michael Posted November 29, 2009 Share Posted November 29, 2009 I cant thats mean in my view, i reckon the prison excuse should work well? Will you go into hiding for 5 years just in case she spots you? (please) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charlotte Posted November 29, 2009 Share Posted November 29, 2009 I cant thats mean in my view, i reckon the prison excuse should work well? It's more mean to lead her on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Homer Posted November 29, 2009 Share Posted November 29, 2009 Ok truth comes out here, i met this girl first time, i dont get time to go out much due to work so decided to use dating sites. I just feel scammed she looked nothing like her pics and i feel sick thinking about the whole thing Just let her down gently, if you have no interest in pursuing the relationship it's the best move for you both. No need for made up stories, just be honest. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Class One Posted November 29, 2009 Share Posted November 29, 2009 Ok so i met this girl same age as me but problem is i met her when i was drunkish. Anyways cut long story short after meeting he couple days ago again i realised theres no chemistry. Now shes texting me thinking we are in a relationship and talking already about marriage how many kids i want etc:blink. Problem is i dont want to tell her there is not going to be "us". At the moment im just texting back being nice and playig along. Iv come up with an excuse to bullshit by saying im going prison for 5 years, do you guys think this will work? I'm shocked. I always had you down as being gay. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jazz1 Posted November 29, 2009 Author Share Posted November 29, 2009 Will you go into hiding for 5 years just in case she spots you? (please) Well she out of ends which is good and does not know where abouts off me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jazz1 Posted November 29, 2009 Author Share Posted November 29, 2009 Just let her down gently, if you have no interest in pursuing the relationship it's the best move for you both. No need for made up stories, just be honest. Yea part tells me to be honest but i just cant say it to her as i feel its harsh saying i dont like you etc Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jazz1 Posted November 29, 2009 Author Share Posted November 29, 2009 I'm shocked. I always had you down as being gay. maybe i should after fish fingers:p Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GazB Posted November 29, 2009 Share Posted November 29, 2009 Your a strange boy i must be old because i can't work you out Are you for real with this? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
michael Posted November 29, 2009 Share Posted November 29, 2009 Well she out of ends which is good and does not know where abouts off me You could just tell her you've have a bang on the head and can't remember who she is. Maybe add that the knock has somehow made you a eunuch? The post above should support this if necessary. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jazz1 Posted November 29, 2009 Author Share Posted November 29, 2009 Your a strange boy i must be old because i can't work you out Are you for real with this? Yes 100%, thats why im confused and posted this. Everyones different but i find it hard to say im not interested in her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jazz1 Posted November 29, 2009 Author Share Posted November 29, 2009 You could just tell her you've have a bang on the head and can't remember who she is. Maybe add that the knock has somehow made you a eunuch? The post above should support this if necessary. I like the AIDS excuse:) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nevins Posted November 29, 2009 Share Posted November 29, 2009 OR! just tell her shes a swamp donkey and you feel sick just looking at her and then say I must leave now before I see my dinner again and leave. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave17 Posted November 29, 2009 Share Posted November 29, 2009 You could just tell her you've have a bang on the head and can't remember who she is. Maybe add that the knock has somehow made you a eunuch? The post above should support this if necessary. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jazz1 Posted November 29, 2009 Author Share Posted November 29, 2009 OR! just tell her shes a swamp donkey and you feel sick just looking at her and then say I must leave now before I see my dinner again and leave. You are harsh:d Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jazz1 Posted November 29, 2009 Author Share Posted November 29, 2009 What you think if i text her telling her im BI Im not really Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TLicense Posted November 29, 2009 Share Posted November 29, 2009 I cant thats mean in my view, i reckon the prison excuse should work well? Not at all. Being mean is not telling her that you're not interested. As has been said, you've got to man up and tell her. Coming up with "white lies" to not hurt her feelings is a boys way out of the situation. You're not scared of hurting her feelings or being mean, you're scared of what her response will be and how she will make you feel. Trust me I was in that situation for quite a while. Eventually I saw it as a challenge for myself to tell the girl involved. I felt like crap doing it, but I know now it was the right thing to do. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chiefgroover Posted November 29, 2009 Share Posted November 29, 2009 Cuel to be kind, tell her that her sister was better in bed, that ought to make sure she never speaks to you again lmao. Seriously though, your heading for disaster.........cut the crap and tell her the truth, she will think more of you in the long run. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
S44M KT Posted November 29, 2009 Share Posted November 29, 2009 look, you dont like her... dont care about her... so why are you so worried about how she will react? its not like you'll be sticking around to see her reaction... guarenteed if it was the other way around and she found u revolting, she would tell u straight away. Us women are good like that lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nevins Posted November 29, 2009 Share Posted November 29, 2009 if you dont like her and shes not what you expected there is a simple answer. Tell her you dont want to know. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AndrewOW Posted November 29, 2009 Share Posted November 29, 2009 Just dump her by text. It's easy, and everyone's doing it these days. Aren't they? oh, maybe that's just me then Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SupraStar 3000 Posted November 29, 2009 Share Posted November 29, 2009 Just show her this thread. I'm sure a load of random petrol heads talking about her fishy fanny will put her right off you. LOL Your clearly a sensitive guy for not telling her to her face to get lost so that credit to you, but you need to be honest in a subtle way. I've been in the same position myself after sleeping with michael and my god, my fingers really did smell after that night. *shudder* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
S44M KT Posted November 29, 2009 Share Posted November 29, 2009 lmao Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jazz1 Posted November 29, 2009 Author Share Posted November 29, 2009 Not at all. Being mean is not telling her that you're not interested. As has been said, you've got to man up and tell her. Coming up with "white lies" to not hurt her feelings is a boys way out of the situation. You're not scared of hurting her feelings or being mean, you're scared of what her response will be and how she will make you feel. Trust me I was in that situation for quite a while. Eventually I saw it as a challenge for myself to tell the girl involved. I felt like crap doing it, but I know now it was the right thing to do. Maybe if i drank some vodka then the truth might come out and i would have the guts to tell her Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
supra geordie Posted November 29, 2009 Share Posted November 29, 2009 Grow some bollocks and just tell her the truth, you know your going to have to let her down eventually. She sounds a bit of a boiler.....and next time make sure you webcam before meeting anyone from a dating site! Simple as that Jane Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
S44M KT Posted November 29, 2009 Share Posted November 29, 2009 grow a set!! how old r u btw? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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