JustGav Posted June 28, 2010 Share Posted June 28, 2010 Well, if matey boy is a bit of player.... have you had yourself checked at the clinic... harsh I know but I think all know someone who caught something at some stage or other. I've been there as well with the ex-wife, tried the try-again thing, and it didn't work... Now I have a new missus, far better than the old one HHHgF9KAdzw Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Porky1978 Posted June 28, 2010 Share Posted June 28, 2010 Talk. Tell her you will not accept this man in your life. No way whatsoever. If she loves you or has any respect for you she will accept this. Then if it works out consider joint counselling sessions to get through it together. If things dont got the way you want or she is not prepared to do the things you want to do to get through it, then walk away. It WILL be hard but in the end you have to do whats right FOR YOU. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lbm Posted June 28, 2010 Share Posted June 28, 2010 bumped into to her this morning and it all got very tearful (which i am rather ashamed of as i wanted to remain strong) she wants to talk later, do think i should go or just draw a line under it all?? You can finish this at any time, right now, in an hour, tomorrow, a month - you get the point? However, when an opportunityto talk arrives, I would consider taking it. You have to see what she says and whether you feel/believe what she is saying is understandable/forgivable has honesty/dishonesty etc.... If you don't believe her and or want her, you can go go back to option one above, at any time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fizzle Posted June 28, 2010 Author Share Posted June 28, 2010 Well, if matey boy is a bit of player.... have you had yourself checked at the clinic... harsh I know but I think all know someone who caught something at some stage or other. ] i dont think it went that far as it was rag week (sorry girls) and she claims her monthly helper was still in the next day, but never the less i don't believe nothing happened either. either way i haven't been getting it since anyway so i'm all clear at least!!! lmao at the vid... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JustGav Posted June 28, 2010 Share Posted June 28, 2010 i dont think it went that far as it was rag week (sorry girls) and she claims her monthly helper was still in the next day, but never the less i don't believe nothing happened either. either way i haven't been getting it since anyway so i'm all clear at least!!! lmao at the vid... Glad you got a giggle out of the vid, it isn't a fun place to be, and what I will say, get in touch with your mates, the ones who are still in the background since you started this serious relationship, a few will be waiting in the wings to take you out and just have a good time. As far as the painters go? Hmmm, doesn't stop everyone you know..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AJI Posted June 28, 2010 Share Posted June 28, 2010 From the sounds of things letting this part of your life become history is definitely the best thing to do. You would definitely have a worse time if you try to keeps things going. And there is always someone out there if you wish to start something fresh. Make a firm choice to move on in your mind and stick with it 100%. Don't look back at what could have been, but instead look forward as to the 1000's of possibilities waiting for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fizzle Posted June 28, 2010 Author Share Posted June 28, 2010 luckily i'm not the type of guy to ditch his m8's when a bit of skirt comes along, so still have the go out, get pissed, f**k a slag option.. just not really at that stage yet but its only monday thinks may change by the weekend!! i know it's for the best but find it hard to let go of the last 8 years, and at the end of the day i still love her regardless of what happened and as much as i'd like to go the whole nasty "go f**k yourself" route and never speak to her again i don't think thats possible.. i'm not really that type of guy even though i try to be.. goes to show being the nice guy gets u shit on, and i'm not into scat! (2 girls one cup anyone?) would appreciate some of the ladies opinions on the subject!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ilicos Posted June 28, 2010 Share Posted June 28, 2010 Mate, any woman that would choose to be friends with the bloke that is causing you so much pain over your relationship is not worth it! Ask her one question; Will you never have anything to do with this guy ever again? If the answer is 'yes', then maybe you can talk, otherwise sayanora! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dane_stone Posted June 28, 2010 Share Posted June 28, 2010 Dude get rid and text your mates "split up with misses, strip club Saturday" P.S as a helping bunch we are MKIVSupra.net meet at a strip club to help out a fellow member Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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