Graham1984 Posted December 1, 2011 Share Posted December 1, 2011 Sorry to anyone that had started this as a serious thread and feel that I have tarnished the content somewhat. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SupraStar 3000 Posted December 1, 2011 Share Posted December 1, 2011 Sometimes it takes a joke or two too lighten the mood and get people talking. "Breaking the ice" to the OP, don't loose hope. Have faith in the interweb. She'll provide you with a wife and plenty of filth to be getting on with in the mean time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Josh Posted December 1, 2011 Share Posted December 1, 2011 Thai bride? Make sure she doesn't understand English, and I hear they can take a punch quite well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scooter Posted December 1, 2011 Share Posted December 1, 2011 One of the biggest snag with me is I have an unfortunate problem of feeling nauseous 24/7 for the past 7 years so making the "single life" worth it or doing what I can is pretty much out the question and was also the reason for loosing the most amazing girl 4 years back, that also being the reasonfor my un-attendance to supra meets and shows but I'm really going to try with supra pod 2012 even booked the time off work, so my life has mainly consisted the past 5 years or so of sitting in my room watching films, playing games and seeing my close mates visit and pop to local places, making it EXTREMELY difficult to meet new people. I guess... I don't wanna always bug my friends and family with my problems (who wants to see a guy that just moans all the time) no matter how supportive and amazing they are but even though It may sound looser/sad what ever way you may put it I turn to a car owners club, as I said I think your a good lot, were all human.. Thanks for the effort of replying. I think this can be the ideal place for it, I've seen a few threads like this of over the years, even started one! and whilst there is a bit of 'man' banter about the whole thing in general the OP gets some good advice and empathy. The nauseous thing could be a food intolerance (my Brother has/had similar problems to you) and i'd look into tests for this as these things as it can effect your willingness to be social in general, and it appears to be holding you back and you directly blame it for the previous breakup? The easy thing to do is make the mental picture of - I'm single, I feel bad 24/7, I (think I) broke up with my previous girlfriend because I felt like this, therefore how will get/keep a girlfriend - and put you in a catch 22/downer. The above is not true and the way you feel will not stop you having a successful relationship but I would first try to see purely for your general health and well being what might be causing the nausea? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Abz Posted December 1, 2011 Share Posted December 1, 2011 I can lend you one of mine... for a fee. When you least expect it you will find someone, trust me... I am the love Guru. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mike33 Posted December 1, 2011 Share Posted December 1, 2011 Married life is GREAT!! But got to be with the right person. I think he needs to go to different pubs or somewhere that is always lively. Not a really loud club cos they cannot here a word your saying. Go to the bar where the ladies you want to speak to. Check there fingers make sure no married rings order yourself a drink and offer them one usually they say Yes Sorted get chatting. Your away at the races. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Graham1984 Posted December 1, 2011 Share Posted December 1, 2011 I can agree their fighting skills are 2nd to none.... Plus if you get enough of them in bangkok you can have one changing the tv ch and have the other stroking your balls while you reload. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mike33 Posted December 1, 2011 Share Posted December 1, 2011 Are there names from bangkok TOMTIN or TINTON Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Graham1984 Posted December 1, 2011 Share Posted December 1, 2011 All depends on what ping pong ball pushing championship you are at. On a serious note though if anyone goes to bangkok then stay at the centara grand at centralworld which is probably the best hotel I will ever stay at. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tkddav3 Posted December 1, 2011 Share Posted December 1, 2011 I just got dumped by the g.f, one of the negatives of a relationship lol im only 21 and theres plenty more fish in the sea so i think its time i get back to erm "playing the field"! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
