straightsix Posted September 7, 2005 Share Posted September 7, 2005 Well, my fiance has left me after 7 years .....no reasons, no explanations, no warning - nothing. Just gone first week (sheer hell) on my own. Buying "meals for one" had me in tears in Tesco's!! Well that's the bad news out of the way. Good news is I'll have more time to spend loving the supe!! As soon as the money comes from the sale of the house, I'll be looking at finding a TT Aerotop!! Spent last night "bachelorising" the house (Carmen Electra and Jennifer Lopez now above fireplace!) and starting to feel better about things. I still get a bit upset at times as I still don't know why things turned to rat sh*t. Anyway...getting plenty of attention, so will just enjoy it for a while! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DaveRex Posted September 7, 2005 Share Posted September 7, 2005 Good luck mate plenty more fish etc etc Two words - Clubs and Strip Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
straightsix Posted September 7, 2005 Author Share Posted September 7, 2005 Gotta be done....Spearmint Rhino booked Friday! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Class One Posted September 7, 2005 Share Posted September 7, 2005 Go to Tallin, that'll get her out your system! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TRD3000GT Posted September 7, 2005 Share Posted September 7, 2005 Hard at first.. But Im sure you will start to have fun again soon.. You can do all the **Naughty** things you thought you were too old for now with out anyone looking down badly at you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daveburwash Posted September 7, 2005 Share Posted September 7, 2005 Been there mate, it does get better in time, best of luck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Green Peace Posted September 7, 2005 Share Posted September 7, 2005 Enjoy being single while it lasts...though you prob dont feel that way right now....but there is a great sence of freedom attached to being single...grass is always greener as they say i know but... A mate of mine split up with his g/f after a 4 year relationship he was very upset..and still getting over it after 6 months...BUT..hes been doing so much shagging and made some new friends too as he has become a social animal..also hes managed to catch up on a few of his mates that he hasn't had much chance of seeing because of being in an intense relationship for 4 years....so Enjoy the freedom whilst it lasts. Everything has a beginning and an end in life (as they say) but friends are often more reliable than relationships... Fete will dictate your future and you will meet the right gal when ya least expect it.. Oh and one more piece of advice 'Wear Sunscreen' Si Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
terribleturner Posted September 7, 2005 Share Posted September 7, 2005 Too bad mate, but it sounds like your looking positive. Good luck mate and remember, the sup will never leave you, just make sure you take her out for a drink once in awhile down the petrol station, maybe some new boots when you see the tread going, and possible a new outfit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Green Peace Posted September 7, 2005 Share Posted September 7, 2005 Too bad mate, but it sounds like your looking positive. Good luck mate and remember, the sup will never leave you, just make sure you take her out for a drink once in awhile down the petrol station, maybe some new boots when you see the tread going, and possible a new outfit. PMSL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
straightsix Posted September 7, 2005 Author Share Posted September 7, 2005 Oh and one more piece of advice 'Wear Sunscreen' Si I always buckle my seatbelt... Cheers for all the kind words guys. I'm just gonna go put my "lucky pants" on and hit the town! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dragonball Posted September 7, 2005 Share Posted September 7, 2005 Hard at first.. But Im sure you will start to have fun again soon.. You can do all the **Naughty** things you thought you were too old for now with out anyone looking down badly at you! Never too old mate.... Not so much a speedboat as the 'slow boat to China' Have fun m8 - in 6 months you will have forgoten what you saw in her! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JohnA Posted September 8, 2005 Share Posted September 8, 2005 Well, my fiance has left me after 7 years ... some women just can't wait to get married ...seriously now, it's always for the best. Nature's way of making you meet someone better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
penguin Posted September 8, 2005 Share Posted September 8, 2005 don't let the get you down.... enjoy life, and sow ya wild oats.... and get into shape... it'll be like a new life!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
penguin Posted September 8, 2005 Share Posted September 8, 2005 some women just can't wait to get married QUOTE] very very very very true john..... one chick i met just over a year ago started talking about marriage on the fourth date ... she would of made a great trophy girlfriend, but i couldnt her marital instincts get the better of me... so i dated her best friend instead Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SkyJawa Posted September 8, 2005 Share Posted September 8, 2005 Exactly same thing happened to me mate, only I'd been with her 5.5 years. Was very difficult at first, but things get better and my social life has never been so mental!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JohnA Posted September 8, 2005 Share Posted September 8, 2005 This is probably best for her too. You obviously were not what she wanted from life. Now both of you have a chance to find a better match, would either of you prefer to continue a stale relationship? Life moves on. As they say, there's more fish in the sea Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ceptik Posted September 8, 2005 Share Posted September 8, 2005 Thought i'd add a bit. I feel for you mate. My fiance split up with me a month ago after a 4 year relationship. We only got engaged in april! She said she'd been unhappy for 6 months. When i asked her why she agreed to marry me she said 'I just wanted to see if it would work'. Gee, thanks! Spend £2500 on taking her away for her 21st and buying a ring. Lost about £1000 on selling the ring. BITCH! Anyway, Im much happier now. Feel like a weight has been lifted and never enjoyed a good club so much in my life. Need to get laid as soon as but i'll try that this weekend. lol Chin up dude. It'll get better! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roboldham Posted September 8, 2005 Share Posted September 8, 2005 Fete will dictate your future and you will meet the right gal when ya least expect it.. Really? Last time I went to one all I saw was a few old ladies selling jam and a tombola for some cheese. R Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dangerous brain Posted September 8, 2005 Share Posted September 8, 2005 Well my wife did a runner in december (can't blame her i smell bad heh heh) anyways I'm now not far off having a sproglet pop out of my new girlfreind so life couldn't be any more different to last december. Thats why I am selling my TT aerotop so you fancy buying it ??? :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paul_y3k Posted September 8, 2005 Share Posted September 8, 2005 dont tell me the old ... I dont know what I want any more speech ... I think we've all been there, and im begining to think it a genetic things for girls. They get in stable relationship when there are say ohh 20, and at age 25 the pyscho gene kicks in and you get the speech. mate things will get soooo much better for you now ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SkyJawa Posted September 8, 2005 Share Posted September 8, 2005 bang on with those ages mate! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whitesupraboy2 Posted September 8, 2005 Share Posted September 8, 2005 i got the stalker at 20 2 yrs of being single and love it. Day i get married is day i lose a Ball Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MONKEYmark Posted September 8, 2005 Share Posted September 8, 2005 i just split up too, its hard thinking of all the good times you had together. just be happy of the time you had together and look fondly on it.it hits you when you think you will never hear or see them again which is sad. i thought she was the one for me. 7 years is sure a long time to be together. was she after commitment. onwards and upwards. time will make things better. one door closes another opens Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scoboblio Posted September 8, 2005 Share Posted September 8, 2005 Really? Last time I went to one all I saw was a few old ladies selling jam and a tombola for some cheese. R I know this is a serious convo, but that had me in stitches Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jake Posted September 8, 2005 Share Posted September 8, 2005 i just split up too, its hard thinking of all the good times you had together. just be happy of the time you had together and look fondly on it.it hits you when you think you will never hear or see them again which is sad.'Skyline Lee' and you are finished? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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