tbourner Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 Says the BNP voter They're not my words, again I'm voicing someone elses opinion I never claimed to agree or disagree. Imagine you never made any mistakes as a child, never did anything silly and always reacted in the 'correct' way to any situation. When you grow up and you have a family and a house and car and job, then you make one of those mistakes, the results are FAR more catastrophic. Hence, you should NEVER regret anything you have done or not done in the past, you can consider them and learn from them but NEVER wish you'd done anything differently, because what you learn from mistakes is far more powerful than what you learn from correct actions. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peter richards Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 one ar5ehole when i was young used to give me some stick , older and bigger then so found it hard at the time to accept , but hes now in jail which was inevitable due to his pathetic upbringing and attitude . its life mate as long as you learn and take something from past experiences good or bad you can move on Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kill1308 Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 Just remember all the people that bully others usually have extremely low self worth and are so insecure about something in their own life, that they feel the need to dominate others in order to feel big and to blot out their own shortfalls. Also they usually have exceptionally small choppers Forget about them and move on.... don't let the past grind you down, concentrate on the future instead Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stonkin Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 Jazz, these past experiences involving 'idiots', your classing as idiots for a reason, leave them to it and dont lower yourself by joining them. The past is the past, its gone, done, and you cant change that. What you can do, and only you can do, is control (to a degree) what the rest of your future brings you. There is only 1 life pal, 1 chance, once today has gone your onto tomorrow. Dont waste your time dwelling, wondering what if. Get out there and grab with both hands whatever it is you need to make you and others around you that you care about, happy. The world is full of toss pots, stuff em mate, they dont give a damn about you, stop giving them any thought. Crack on with your life mate, walk round with a smile, it'll make you feel better. And stop analyzing, its a waste of time and will only cause you headaches. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alex Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 Councelling may help, I think you are angry with yourself thanks to the clarity of hindesight. Let go Luke Forgive yourself. It wasn't your fault. (Excellent - Good Will Hunting and Star Wars in one post!! W00t) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Abz Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 Everyone does get like that from time to time... its completely normal! Like everyone has said, dont let it get to you... your much better than that. I gotta admit when I was in school, I was not as confident and like everyone had a few instances of bullying (making also being the bully) but when I grew up it made me a much stronger person! In a way I turn back and say wow you know what, them idiots make me a better\stronger person! I landed a job at Deloitte at the age of 17 and since then its been onwards and upwards! With regards to anger? I always play football at Sunday league and coporate level which helps with stress and anger and also do wing chun (thinking mans kung fu). I have also done Karate and kick boxing which I would really recommend you. Drop the weights as it will only make you heavier and more easier to knock down...my motto, the bigger they are, the harder they will fall! Take it easy Jazz, and just smile over these times! :-) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Max Headroom Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 Whats the cure all? Lemsip and a w**k, was it? Seriously though, you cannot change what has happened in the past, you can only change what happens in the future. Are you going to bully the bullies or start talking crap or touch up some blokes missus because thats what happened to you? If you do then you are no better than them. Learn from these experiences and be a better person for it, life moves on as they say, it never goes back!! Rather than these thoughts being the thing that is troubling you, perhaps you have issues with your confidence or your own self worth that are bringing these thoughts out. Perhaps you need to reconcile these to dissipate these negative feelings? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Supra786 Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 Bet they don't have a Supra and a Porsche:cool: You've got a porsche and supra! You lucky fu**a! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carl_S Posted June 12, 2009 Share Posted June 12, 2009 Yeah, all the time. It's completely normal, welcome to the human race. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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