Jamesy Posted March 14, 2011 Author Share Posted March 14, 2011 If there are no kids involved and it works for both of you I would say ok in a relationship but not marriage. On the other hand one of my friends has a kid and can't even remember the last time they slept together but seems unfair somehow for him to just put up with that. Yeah i know one of my Dads friends that didnt get "jiggy2 with his wife for like 01 years and ultimately played away - cant say i blame him to be honest. Some people can just be unfaithful, have their fun, and get on with their normal life - other people have this old concious thing that gets in the way!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charlotte Posted March 14, 2011 Share Posted March 14, 2011 Some people can just be unfaithful, have their fun, and get on with their normal life - other people have this old concious thing that gets in the way!!!! So, who is the lucky girl then James? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamesy Posted March 14, 2011 Author Share Posted March 14, 2011 So, who is the lucky girl then James? ha!! unfortunately i have always been a good boy, which isnt really all that much fun....but i seriously doubt i could live with the guilt... borrrrring eh!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Josh Posted March 14, 2011 Share Posted March 14, 2011 ha!! unfortunately i have always been a good boy, which isnt really all that much fun....but i seriously doubt i could live with the guilt... borrrrring eh!! You need a hooker. You don't have to feel guilty as it's just her job... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamesy Posted March 14, 2011 Author Share Posted March 14, 2011 You need a hooker. You don't have to feel guilty as it's just her job... Good point ... 2 of my friends are married, with kids. They only ever play away with hookers as they say its not really like an affair, just a [email protected] with a complete stranger. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charlotte Posted March 14, 2011 Share Posted March 14, 2011 Good point ... 2 of my friends are married, with kids. They only ever play away with hookers as they say its not really like an affair, just a [email protected] with a complete stranger. That's pretty offensive! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Josh Posted March 14, 2011 Share Posted March 14, 2011 Good point ... 2 of my friends are married, with kids. They only ever play away with hookers as they say its not really like an affair, just a [email protected] with a complete stranger. That's crazy! Ah well, I guess some people can't help themselves. A quick "hand shandy" is good enough for me when the missus isn't in the mood Maybe tell them about the old towel and glove job so they don't risk catching anything or being caught cheating! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamesy Posted March 14, 2011 Author Share Posted March 14, 2011 I know i found that a bit wierd too!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tooley Posted March 14, 2011 Share Posted March 14, 2011 That's crazy! Ah well, I guess some people can't help themselves. A quick "hand shandy" is good enough for me when the missus isn't in the mood Maybe tell them about the old towel and glove job so they don't risk catching anything or being caught cheating! we take the piss out of one of the lads at work because his mrs caught him having a 4 knuckle shuffle and bollocked him saying it was as good as cheating Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamesy Posted March 14, 2011 Author Share Posted March 14, 2011 we take the piss out of one of the lads at work because his mrs caught him having a 4 knuckle shuffle and bollocked him saying it was as good as cheating WOAH - what would she do if she walked in on him having a 3some!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tbourner Posted March 14, 2011 Share Posted March 14, 2011 we take the piss out of one of the lads at work because his mrs caught him having a 4 knuckle shuffle and bollocked him saying it was as good as cheating Jeez that's harsh, my missus wonders why I don't do it more often! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wez Posted March 14, 2011 Share Posted March 14, 2011 Surely sleeping with a prostitute is far worse, its planned, thought out and paid for. Nothing like being on a night out and losing control when drunk. I don't condone either by the way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matt H Posted March 14, 2011 Share Posted March 14, 2011 Jeez that's harsh, my missus wonders why I don't do it more often! I guess if you're on a date with Pamela Handerson you're strictly cheating? