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A first date is just that .. number 1. With that in mind you have no idea if you will really even get on, if you do you have no idea if you will end up in a relationship or just a quick bang, my suggestion go to a nice bar and have a drink or two, shoot the shit and see how it goes, keep it short couple of hours at most, have a reason to cut the evening short you will seem busy / in demand and she will then wonder if she said something wrong.. then if you like her call her if not she is expecting it.

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A first date is just that .. number 1. With that in mind you have no idea if you will really even get on, if you do you have no idea if you will end up in a relationship or just a quick bang, my suggestion go to a nice bar and have a drink or two, shoot the shit and see how it goes, keep it short couple of hours at most, have a reason to cut the evening short you will seem busy / in demand and she will then wonder if she said something wrong.. then if you like her call her if not she is expecting it.

 

are you the french guy off the tv show first dates?

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I say don't rush straight into something else mate trust me as you will try and find your ex in the new girl spesh if she was good in the bedroom lol I'd say be round mates for a while and get over the 1st one before getting involed with another

 

I don't intend on jumping in as I said before just getting back in the game and going to have some fun. I will tend to go for a older women next i think seem to be drawn to them as they usually are better in bed and have more things to talk about. Oh and take up less head room. (I'm 24) by older I mean 30 onwards.

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I say don't rush straight into something else mate trust me as you will try and find your ex in the new girl spesh if she was good in the bedroom lol I'd say be round mates for a while and get over the 1st one before getting involed with another

 

This, if you jump into another relationship it won't work out

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Only issue is with the older lot is they take every boyfriend as a marriage candidate and not a sausage for their hot dog bun.

 

that and you have to be nice to them, treat them well and spend money on them etc. It's awful, who ahs time for that?!

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Just do fun basic things, worst thing to do is try to impress with gifts outlandish things etc.

Remember you are trying to get to know the person, so do something which allows for talking but something also to take the seriousness out of it, if it calls for it etc.

 

If they find something like that boring then all they are after is a free ride to do some fun stuff at your expense and well not interested in who you are at all.

 

My first date with my now wife, wasn't actually a "date" at all. She had got out of a bad relationship a few months beforehand and she had lost her father unexpectedly a few months before that.

She wanted to get to know me, but didn't want a commitment of a "date", so we arranged to meet up had a small bite to eat and chatted in a pub and had a laugh, she said that it was one of the most comfortable nights out she had as there was no pressure as we both knew expectations.

 

After that we did these nights out more and more and then we started doing more fun things together, going to zoo's (she loves animals etc) going to see car shows (She also likes cars) Now we are happily married for nearly 10 years.

 

Of course people are different but I would really test to see if they are actually genuinely interested in you for who you are, rather than free food, activities, shopping... etc.

I swear in one of my previous relationships her wardrobe was full of clothes from guys she had duped into buying them for her only for her to dump them when they said no. Luckily I saw this fairly early on in the "relationship" and ran a mile.

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I say don't rush straight into something else mate trust me as you will try and find your ex in the new girl spesh if she was good in the bedroom lol I'd say be round mates for a while and get over the 1st one before getting involed with another

 

 

And make shore the ex dont find out how much you spend on the new supra . ;) LOL

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LoL some quality advice on this thread mate! Sorry to hear the news, if you fancy popping round for a beer or just chilling and messing about with the supra just shout.

 

My advice, meet in the square, stroll down to aruba on the pier and have a couple of drinks. Then if all goes well and its a nice eve a stroll along the beach. Worked for me :)

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LoL some quality advice on this thread mate! Sorry to hear the news, if you fancy popping round for a beer or just chilling and messing about with the supra just shout.

 

My advice, meet in the square, stroll down to aruba on the pier and have a couple of drinks. Then if all goes well and its a nice eve a stroll along the beach. Worked for me :)

 

Sounds like a good plan with the supra and chill. :thumbs: il WhatsApp at some point bud.

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