SilverSoop Posted December 1, 2008 Author Share Posted December 1, 2008 Gonna give you advice someone gave me on here when I broke up with my girlfriend I'd been with for 6 years and lived with for 2 years- Go gay! I choose not to take his advice as didn't appeal to me but for some people it does Don't contact her for a few days and see if she texts you or whatever thats what I did. Makes it look like your strong and don't fall to bits just because she's gone. My ex contacted me about 9 days later seeing how I am and stuff because I ignored her. Remember you were okay before you met here and you'll be okay after her! I haven't got back together with my ex but thats because I'm enjoying the single life and you can too! After all you live in the same town as me and it's not too bad on a fri and sat night. Hehe, yeah I suppose basingstoke isn't too bad on Fri and Sat nights so when I do get a job, we will be going out for a knees up dude... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gaz6002 Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 Shane fella go get a bottle of whisky, turn the mobile off and get plastered. She's not worth your hassle if she's done all that. PLENTY more fish in that there sea my friend. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SilverSoop Posted December 1, 2008 Author Share Posted December 1, 2008 Have you ever seen a program called "Jeremy Kyle"? You know, I get this alot... sorry to hear that shane... chin up dude Thanks Si... Oooooakay. I can't imagine ever making something like that up just to split up with someone. Maybe it's sudden to you but maybe she's been feeling like this for a while - that's what girls do. Well Charlotte, you would know as you are a Woman but she kept telling me that she wants kids, a place and to get engaged... After I lost my job and couldn't find another one that quickly, maybe things began to change there... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kranz Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 Maybe it's sudden to you but maybe she's been feeling like this for a while - that's what girls do. And what men do is not notice the signs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SilverSoop Posted December 1, 2008 Author Share Posted December 1, 2008 Shane fella go get a bottle of whisky, turn the mobile off and get plastered. She's not worth your hassle if she's done all that. PLENTY more fish in that there sea my friend. Thanks Gaz mate, you're right... I have already polished off my bottle of Whisky and on the last can of bud... *must find more booze* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RobSheffield Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 I would imagine that the root cause of it would be that women lie, just like men do, and they say one thing and then do another. Move on Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamesy W Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 Give it some time, then go bang her sister,best friend or her mum and be done with it. At least now you have the push you need to spend time with your' son. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Homer Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 Shane, I'll be absolutely frank with you here. After all you've told me personally and what else you've posted on here... you're better off without her. There's a better life out there for a decent fella like yourself, you just need to take some bold steps to get away from your current situation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SilverSoop Posted December 1, 2008 Author Share Posted December 1, 2008 Look on the bright side... cheaper Christmas! Sounds to me like she was looking for an excuse to break up. sorry. Hehe, cheaper Christmas, you're right there... And what men do is not notice the signs Exactly, to be honest, I thought everything was ok, obviously not... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pete Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 ...you're better off without her. There's a better life out there for a decent fella like yourself, Is that an offer if he does decide to "Go Gay"? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedM Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 There's no need to feel down. Young man, pick yourself off the ground because you're in a new town there's no need to be unhappy. There's a place you can go when you're short on your dough. You can stay there, and I'm sure you will find many ways to have a good time. It's fun to stay at the y-m-c-a. They have everything for you men to enjoy, You can hang out with all the boys ... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chris2o2 Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 Give it some time, then go bang her sister,best friend or her mum and be done with it. At least now you have the push you need to spend time with your' son. LOL! Mate girls are weird , don't even bother trying to understand them - you'll never get it . I've been in similar circumstances although not quite as strange , never ever did find out what went wrong . Fu** her it's her lose as my dear old mum would say ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RobSheffield Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 Mkivsupra.net moderators in highly gay crossdressing shocker.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gaz6002 Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 There's no need to feel down. Young man, pick yourself off the ground because you're in a new town there's no need to be unhappy. There's a place you can go when you're short on your dough. You can stay there, and I'm sure you will find many ways to have a good time. It's fun to stay at the y-m-c-a. They have everything for you men to enjoy, You can hang out with all the boys ... Shock on MKIVSupra.net as highly opinionated moderator comes out on line in members relationship thread! