jazz1 Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 Has anyone else had the same problems as me?. Well i cant get the past experiences out of my head it is like they are haunting me and i need revenge:search:. I keep thinking about the past when guys in high school used to touch my ex up and i did not do anything about it, times when i got bullied and idiots who used to talk crap. No matter how much i try i cant get these stupid past experiences out, i tend to take my anger out on the weights its so sad:blink:rolleyes:. Anyone else get this? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jurgen-Jm-Imports Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 just move on, you will be a better person for it.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Konrad Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 You definatelly need to get laid boy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guigsy Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 chill. its the past. cant change that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nick_karkie Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 If you want to take revenge then you have never grown up, this can also lead to taking it out on somebody who does not deserve it, like a girlfriend or somebody more vulnerable than yourself. Just be the best person you can be and that is all that is important to the people that care about you. The bullies always get what is coming to them in the end. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Supra786 Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 Im a firm believer in "what goes around comes around" so don't dwell on the past, you may have been vulnerable then but it has made you stronger. I used to think like you, think about all the fights I lost when I was sticking up for myself or all the times I let people get away with things, it does anger me but seeking revenge in my opinion won't make it better. Its that feeling of you let someone do something to you and get away with it and thats what angers you, I feel like that sometimes too. Someone punches you, you punch them back. Just let it go and don't let anyone take advantage now, those in the past will get whats coming to them and more. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jazz1 Posted June 11, 2009 Author Share Posted June 11, 2009 its hard i take all my anger out on the weights but i doubt i will do revenge. I just find it hard to get those past experiences of idiots out of my head Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Class One Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 Keep having thoughts like that Jazz and you will end up eating yourself up and make yourself ill. Mental Health units are full of people who dwell on the past and can't let things go and become paranoid. File the thought and move on son. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jazz1 Posted June 11, 2009 Author Share Posted June 11, 2009 Keep having thoughts like that Jazz and you will end up eating yourself up and make yourself ill. Mental Health units are full of people who dwell on the past and can't let things go and become paranoid. File the thought and move on son. i have moved on but the thoughts come and go no mater how much i try to get them out Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave17 Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 Councelling? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jazz1 Posted June 11, 2009 Author Share Posted June 11, 2009 Councelling? Maybe but i doubt that would get the thoughts still out of my head Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guigsy Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 weed Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jazz1 Posted June 11, 2009 Author Share Posted June 11, 2009 weed lol i dont do that:p but im going on holiday today yeaaaaaaaa 6 days binge drinking:d Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
n boost Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 lol i dont do that Maybe u should! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Class One Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 Masturbation then? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Supra786 Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 Masturbation then? Hahahahahahaha, that should help. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jazz1 Posted June 11, 2009 Author Share Posted June 11, 2009 Hahahahahahaha, that should help. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AndrewOW Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 Masturbation then? Does that also include the lemon flavoured cold remedy in it too? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AlexJames Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 Yep I used to struggle with that too... this helped me... 1 Don't be upset because of evil people. Don't be jealous of those who do wrong, 2 because like the grass, they will soon dry up. Like green plants, they will soon die away. 3 Trust the Lord and do good. Live in the land and feed on truth. 4 Enjoy serving the Lord, and he will give you what you want. 5 Depend on the Lord; trust him, and he will take care of you. 6 Then your goodness will shine like the sun, and your fairness like the noonday sun. 7 Wait and trust the Lord. Don't be upset when others get rich or when someone else's plans succeed. 8 Don't get angry. Don't be upset; it only leads to trouble. 9 Evil people will be sent away, but those who trust the Lord will inherit the land. 10 In a little while the wicked will be no more. You may look for them, but they will be gone. 11 People who are not proud will inherit the land and will enjoy complete peace. PSALM 37 1 - 11 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
supra_aero Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 Keep doing weights and do boxing or some martial art. There will be an idiot along soon enough to test out your training. You don't need to hit him when you get good and big enough to scare idiots. I don't see why you let these thoughts bother you anyway. They are nobodies and idiots. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wkdtime Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 Has anyone else had the same problems as me?. Well i cant get the past experiences out of my head it is like they are haunting me and i need revenge:search:. I keep thinking about the past when guys in high school used to touch my ex up and i did not do anything about it, times when i got bullied and idiots who used to talk crap. No matter how much i try i cant get these stupid past experiences out, i tend to take my anger out on the weights its so sad:blink:rolleyes:. Anyone else get this? Bet they don't have a Supra and a Porsche:cool: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Robert Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 I get what you mean Jazz, had something similar in school, forced to leave secondary school when i was 17 due to 15 arab guys chasing me with knifes and all sorts just for talking to one of their sister's. It is hard to get over but i've seen a few of them in the street and i ain't the little boy i was then, they know to keep their mouth's shut now. Still winds me up to this day that they got away with it but i have more in my life than they ever will. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tbourner Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 Keep in mind that the past is over and, whilst it may have taught us valuable lessons, it rarely if ever repeats itself down to the last detail. So we should never try to respond in a way that fits the old scenario perfectly - for it is no longer applicable. Likewise, living only for the future is self-defeating for the future has not yet coalesced from the strands that will one day come together and those that will fail to materialise. To live permanently attached to possible outcomes is to live in a state of inevitable disappointment - like people who pin all their hopes of happiness on winning the lottery. Living in the moment is perhaps better expressed as living today as if it were your last. Smell the flowers, stop and listen to the birds sing, part from your loved ones in a way that they know you love them. Do today only those things for tomorrow that are likely to be for the good of all people and creatures. Speak the truth kindly, but speak it: confront wrong when you encounter it and do not worry about what that may mean tomorrow, and above all relax in the knowledge that the Universe that created you, loves and respects you as an important part of itself. “Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment.” - Buddha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
supra_aero Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 Very sad. I grew up in a council flat and learned at a young age how to handle pr*cks. Intelligence is the best defence, seconded by a good set of arms as back up. lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
supra_aero Posted June 11, 2009 Share Posted June 11, 2009 Keep in mind that the past is over and, whilst it may have taught us valuable lessons, it rarely if ever repeats itself down to the last detail. So we should never try to respond in a way that fits the old scenario perfectly - for it is no longer applicable. Likewise, living only for the future is self-defeating for the future has not yet coalesced from the strands that will one day come together and those that will fail to materialise. To live permanently attached to possible outcomes is to live in a state of inevitable disappointment - like people who pin all their hopes of happiness on winning the lottery. Living in the moment is perhaps better expressed as living today as if it were your last. Smell the flowers, stop and listen to the birds sing, part from your loved ones in a way that they know you love them. Do today only those things for tomorrow that are likely to be for the good of all people and creatures. Speak the truth kindly, but speak it: confront wrong when you encounter it and do not worry about what that may mean tomorrow, and above all relax in the knowledge that the Universe that created you, loves and respects you as an important part of itself. “Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment.” - Buddha Says the BNP voter Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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