mr lover Posted December 2, 2008 Share Posted December 2, 2008 didn't realise about the job Shane, I get up your way every so often I will give you a call mate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RobSheffield Posted December 2, 2008 Share Posted December 2, 2008 WOW!!! And this has what to do with supras? Sorry to hear your Mrs has fooked off but hey life sucks then you die!!! I do feel your pain but to post it on a forum? Get back out there and live it up.FFS you have had alot of sh*t in the past and it seems she does not help matters. Go and find yourself first then go find someone who will take you for who YOU are and not try to change things as soon as you've got jiggy..lol This is about YOU no body will hold your hand through life and you should never expect it. Go and get what YOU want out of life and fook anyone who tries to stop you. Been there done that!! Enjoy the freedom Dave (rant mode off) Dave is back Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rich Posted December 2, 2008 Share Posted December 2, 2008 WOW!!! And this has what to do with supras? Sorry to hear your Mrs has fooked off but hey life sucks then you die!!! I do feel your pain but to post it on a forum? Get back out there and live it up.FFS you have had alot of sh*t in the past and it seems she does not help matters. Go and find yourself first then go find someone who will take you for who YOU are and not try to change things as soon as you've got jiggy..lol This is about YOU no body will hold your hand through life and you should never expect it. Go and get what YOU want out of life and fook anyone who tries to stop you. Been there done that!! Enjoy the freedom Dave (rant mode off) :djust say what you think! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SUPRALOOPY Posted December 2, 2008 Share Posted December 2, 2008 Dave is back This is the truth it may hurt but Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pabs Posted December 2, 2008 Share Posted December 2, 2008 sh*t mate, sorry to read all this. I DEFINATELY think there is something in the water here in Basingstoke, or us Basingstoke meet-lot are jinxed.... that's 3 of us now who have split up from long-term relationships in the last 4 months! It does get easier though - I'm speaking from experience now! hehe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SilverSoop Posted December 2, 2008 Author Share Posted December 2, 2008 Gutted to hear that mate. I've just gone through this and believe me there is light at the end of the tunnel. We get along like a house on fire now and I love her more than I did all the time I was with her lol Take your time, take a step back, think about both yours and her faults and work at it. Believe me if you are as gutted as you say you are it's absolutely 110% worth it... trust me! Unlike you and you're Mrs, I do truely think it is over and to be honest, with her resenting my Son, i don't think it would of orked out in the end... One minute she was telling me that she ''loves me forever'' and that she wants kids, to get engaged and move out and get a place... All this changed in 3 days...strange?? Very!! hmmm, no offence to anyone in that area, but i dont visit that particular housing estate often ..... lawson rings a bell, il ask around if u get any hassle of physco damian let me know and il have a word, and let me know if u change your mind about that job Thanks Kayla... I don't think Damien will be bothering me again after last time... He backed out like a girl when he had his chance, since then, he just blanks me as though I am no there...not so big without his ''mates'' Yeah Amanda is tall-ish, quite big, she has a little girl and always hangs around with Gemma... WOW!!! And this has what to do with supras? Sorry to hear your Mrs has fooked off but hey life sucks then you die!!! I do feel your pain but to post it on a forum? Get back out there and live it up.FFS you have had alot of sh*t in the past and it seems she does not help matters. Go and find yourself first then go find someone who will take you for who YOU are and not try to change things as soon as you've got jiggy..lol This is about YOU no body will hold your hand through life and you should never expect it. Go and get what YOU want out of life and fook anyone who tries to stop you. Been there done that!! Enjoy the freedom Dave (rant mode off) Yeah Sorry Dave, this should of gone in the member's section really but I just needed to talk and get some advice... Good advice Dave, thanks... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SUPRALOOPY Posted December 2, 2008 Share Posted December 2, 2008 Unlike you and you're Mrs, I do truely think it is over and to be honest, with her resenting my Son, i don't think it would of orked out in the end... One minute she was telling me that she ''loves me forever'' and that she wants kids, to get engaged and move out and get a place... All this changed in 3 days...strange?? Very!! Thanks Kayla... I don't think Damien will be bothering me again after last time... He backed out like a girl when he had his chance, since then, he just blanks me as though I am no there...not so big without his ''mates'' Yeah Amanda is tall-ish, quite big, she has a little girl and always hangs around with Gemma... Yeah Sorry Dave, this should of gone in the member's section really but I just needed to talk and get some advice... Good advice Dave, thanks... Please don't think I'm being flippant but this all seems like you need a change of scenery and if poss a change of area and freinds. I have done the she said he said bollocks and Its NOT worth it.# Go and do what you want, trust me you will laugh in a years time that you even posted this. BTW there are some people on here that will NEVER let you forget this thread:D Dave (feeling your pain) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carl_S Posted December 2, 2008 Share Posted December 2, 2008 Mate, chill for a bit, maybe six months or so, and then try online dating, it's quite fun! And easier than night clubs for non-alpha males like me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SilverSoop Posted December 2, 2008 Author Share Posted December 2, 2008 Please don't think I'm being flippant but this all seems like you need a change of scenery and if poss a change of area and freinds. I have done the she said he said bollocks and Its NOT worth it.# Go and do what you want, trust me you will laugh in a years time that you even posted this. BTW there are some people on here that will NEVER let you forget this thread:D Dave (feeling your pain) Why will some people on here never let me forget this thread then?? No Dave, you are right, I do need to get out of Basingstoke, I have been wanting to for a while now, more reason to do it now right?? I have got big plans for myself in the near future Dave and also, most imortantly, not forgetting my Son. