osso Posted December 12, 2005 Share Posted December 12, 2005 I've been seeing this bird recently who has a 10 yr old daughter, until now i've never met her! She's invited me over for a meal this weekend, which involves some shopping and a visit to tesco's! and buy a dog a bone! Apparently she's got her daughter with her this weekend, and looks like i'll be helping them put up the xmas decorations! yet i've not been around kids for years! how do you deal with a 10yr old daughter? all i know she's past the crawling stage and probably talks! what do i do?! do i let her put the xmas star on top of the tree and let her turn on the lights, then lock her in the cupboard? lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CJ Posted December 12, 2005 Share Posted December 12, 2005 Just be yourself mate. She is probably as unsure as you are. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jurgen-Jm-Imports Posted December 12, 2005 Share Posted December 12, 2005 at that age she will like you when she gets older she will realise we are all the same and will suss you out iether way your in for it lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mike Posted December 12, 2005 Share Posted December 12, 2005 erm, don't swear... kids eh? funny and unpredictable... Like CJ said, be yourself... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jurgen-Jm-Imports Posted December 12, 2005 Share Posted December 12, 2005 be yourself man like others said Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whitesupraboy2 Posted December 12, 2005 Share Posted December 12, 2005 chocolate - but shame aint a boy....the car would of sorted u. Having said that when i met my step sisters for first time (10 and 11) they both just wanted to go for ride in car. it was good ice breaker. now im having to baby sit this friday!! GGrrrr Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
far Posted December 12, 2005 Share Posted December 12, 2005 dont scratch yer balls infront of the kid Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
raymanuk Posted December 12, 2005 Share Posted December 12, 2005 Dude just be nice, she is 10 and it depends on her personality. Nothing you can do, so just be cool, calm and collected. I would get some info/tips off your g/f to so you can be prepared what to expect if you are that worries. Good luck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SuperSupra Posted December 12, 2005 Share Posted December 12, 2005 I've been seeing this bird recently who has a 10 yr old daughter, until now i've never met her! She's invited me over for a meal this weekend, which involves some shopping and a visit to tesco's! and buy a dog a bone! Her 10 yr old daughter has invited you over for a meal? Crikey, have you said you'll go? I wouldn't mate, stay well away. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peter richards Posted December 12, 2005 Share Posted December 12, 2005 if she calls you dad run like fxxk:help: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suprasport Posted December 12, 2005 Share Posted December 12, 2005 Her 10 yr old daughter has invited you over for a meal? Crikey, have you said you'll go? I wouldn't mate, stay well away. be yourself and don't try to hard, if she is stand offish be polite and have a laugh in general she will want to join in. been there so many times it is very hard work, depending on the mother. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dragonball Posted December 12, 2005 Share Posted December 12, 2005 Dont ask if she would like to see any pink mice.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kopite Posted December 12, 2005 Share Posted December 12, 2005 i HATE kids, never been around them. Gotta deal with the little scumbags at work, i feel for you dude! Just be yourself and don't try too hard - will probably scare her Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
osso Posted December 12, 2005 Author Share Posted December 12, 2005 Some scarsy gits on here! Just hope she likes my car, her mum does was kinda shocked when she said i could help them put up the decorations, more of a family thing, if she starts talking wedding bells im running! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kopite Posted December 12, 2005 Share Posted December 12, 2005 Weddings, babies, nappies, enjoy just kiddin dude, you could always let her drive the supra, then she'll like you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
far Posted December 12, 2005 Share Posted December 12, 2005 i want to feel you dude! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whitesupraboy2 Posted December 12, 2005 Share Posted December 12, 2005 he's talking to you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kopite Posted December 12, 2005 Share Posted December 12, 2005 You're just jealous Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tepster Posted December 12, 2005 Share Posted December 12, 2005 when u go to tesco's... get some alcopops for her. will all be down hill after that!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rob Posted December 13, 2005 Share Posted December 13, 2005 Don't get drunk and suggest a threesome, it just makes you look a bit pervy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bolsius Posted December 13, 2005 Share Posted December 13, 2005 Don't get drunk and suggest a threesome, it just makes you look a bit pervy. a bit? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SkyJawa Posted December 13, 2005 Share Posted December 13, 2005 Flipping ell Rob thats a bit close to the mark!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Supragal Posted December 13, 2005 Share Posted December 13, 2005 You'll be fine! Don't think of her as a potential step daughter, just think of her as a kid thats going to be well excited about putting up the decorations! Get some xmas tunes on having said that... not sure what stage 10 year olds are at these days, she might well be too busy texting on her mobile phone... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alex Posted December 13, 2005 Share Posted December 13, 2005 Don't know what she's like, but be warey of her not liking you, not because of you but because you're not her Dad. If it does go like that...don't take it personally, and rise above it. Treat her with the kindness you'd show your own child and she'll come around. PS if she is a little brat and you're still good to her, the mum will reward you And if she doesn't then slap the both of them and walk out Hopefully it will all be good though Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
osso Posted December 13, 2005 Author Share Posted December 13, 2005 Apparently she's good as gold im sure i'll be fine! not sure about playing the xmas songs tho! lol You're selling your single turbo VVTi for 14.5k? OMG! I'd snap it up if I was able to sell my supra quick enough! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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