AndrewOW Posted November 30, 2009 Share Posted November 30, 2009 Excellent Charlotte! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
p3te Posted November 30, 2009 Share Posted November 30, 2009 Give jerry springer a shout :-P Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ellis Posted November 30, 2009 Share Posted November 30, 2009 Show her your hairy rat Then look on eBay for a pair of nads and a life Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stevie_b Posted November 30, 2009 Share Posted November 30, 2009 infact ill bet my life and gareths supra on it lolHigh stakes indeed! You can't go around betting a supra away! Smeared on with the back of a spoon. That deep lol Jazz, this thread has entertained me on a grim Monday morning, so I shall try to help. I would advise to tell her, face to face, that she's a super girl but you're not ready for a relationship at the present time. She gets the message, and you're not hurting her feelings or making up a massive lie about prison, being bi, sleeping with her sister, sleeping with her brother, fish fingers, or any combination of the above. Those who think Jazz's approach is all about an oversized ego maybe don't know men and their emotions as well as they think they do. To me, Jazz's approach is not that of an egotistical bloke. It's the approach of someone who is not used to amorous attention from females, and doesn't really know how to bat it away when it's unwanted: it's something that a lot of men don't have much practise in. ... or I may be wrong and perhaps Jazz's after-hours activities make Hugh Heffner look like a celibate monk. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stonkin Posted November 30, 2009 Share Posted November 30, 2009 Cant believe ive just read all 7 pages of this! So what this mornings update Jazz, i take it you've done the right thing by now?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ozz Posted November 30, 2009 Share Posted November 30, 2009 Cant believe ive just read all 7 pages of this! So what this mornings update Jazz, i take it you've done the right thing by now?? He's still doinking her probably. This must be a wind-up Jazz, no one is that wet. If you're being serious just tell her you're not looking for a relationship but you like her as a friend and to wash more. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jazz1 Posted November 30, 2009 Author Share Posted November 30, 2009 Well i had a hard think about it this morining and decided to go with steve b post. Problem with this and why im finding it hard is because we have talked for nearly 9 months constatly before meeting etc. Shes a nice girl personality wise but i did not feel the spark, so i guess il tell her that im not yet ready for a relationship Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
S44M KT Posted November 30, 2009 Share Posted November 30, 2009 good lad. now run along and tell her! stop craving attention from us lot and move on with ur life! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jazz1 Posted November 30, 2009 Author Share Posted November 30, 2009 Honestly i was not craving attention never have been in life, just i felt so confused and thought maybe someone could point me in a good direction. Anyways thanks to steve b for the good advice il use that:) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stevie_b Posted November 30, 2009 Share Posted November 30, 2009 No worries Jazz, hope it helped. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jazz1 Posted November 30, 2009 Author Share Posted November 30, 2009 Well heres what i just texted her "hey babe i think your really nice person and i like you, but my heads all over the place and i dont think im ready for a relationship as i been single for so long, im sorry" her reply just now " i cant belive ur doing this now" me "im too stressed and cant handle being in a relationship" her "Theres nothing 2 be stressed bout ur just taking the easy way out" TBC:rolleyes: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stevie_b Posted November 30, 2009 Share Posted November 30, 2009 Jazz, you've done the right thing. You haven't lied to her and you've let her down gently. Rejection always hurts, but she should be able to take that especially as you've only seen her a small number of times as a boyfriend. It depends if you want to keep her as a friend or not. If not, don't reply to her messages. If you do, maybe reply with something like, "I don't want a relationship right now, but I don't want that to spoil our friendship." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jazz1 Posted November 30, 2009 Author Share Posted November 30, 2009 Yea she has not replied after that i did not want to make it feel this harsh but guess its off my chest. Maybe i need to go out more rather than using these internet sites:rolleyes: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jazz1 Posted November 30, 2009 Author Share Posted November 30, 2009 Well just texted her saying we could be mates or still talk etc and she replied "sorry it will be 2 hard" my reply "how will it" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tbourner Posted November 30, 2009 Share Posted November 30, 2009 I can't believe I read all 7 1/2 pages of this! Actually, I can. I'm calling BS as well though. You could work for Top Gear with that story telling ability. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stevie_b Posted November 30, 2009 Share Posted November 30, 2009 Well just texted her saying we could be mates or still talk etc and she replied "sorry it will be 2 hard" my reply "how will it" I'd leave it for a few days. She's probably hurt (not your fault, that's just life), so give her time to absorb it. Text her back after that if you really want to, and see if she's calmed down. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JustGav Posted November 30, 2009 Share Posted November 30, 2009 Just grow a set and be the man you pretend to be all the time! As Russell Peter says 'Be a man, do the right thing'.. If you can't man up, just put on a pink dress and be the pansy you seem to be Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jazz1 Posted November 30, 2009 Author Share Posted November 30, 2009 Well we have to consider iv talked to this girl nearly 9months, after just texting her i cant be in a relationship i feel to stressed can we be friends. She replied "i do i know its strange after so long but i cant keep doing this its not fair" me "fair enough i just cant at this moment wana be in one babe sorry" her "Thanks for that i never thought you would do this 2 me" well its done now and i feel better she does not want to be friends that upto her again her "Just goes 2 prove u never felt anything for me what was it just a laugh for u" me "no its not a laugh i just cant handle it now i feel tor stressed and my health comes first im sorry" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SupraStar 3000 Posted November 30, 2009 Share Posted November 30, 2009 Does this mean your 'available' now Jezzy wezzy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jazz1 Posted November 30, 2009 Author Share Posted November 30, 2009 she just replied "it was u should never have met me never happen again dont wana talk no more" me "ok if you dont i understand im always here if you ever need to chat" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
michael Posted November 30, 2009 Share Posted November 30, 2009 she just replied "it was u should never have met me never happen again dont wana talk no more" me "ok if you dont i understand im always here if you ever need to chat" And you continue to lead her on... Just text her a link to the forum and your username, she'll soon realise she's had a lucky escape. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soop Dogg Posted November 30, 2009 Share Posted November 30, 2009 Juts stop texting her. She's said she doesn't want to be friends etc, so just leave it at that, you drip! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jazz1 Posted November 30, 2009 Author Share Posted November 30, 2009 I have i just stopped replying, phewwwwwww i feel a free man:) thanks steve b Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JustGav Posted November 30, 2009 Share Posted November 30, 2009 Okay, since you need written instructions... 1. Text her and say you don't want to see her -> done 2. Delete number off phone 3. Move on and get a life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jazz1 Posted November 30, 2009 Author Share Posted November 30, 2009 Okay, since you need written instructions... 1. Text her and say you don't want to see her -> done 2. Delete number off phone 3. Move on and get a life. 1. Done 2. future purposes as mate leavig it 3. I have a nice life:p Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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