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RobSheffield Posted December 2, 2008 Share Posted December 2, 2008 Couldnt agree more Dave End of the day you are posting publicly about mates and acquaintances that only a few people on here know, just seems well odd! Its not even little moans and rants its huge essays! I used to think i wore my heart on my sleeve (ok, in my teens i did) but this is daft! Do yourself a favour, take a big minty chill pill, kick back, breathe and RELAX! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rich Posted December 2, 2008 Share Posted December 2, 2008 Best thing for you to do is get on with your life,stop posting about it on here like Dave says and go enjoy single life.You only live once you know! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NatsupraTT Posted December 2, 2008 Share Posted December 2, 2008 Oh yes Nat I do know her ''friends'' but they don't talk to me, all I get is aggression against me and they tell me that ''im not going to tell you where she lives, do I look f****** stupid?!'' I have been on Facebook, myspace like you have suggested and I suprisingly found her profile on Facebook and her profile it set t private...no picture, contact details just pics of her friends on there... So I think my only option is face to face contact... Still try adding her u never know she might accept. then chat with her or try lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SilverSoop Posted December 2, 2008 Author Share Posted December 2, 2008 Mate, chill for a bit, maybe six months or so, and then try online dating, it's quite fun! And easier than night clubs for non-alpha males like me. Yeah definetely Carl, I am going to chill for a while... I came out of one relationship and straight into another one... Couldnt agree more Dave End of the day you are posting publicly about mates and acquaintances that only a few people on here know, just seems well odd! Its not even little moans and rants its huge essays! I used to think i wore my heart on my sleeve (ok, in my teens i did) but this is daft! Do yourself a favour, take a big minty chill pill, kick back, breathe and RELAX! Yeah thanks Rob, sorry it was so long but I was so wound up that I needed to let off some steam... I just wanted other people's views and opinions but I didn't think the thread would of gone on this long...lol... Best thing for you to do is get on with your life,stop posting about it on here like Dave says and go enjoy single life.You only live once you know! I will do, thanks guys... Exactly, life is for living... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Holden1989 Posted December 2, 2008 Share Posted December 2, 2008 could always sort u out with one off my mates lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SUPRALOOPY Posted December 2, 2008 Share Posted December 2, 2008 Why will some people on here never let me foget this thread then?? No Dave, you are right, I do need to get out of Basingstoke, I have been wanting to for a while now, more reason to do it now right?? I have got big plans for myself in the near future Dave and also, most imortantly, not forgetting my Son. I will never say forget your kid/kids. But It does look like she is going to be a pain on that side of things, so let her do what she wants about the child as you will never win on that count. As long as you keep in touch and make sure the child knows who you are the rest will follow on, as no matter what happens in both of your lives YOU are the DAD and thats it. As your child gets older it will see whats going on make its own decision. But as long as you are there and fair you will win(wrong choice of words) the child thing! Chin up mate, I have never met you, nor will I mock you in this situation. Good luck Dave:) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lbm Posted December 2, 2008 Share Posted December 2, 2008 could always sort u out with one off my mates lol Form an orderly queue gentlemen. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamesy W Posted December 2, 2008 Share Posted December 2, 2008 could always sort u out with one off my mates lol Pics? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SilverSoop Posted December 2, 2008 Author Share Posted December 2, 2008 could always sort u out with one off my mates lol Yes please, sorry to sound crude and I don't mean to cause offence but are they nice... I will never say forget your kid/kids. But It does look like she is going to be a pain on that side of things, so let her do what she wants about the child as you will never win on that count. As long as you keep in touch and make sure the child knows who you are the rest will follow on, as no matter what happens in both of your lives YOU are the DAD and thats it. As your child gets older it will see whats going on make its own decision. But as long as you are there and fair you will win(wrong choice of words) the child thing! Chin up mate, I have never met you, nor will I mock you in this situation. Good luck Dave:) Thanks Dave, I appreciate your kind words and advice... I just hope it will be that easy seeing him, that's all... Pics? Me first... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RobSheffield Posted December 2, 2008 Share Posted December 2, 2008 Yes please I guess you have not heard the term 'glutton for punishment'?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SilverSoop Posted December 2, 2008 Author Share Posted December 2, 2008 I guess you have not heard the term 'glutton for punishment'?? No...but I was joking, im just going be by myself for a while... After four and half years of two relationship's, I think it is time for a break...lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Holden1989 Posted December 2, 2008 Share Posted December 2, 2008 jess vicky sarah and stacey haha i sound like a pimp all single shane why dont you come out one night? i no basingstoke is pants and all that but itl get you out and about and who knows u might have fun plus im sure rob will appreciate someone to talk to Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Homer Posted December 2, 2008 Share Posted December 2, 2008 Now there's an offer you can't refuse Shane Don't forget about me Kayla, do they have any older sisters? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SUPRALOOPY Posted December 2, 2008 Share Posted December 2, 2008 WTF?????????? Stay single PLEASE!!!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RobSheffield Posted December 2, 2008 Share Posted December 2, 2008 WTF?????????? Stay single PLEASE!!!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Holden1989 Posted December 2, 2008 Share Posted December 2, 2008 WTF?????????? Stay single PLEASE!!!!!!!!!! i can agree with you some off them, not mentioning any names off course because there are my mates Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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