a98pmalcolm Posted December 1, 2011 Author Share Posted December 1, 2011 Thanks for responses, it's making a good read.. Sadly Scooter we don't know what's causing the nausea, I've had so many tests and nothing shows. I've seen the head doctors even paid to see a HYPNOTHERAPIST, no luck. Symtems get worse when I drink, travel, get excited, get nervous (beyond bearable) etc etc so it makes it near to impossible to meet people. Regarding Jurgans post, the problem with the whole internet dating and social networking thing is (not with everyone) but most of the woman on that are either obese or just plain weird. I met 2 girls from the internet and both turned out to be nut jobs once you met them. Thai bride? Jesus I'm not that desperate lol.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brazil Posted December 1, 2011 Share Posted December 1, 2011 I am going to spend New years eve in Buzio's Rio de janeiro..! Get yourself a Hotel room near by and we go and party...! -UFQQI50roE&feature=related Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Havard Posted December 1, 2011 Share Posted December 1, 2011 I can agree their fighting skills are 2nd to none.... Plus if you get enough of them in bangkok you can have one changing the tv ch and have the other stroking their balls while you reload. Fixed it for you Graham..!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Graham1984 Posted December 1, 2011 Share Posted December 1, 2011 HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA I actually thought I had wrote that and went and checked. In all seriousness that can be a problem so always check the hardware. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Notts_TT Posted December 2, 2011 Share Posted December 2, 2011 It sounds like your suffering with anxiety, google the symptoms mate, I suffer with it badly, I have nausia, light headedness and servere fatigue everyday, it gets me down pal :-( On the partner side, just get out and have fun, you'll meet someone when u least expect it. Dan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Holden1989 Posted December 2, 2011 Share Posted December 2, 2011 RWD is more fun (and less hassle) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Holden1989 Posted December 2, 2011 Share Posted December 2, 2011 Just buy a bigger turbo if your struggling to pull, seems to work lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
supra_aero Posted December 2, 2011 Share Posted December 2, 2011 http://forums.menshealth.com/eve/forums/a/tpc/f/230100665/m/6711047811 Might cheer you up lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AndrewOW Posted December 2, 2011 Share Posted December 2, 2011 RWD is more fun (and less hassle) Especially if you call them a different name while enjoying the ride! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
supra_aero Posted December 2, 2011 Share Posted December 2, 2011 Got to say some of the posts on that link I put up are absolutely hilarious!!! Makes me very happy I am single!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Holden1989 Posted December 2, 2011 Share Posted December 2, 2011 Especially if you call them a different name while enjoying the ride! Exactly, and it doesnt cost you a fortune in girly/manly crap to make it up to them afterwards!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gabriella Posted December 3, 2011 Share Posted December 3, 2011 All your comments are very valuable and all i can add to it is....... wear sunscreen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
a98pmalcolm Posted December 3, 2011 Author Share Posted December 3, 2011 Thanks for the comments people, and some amazing PM's people sent. Really means alot. Had a few mates over tonight got some smiles going and going to rush to bed before some major comedown happens... Strange how I want the opposite for the car, I want the car to be single and get rid if the twins but I dont wanna be single and would rather have twins Paul Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SupraStar 3000 Posted December 3, 2011 Share Posted December 3, 2011 From my experience,... the more you want for a g/f, the harder it gets. Just sit back, enjoy some casual flirting / talking,.. and WHAM! When you least expect it,... you find her. I honestly know how you feel. Its the worst feeling in the world. It was killed me being single. Be confident (but no arrogant). smile lots. Let her talk and be interested, compliment everything she says, compliment everything about her, be generous (buy her dinner) and most of all,... show her respect. This might sound really strange but when I was single, I needed a nice shirt for a date the following evening. After finding a nice shirt I went on the date and everything went really well. Ultimately it didn't work out (due to me getting the Supra stuck in the snow and having to hitch a ride home with date,.. yep, true story) but the shirt seemed to give me confidence,... and so every date I had from that point on, I made and effort to buy a shirt, trousers, jacket or whatever from the same shop. Maybe I thought it was 'lucky',.... but it did give me confidence which helps. So find something or technique that helps you and gives you confidence to be that little bit better on the date. Good luck you handsome man! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
a98pmalcolm Posted December 4, 2011 Author Share Posted December 4, 2011 The past few years with all the crap I have dealt with was taught me to camouflage well without people having a clue how I truly feel. Even my work mates don't know I'm in this way of feeling for the past few years (not just single but amongst other things) the smiles go on (a few real) but its the way it has to be. I always come across positive and jolly. Thanks for all the posts its really cool of you lot to have a good chat about it. I think some people don't really understand nor can I expect them to with the nausea problem that puts me though agony 24/7 but I'll try to keep the clock ticking and see how it all pans out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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