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SilverSoop Posted December 1, 2008 Author Share Posted December 1, 2008 I would imagine that the root cause of it would be that women lie, just like men do, and they say one thing and then do another. Move on Yeah thanks Rob, that's what i will do but I am just a little shocked, angry and confused... I would go out and get wrecked but can't because as i don't have a job at the moment, money is so tight! Give it some time, then go bang her sister,best friend or her mum and be done with it. At least now you have the push you need to spend time with your' son. She is the only child matey... That's what I was thinking, I can now go and find my ex and try to see my Son without going to court - hopefully... As someone once told me, ''things happen for a reason'' Shane, I'll be absolutely frank with you here. After all you've told me personally and what else you've posted on here... you're better off without her. There's a better life out there for a decent fella like yourself, you just need to take some bold steps to get away from your current situation. Thanks Darryl, that means alot... Oh believe me, I am trying but because I don't have a job, I am in a financial mess at the moment... I just hope that now I can see my Son and hope that it doesn't get more bitter than it already is... I have had enough bad luck with everything this year, getting made redundant, my cat dying, not being able to find a job, at war with my ex and now breaking up with my (was) current girlfriend... I would like just a bit of luck! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luka-P Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 There's no need to feel down. Young man, pick yourself off the ground because you're in a new town there's no need to be unhappy. There's a place you can go when you're short on your dough. You can stay there, and I'm sure you will find many ways to have a good time. It's fun to stay at the y-m-c-a. They have everything for you men to enjoy, You can hang out with all the boys ... Ive never met someone who knows the words. Mind you, I dont go to those kind of clubs! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gaz6002 Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 Mkivsupra.net moderators in highly gay crossdressing shocker.... Shock on MKIVSupra.net as highly opinionated moderator comes out on line in members relationship thread! bollocks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedM Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 Mkivsupra.net moderators in highly gay crossdressing shocker.... Shock on MKIVSupra.net as highly opinionated moderator comes out on line in members relationship thread! You wish. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SilverSoop Posted December 1, 2008 Author Share Posted December 1, 2008 Is that an offer if he does decide to "Go Gay"? Nah, I will stick with women, you can ''go gay'' if you want to though... There's no need to feel down. Young man, pick yourself off the ground because you're in a new town there's no need to be unhappy. There's a place you can go when you're short on your dough. You can stay there, and I'm sure you will find many ways to have a good time. It's fun to stay at the y-m-c-a. They have everything for you men to enjoy, You can hang out with all the boys ... Thanks RedM, it's a weird situation and I thought that I was going to actually ''be'' with her and now it has ended, it is slightly relieving but sad at the same time if that makes sense... Thanks for the offer about the YMCA, but I will think I will stay at home for the time being... LOL! Mate girls are weird , don't even bother trying to understand them - you'll never get it . I've been in similar circumstances although not quite as strange , never ever did find out what went wrong . Fu** her it's her lose as my dear old mum would say ! Yeah my Parents say the exact same thing, I just thought that she was the ''one'' and now it has ended... I just can't believe it... I am the same as you Chris, I don't think that I will find out what the hell went wrong... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamesy W Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 She is the only child matey... That's what I was thinking, I can now go and find my ex and try to see my Son without going to court - hopefully... As someone once told me, ''things happen for a reason'' To be honest mate you should have told her to feck off back when she gave you the ultimatum. Just get yourself to the nearest sperm-bank and use the proceeds for a night on the tiles. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
3LL Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 Shane, I'll be absolutely frank with you here. ... you're better off without her. There's a better life out there for a decent fella like yourself, you just need to take some bold steps to get away from your current situation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gordy07 Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 Like jamesy says this is what you need to spend quality time with your son,you will regret it otherwise! I love my son to bits and couldnt bare to miss a part of his life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NatsupraTT Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 Well im female and not all women are weird lol but sounds like your gf met someone a while before she finished it with you so would be before that friday her aunt went ill and i recon she been seeing him that weekend and she was off with you as she felt guilty so ended it with you. Well there u go coming from another female thats what i thinks happened and your better off without her so id just move on and enjoy yourself plenty more women out there Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SilverSoop Posted December 1, 2008 Author Share Posted December 1, 2008 To be honest mate you should have told her to feck off back when she gave you the ultimatum. Just get yourself to the nearest sperm-bank and use the proceeds for a night on the tiles. Hehe, I will when I get some dosh... Like jamesy says this is what you need to spend quality time with your son,you will regret it otherwise! I love my son to bits and couldnt bare to miss a part of his life. I have never seen my Son and I love him and because I am no longer seeing Gemma, I can go ahead with it... I now know that if I talked to Gemma about my Son, it would of been the end of us. As I keep saying though, it is just so strange why she decided that was it... One moment she was all lovey-dovey and the next, she just switched all of her feelings off... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SilverSoop Posted December 1, 2008 Author Share Posted December 1, 2008 Well im female and not all women are weird lol but sounds like your gf met someone a while before she finished it with you so would be before that friday her aunt went ill and i recon she been seeing him that weekend and she was off with you as she felt guilty so ended it with you. Well there u go coming from another female thats what i thinks happened and your better off without her so id just move on and enjoy yourself plenty more women out there Really?? What makes you think that she was seeing someone else?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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