Purity14 Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 I don't get how people can get screwed over by women. I've never been in a relationship (granted I'm on 22) where the girl was crazy or I hated her. This isn't a dig at anyone but it seems weird how you'd let a girl mess you around. I'd like to think I'm strong enough that if my girlfriend started messing me about and cheated on me or anything, that I'd get rid of her straight away. As well if I started doing that I'd expect her to leave me too. Wait till they blackmail you with something; after all, no-one is squeeky clean. When you get to that point you will have thoughts of how to dispose of the body. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charlotte Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 So it's sounds like it's more of a hatred/what happened feeling rather than feeling like you still care for her? To be honest 2 years is not a long time - if she was having thoughts about your situation and care then, I suspect it was right to finish when it did. When any relationship ends it's easy to question what went wrong or why things didn't last. The truth is sometimes things just don't work. You will find someone who you gel with and you'll wonder why you even thought this way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TonytotheB Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 Wait till they blackmail you with something; after all, no-one is squeeky clean. When you get to that point you will have thoughts of how to dispose of the body. Purity, is this just a sign of the Women that you go out with haha i went out with a girl recently. Went ok, didn't feel much, ended it. She turned into a bunny boiler Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Purity14 Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 Purity, is this just a sign of the Women that you go out with haha i went out with a girl recently. Went ok, didn't feel much, ended it. She turned into a bunny boiler I have found a nice one now, who doesnt do all that nonsence. But I have had some crazy crazy, CRAZY, women in my time. Drugs, Jail, Debt, Stalkers and Suicide cases. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charlotte Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 i wish i could teach my wonefull ability to switch off emotion . i know that sounds daft but if something feels like it couyld cause emotional disturbance i can switch it off and feel nothing, its a state of mind mate , just be mentally strong. It's actually not a good way to live. Why would you want to switch off emotion? You deal with it, you talk it through you mourn, whatever - then you go on and live your life. It's more mentally strong to 'deal' with something than to shut it away in the depths of your mind where it could potentially affect you later in life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Purity14 Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 She turned into a bunny boiler She didn't TURN into a bunny, she WAS one already. Best thing to do with Bunnys, is the same thing with suicide cases - Change your number and vanish. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Purity14 Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 It's actually not a good way to live. Why would you want to switch off emotion? You deal with it, you talk it through you mourn, whatever - then you go on and live your life. It's more mentally strong to 'deal' with something than to shut it away in the depths of your mind where it could potentially affect you later in life. Charlotte, as a "Switcher Off Of Emotions" I can officially say that I have no mental health problems whatsoever. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charlotte Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 Charlotte, as a "Switcher Off Of Emotions" I can officially say that I have no mental health problems whatsoever. How old are you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Purity14 Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 Im 26, but have dealt with a lot, in terms of death and unspeakable things. Longest relationship 4 years, second longest 3 years. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rob_Mitchell Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 How old are you? classic Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Purity14 Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 classic Oh, she was playing a joke on me? ..here was I thinking it was a serious friday conversation Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charlotte Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 Im 26, but have dealt with a lot, in terms of death and unspeakable things. Longest relationship 4 years, second longest 3 years. 26? Wow, I had you younger. 4 years is nothing. Come back and see me when you've had a relationship for longer than 5 years - and not in your twenties. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Purity14 Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 26? Wow, I had you younger. 4 years is nothing. Come back and see me when you've had a relationship for longer than 5 years - and not in your twenties. Im taken, but thanks for the offer. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charlotte Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 Im taken. Can I take this opportunity to wish her all the best. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Purity14 Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 Can I take this opportunity to wish her all the best. She would really appriciate that actually, its the first girl ive met that can take complements like that without thinking there is some kind of double-meaning going on. Thanks Charlotte. :hugs: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
a98pmalcolm Posted December 17, 2010 Author Share Posted December 17, 2010 I don't get how people can get screwed over by women. I've never been in a relationship (granted I'm on 22) where the girl was crazy or I hated her. This isn't a dig at anyone but it seems weird how you'd let a girl mess you around. This is the thing. You never think that till its happened. If you have never had issues with GF's or with the one you have u will think how could these things happen? YOur very lucky not to have bad experiences but TBH they will come in some form... I haven been unlucky from the start, like my 1st relationship when i was a bit younger was a year long till she slept with my best mate 4 times behind my back and her mates forced her to tell me.... 2 other relationships they just stoped bothering (but they came running back, one still wanting me, frickin pysico) Not blowing my own horn or trumpet or what ever ya call it but im not a bad fella, im loyal, never shout, honest (never lie), wont aruge over the smallest things and give all my efforts after what if have learnt from the past. But still it happens...... Sadly rubbish after rubbish is in the Book Of Malc but as we all hope they mite be a happy ending to it.... That sounded pretty cheesy so i apologize lol. Thanks for the posts and hearing your stories, sorry if my thread bought up and supressed memories. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gaz1 Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 This is the thing. You never think that till its happened. If you have never had issues with GF's or with the one you have u will think how could these things happen? YOur very lucky not to have bad experiences but TBH they will come in some form... I haven been unlucky from the start, like my 1st relationship when i was a bit younger was a year long till she slept with my best mate 4 times behind my back and her mates forced her to tell me.... 2 other relationships they just stoped bothering (but they came running back, one still wanting me, frickin pysico) Not blowing my own horn or trumpet or what ever ya call it but im not a bad fella, im loyal, never shout, honest (never lie), wont aruge over the smallest things and give all my efforts after what if have learnt from the past. But still it happens...... Sadly rubbish after rubbish is in the Book Of Malc but as we all hope they mite be a happy ending to it.... That sounded pretty cheesy so i apologize lol. Thanks for the posts and hearing your stories, sorry if my thread bought up and supressed memories. erm maybe your crap in bed, maybe worth looking at that............... bugger where are the smileys now we have had a upgrade Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest wantthatone Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 floppy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Purity14 Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 Not blowing my own horn or trumpet or what ever ya call it but im not a bad fella, im loyal, never shout, honest (never lie), wont aruge over the smallest things and give all my efforts after what if have learnt from the past. But still it happens...... Sadly rubbish after rubbish is in the Book Of Malc but as we all hope they mite be a happy ending to it.... That sounded pretty cheesy so i apologize lol. You are too nice, you need to discipline them to some degree, or at least let them know that you arent to be messed around, otherwise they will walk all over you. Both your friend, (hopefully EX-friend) and your girlfriend at the time believed that they could sleep together, and get away with it, and there would be no consequences. IMO, she wanted what you werent giving her, most women say that they want a nice kind caring gentle man. Reality is that they secretly like abit of rough, and thats what she was getting from your friend, a dangerous rough exciting time. Im nice, friendly, honest, respectful and very loyal, but if you cross me - Ill nail your dog to your back door whilst your sleeping. - Keep it in mind, if they BOTH knew it would have been a 'bad life choice' to engage in such activities and disrespect you like that, I doubt the whole thing would have began. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snake Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 look on the bright side when you get married,if they leave they usually take the house with them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The-Plethora Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 Hope things get better! Snakes with tits the lot of em! (there is the odd exception) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Josh Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 Hope things get better! http://dan.newz.ro/gallery/so-funny/kitten_hugs_teddy.gif Snakes with tits the lot of em! (there is the odd exception) Cute gif Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
a98pmalcolm Posted December 17, 2010 Author Share Posted December 17, 2010 You are too nice, you need to discipline them to some degree, or at least let them know that you arent to be messed around, otherwise they will walk all over you. Both your friend, (hopefully EX-friend) and your girlfriend at the time believed that they could sleep together, and get away with it, and there would be no consequences. IMO, she wanted what you werent giving her, most women say that they want a nice kind caring gentle man. Reality is that they secretly like abit of rough, and thats what she was getting from your friend, a dangerous rough exciting time. Im nice, friendly, honest, respectful and very loyal, but if you cross me - Ill nail your dog to your back door whilst your sleeping. - Keep it in mind, if they BOTH knew it would have been a 'bad life choice' to engage in such activities and disrespect you like that, I doubt the whole thing would have began. lol im not a walk over... If i dont like sumin they do i will say and i will always have my foot firmly on the ground, im not a fool that takes any old shi! lol... She was just a whore.. and she continued to sleep with many athers after me... No loss with that one. As for my mate at the time he was just being a prick and i kicked his car in... Mates again now we all grown up.. We were all pretty young then... erm maybe your crap in bed, maybe worth looking at that............... bugger where are the smileys now we have had a upgrade errr cheers... I dont think im that bad in those departments.. wont go into detail lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scott Posted December 17, 2010 Share Posted December 17, 2010 lol im not a walk over... If i dont like sumin they do i will say and i will always have my foot firmly on the ground lol... Ask yourself a very serious question. If you went out tonight, met a very nice girl who you got along famously with, had a really good time and procured her number with the ambition to go out for a drink or a meal at a later date......... would this other girl even be on your mind? When you are thinking about her, pining after her, are you sitting with a beer in your hand watching drivel on TV with nothing but your thoughts to occupy your mind? Are you looking at friends in their relationships and looking back to the relationship you once had? If so then none of this has anything to do with that particular girl. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
a98pmalcolm Posted December 17, 2010 Author Share Posted December 17, 2010 Hi scott. Quick note the one that cheated isnt the one that the thread was about. Erm... Problem i have is i dont really do much.. so all i have most of the time is games and TV and thoughts to myself. I dont think of her all the time. Just if i saw a pic or heard about what shes up to i would get a bit on the crappy side! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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