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matt H Posted March 14, 2011 Share Posted March 14, 2011 What Jamesy is describing defeats the objective of getting married. If a couple want a 'sharing' marriage then they should live as partners and not tarnish what marriage should be, which ideally should be two people completely satisfied with each other (and not interested in others) that they devote the rest of the their lives together - obviously this requires commitment. You can't have your cake and eat it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Josh Posted March 14, 2011 Share Posted March 14, 2011 we take the piss out of one of the lads at work because his mrs caught him having a 4 knuckle shuffle and bollocked him saying it was as good as cheating Haha, I've been caught by my girlfriend before when I'd had a few drinks and she was asleep. She doesn't care though I'd have told her to either help me out or p!ss off if she had a go at me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamesy Posted March 14, 2011 Author Share Posted March 14, 2011 You can't have your cake and eat it. I still dont get that bloody saying!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Josh Posted March 14, 2011 Share Posted March 14, 2011 I still dont get that bloody saying!!! Yeah, if it's your cake, then surely you can eat it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charlotte Posted March 14, 2011 Share Posted March 14, 2011 Jeez that's harsh, my missus wonders why I don't do it more often! Surely it's all personal preference. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ian W Posted March 14, 2011 Share Posted March 14, 2011 What Jamesy is describing defeats the objective of getting married. If a couple want a 'sharing' marriage then they should live as partners and not tarnish what marriage should be, which ideally should be two people completely satisfied with each other (and not interested in others) that they devote the rest of the their lives together - obviously this requires commitment. You can't have your cake and eat it. Apparently I do agree with Matt on some things Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tbourner Posted March 14, 2011 Share Posted March 14, 2011 I still dont get that bloody saying!!! Yeah, if it's your cake, then surely you can eat it I told you in post #23; if you eat the cake then it's gone, so you no longer have it. You can either have it and keep it to look at, or you can eat it whereby it will be gone forever and you can no longer 'have' it. The question really is WTF would you want to 'have' a cake that you weren't planning to eat, meh. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Josh Posted March 14, 2011 Share Posted March 14, 2011 I told you in post #23; if you eat the cake then it's gone, so you no longer have it. You can either have it and keep it to look at, or you can eat it whereby it will be gone forever and you can no longer 'have' it. The question really is WTF would you want to 'have' a cake that you weren't planning to eat, meh. Haha, oh yeah It's go stale pretty sharpish Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matt H Posted March 14, 2011 Share Posted March 14, 2011 Apparently I do agree with Matt on some things It's happening all too often of late Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matt H Posted March 14, 2011 Share Posted March 14, 2011 I told you in post #23; if you eat the cake then it's gone, so you no longer have it. You can either have it and keep it to look at, or you can eat it whereby it will be gone forever and you can no longer 'have' it. The question really is WTF would you want to 'have' a cake that you weren't planning to eat, meh. If he does eat it then it would end up going through the digestion process and the saying would shift to 'you can't have your turd and ea....' on wait........ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedM Posted March 14, 2011 Share Posted March 14, 2011 we take the piss out of one of the lads at work because his mrs caught him having a 4 knuckle shuffle and bollocked him saying it was as good as cheating For me, masturbation is sex with someone I love. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aero-M Posted March 14, 2011 Share Posted March 14, 2011 too many people get married without understanding the true meaning. Comments like vowes are just words! They are not just words, if you feel that then marrage isn't for you. Being single is the time to sleep around if you so wish, being married means so much more than just sex, if married people sleep around they are not (IN) love with their spouse, they may love them but that's completly different. however I still find it hard to understand someone cheating and then saying but I still love them. To me marrage was something I have always wanted, to get married and then have a family. My wife is my soulmate and best friend. We trust each other totally. We have the bond of making two lovely children, looking after them and each other, helping each other through any of lives problems. I am younger than my wife and as such have a higher sex drive, however as I get older I realise more and more being married and (IN) love with someone means so much more than sex. Trust is something very hard to find and once broken can't ever be replaced no matter how hard you try. Maybe that is why the vowe " foresaking all others remain faithfull to each other for as long as you both shall live" Is used in every marrage ceremony. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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