Dave17 Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 Split with the ex today, and i don't feel bad about it. She was abusive and violent to me on more than one occasion, I threw the towel in properly today and told her to F off and never contact me or my family again.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ian W Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 Join the bachelor's club mate. Can we get a lounge or something? I'm thinking brandy, cigars and smoking jackets... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave17 Posted June 11, 2009 Author Share Posted June 11, 2009 I think so!!! I feel so relieved to be free I can't tell you! - Must also have wingback chairs in green or red leather! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
j_jza80 Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 I'm thinking brandy, cigars and smoking jackets... I don't think he's gay Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
martini Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 Split with the ex today, and i don't feel bad about it. She was abusive and violent to me on more than one occasion, I threw the towel in properly today and told her to F off and never contact me or my family again.... Congratulations. Sometimes it takes real balls to split from someone. Might take a while to adjust though, so take your time Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SupraGirlie Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 Can't of been with her that long to not be at all upset about it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AlexJames Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 am in the same position mate... although she left me... still, im moving into my own flat next week or so, got a supra... cant complain.. man pad Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scott Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 Good for you, the fact that you feel "fine" means it was over long ago bud. Bet you actually feel relieved to have bitten the bullet. The wife just left me to stay with her parents tonight (not in a sinister way, they are goin out tomorrow lol) so what is the done thing? Do i get out the 80's sunglasses, boxers and do a dance like in Risky Business? Its been so long Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave17 Posted June 11, 2009 Author Share Posted June 11, 2009 Well, 6 months, but she became violent a couple of months ago and i told her i won't put up with that shizzle. It just killed the bit of me that cared. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TRACIE_LOU Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 Good for you, the fact that you feel "fine" means it was over long ago bud. Bet you actually feel relieved to have bitten the bullet. The wife just left me to stay with her parents tonight (not in a sinister way, they are goin out tomorrow lol) so what is the done thing? Do i get out the 80's sunglasses, boxers and do a dance like in Risky Business? Its been so long Yes and video it for our amusment!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scott Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 Yes and video it for our amusment!!! I will if you will Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TRACIE_LOU Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 I will if you will [/quote Ah but you see i can't because it states in the amusment rules it has to be Scott M... so unfortunately i have to pass the limelight to you:D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SILKYSMOOTH Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 Split with the ex today, and i don't feel bad about it. She was abusive and violent to me on more than one occasion, I threw the towel in properly today and told her to F off and never contact me or my family again.... Congratulations mate...sounds like the best move! sounds a 'bit' like my ex - trust me...it's the best thing you will ever do. I was wooohooing in the car on my own the moment I left her... shame though I still feel a bit sorry for her, but that's her problem not mine anymore...and I'm still helping her out! (fool) which I shouldn't be really....I should tell her where to go but I don't even want to talk to her -split up after 5.5 years begining of Feb (only 5 years too late but at least I made her a better person for it) trust me my situation was a fxxxx living nightmare!!! I am sooooo happy you would not believe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scott Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 I will if you will Ah but you see i can't because it states in the amusment rules it has to be Scott M... so unfortunately i have to pass the limelight to you:D Quote fail Remind me later Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave17 Posted June 11, 2009 Author Share Posted June 11, 2009 I can only tell you there's been alot going on in my life recently, and getting rid of her had just reduced my stress by about 3/4 Best drive i've had all year i think on the way back home + no more 80 mile round trips almost every day! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charlotte Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 Sounds like you're better off without her if she was abusive towards you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scott Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 I can only tell you there's been alot going on in my life recently, and getting rid of her had just reduced my stress by about 3/4 Best drive i've had all year i think on the way back home + no more 80 mile round trips almost every day! Concentrate on the other 1/4 now then bud Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ian W Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 I don't think he's gay Do you know something I don't? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DSK Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 I did the same a few years back, I drew the line at how I would not be treated despite me always treating her with the upmost care and respect. Once I split, I felt like a huge relief, no more worries or constant downbeat thoughts spinning in my head. Congrats, you know its the right thing to do and I hope in the comming days the way you feel only gets even easier and more relaxing. Take your time, you'll meet someone else soon enough no doubt. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave17 Posted June 11, 2009 Author Share Posted June 11, 2009 Do you know something I don't? Sorry to dissappoint Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Geo Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 Join the bachelor's club mate. Can we get a lounge or something? I'm thinking brandy, cigars and smoking jackets... What you on about, you've got a new Wife already. You dont need a bachelor's club, you need to sort out your Stag night????? So your new Burd, ha ha ha. :p:p Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ian W Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 What you on about, you've got a new Wife already. You dont need a bachelor's club, you need to sort out your Stag night????? So your new Burd, ha ha ha. :p:p After yours and boy's....I'm well down the line, don't you worry! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AlexJames Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 Concentrate on the other 1/4 now then bud Just like Vin Diesel... 1/4 mile at a time.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pete Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 Split with the ex today, and i don't feel bad about it. She was abusive and violent to me on more than one occasion, I threw the towel in properly today and told her to F off and never contact me or my family again.... Why did this sound like there was a punch line coming? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scotty supra Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 aa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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