes are with you an your child. Take care Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pixelfill Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 I'm really sorry to hear that mate. I can't find the words but even though I don't know you my thoughts are with you and Jessica. Mike Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jazz1 Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 geeeeeeee mate so sorry to hear, did you know what it was caused by:( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chilli Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 Sorry to hear about this, our thoughts are with you and your daughter. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CJ Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 I am very sorry to hear of your sad loss. My sympathy goes out to you and your daughter. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
markrzs Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 Oh my god what a shock Ben Can't imagine what you must be feeling like. Take care of yourself mate and Jessica. Mark Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrAngry Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 Ben I am so sorry to hear that. Jessica is a great kid and she couldn't have asked for a better father. Hopefully we will see you again soon at the SEM Regards Steve Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sideshowbob Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 So sorry to hear this bad news, my heart truely goes out to you & your daughter. I have 2 daughters of my own & i cannot even begin to imagine what you are going through right now. Simon... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paulfurn Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 Im very sorry to read this, my thoughts and prayers are with you both. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
supRo Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 I'm really sorry to hear this Ben, my heartfelt thoughts to you and your daughter Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peter richards Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 sorry , lost for words , Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ian C Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 What can I say? -Ian Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Getrag Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 Damn, so sorry to hear this. I hope you got all the support and luck possible your way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boxtobox Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 you dont know me but chin up to both you and my heart goes out to you both. I bring up my daughter on my owen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Terminator Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 Sincere condolences. I can't imagine what you and your daughter are going through. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dangerous brain Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 Christ I am stunned. Last time I remember sitting here agog like this was watching the news that Di had died in a car crash. Nothing I can say will change the situation at all. I hope that you have plenty of family support not just now but in the years to come man. 29 just aint right. I also feel for your daughter and your wifes parents. Its gonna be a hard time, try and get through it with as little negativity as you can manage even if negative is as much as you can manage for a while chap. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kosmic Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 Ben, i know i only know you through one of your friends who rents a property from us but my sincerest condolences to you and your little one. I can only begin to imagine what you must be feeling right now...thoughts are with you & Jessica. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scooter Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 Must have really knocked you for 6 mate. Life can be such a b*tch, don't really know what else to say other than offer my condolences. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RobSheffield Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 Sincere condolences Ben, my thoughts are with you and your daughter Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rob Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 Christ! I can't imagine how bad this feels for you. As bad as it gets, look at your daughter, be there for her and she'll help you as well. Your wife will always live on in her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
imi Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 Ben...sorry to hear this...Sincere condolenses. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pete Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 Very saddened to hear this. I wish you all the strength in the world to help you through this difficult time. I can't possibly begin to think what you're going through and can only offer you my sincerest condolences. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SteveR Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 You and your daughter are in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gzaerojon Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 I'm so sorry to hear this mate my deepest sympathy goes out to you and your daughter Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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