dr_blackman Posted November 4, 2008 Share Posted November 4, 2008 keep your self busy helps mate. You never forget but in time it all works out Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Havard Posted November 4, 2008 Share Posted November 4, 2008 I went to pick her up one day and got pissed when she said she was getting a lift with one of her male friends, and well, i went off on one at her mates. . Whooaaa!! You went to collect her with her knowledge and she decided to take a ride with some other bloke....... I am sorry mate but that seems really odd to me?? If you have been steady with someone for 4 months then you don't do that..... At the end of the day you are only 22 and there are plenty more women out there. May a suggest a Lemsip based ailment treatment and a few bottles of Magners....... I don't reckon she was worth it.........unless you are a really short tempered, possessive psycho?? HTH H. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RiceRocket Posted November 4, 2008 Share Posted November 4, 2008 Shouldn't this agony aunt stuff be in Members' Chat!!? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
benkei Posted November 4, 2008 Share Posted November 4, 2008 You may have trust issues, or come off as needy and that creeps women out! You need to be more alpha! You need to reinvent yourself as the guy you WANT to be. Have your new hair cut, go to the gym, buy nice clothes, then go open sets (we're still using 'game' and 'MM' terms, right Tom? ) Women are like years, sometimes they're good, sometimes they're bad, but there's always another one just round the corner Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tom Posted November 4, 2008 Share Posted November 4, 2008 You may have trust issues, or come off as needy and that creeps women out! You need to be more alpha! You need to reinvent yourself as the guy you WANT to be. Have your new hair cut, go to the gym, buy nice clothes, then go open sets (we're still using 'game' and 'MM' terms, right Tom? ) sure are I wonder now though at how many women will be like "yep heard that one" and "so you've read that book eh?" I must learn some magic tricks soon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SUPRALOOPY Posted November 4, 2008 Share Posted November 4, 2008 Whooaaa!! You went to collect her with her knowledge and she decided to take a ride with some other bloke....... I am sorry mate but that seems really odd to me?? If you have been steady with someone for 4 months then you don't do that..... At the end of the day you are only 22 and there are plenty more women out there. May a suggest a Lemsip based ailment treatment and a few bottles of Magners....... I don't reckon she was worth it.........unless you are a really short tempered, possessive psycho?? HTH H. DO NOT listen to this man:Pling: The lemsip theory is false:p:d Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Burna Posted November 4, 2008 Share Posted November 4, 2008 May a suggest a Lemsip based ailment treatment Phew! All is right with the world again DO NOT listen to this man:Pling: The lemsip theory is false:p:d You not doing it right. Try lemsip max and sitting on your hand for awhile Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AlexJames Posted November 4, 2008 Share Posted November 4, 2008 It does take time mate.. is this your first relationships break up? do you want to get her back etc...? please feel free to PM me if u wanna chat? These things are always so so horrible but its true that time is a healer.. it takes time but it does work... trust me, i been there Hard to write this guys. Well I split up with my girlfriend of 4 months a few weeks ago after i did something seriously stupid. Anyway, I really can't stand the feelings that are in me now, it hurts so much and i don't know how to get rid of it and move on. I hate feeling like this and i don't know what to do. To top it off i've just left my job and am unemployed now for the forseeable future. And finally, just to make things worse, i look on facebook and read the most horrible thing i've ever had said about me. I'm a pretty sensitive chap and i'm well in touch with my feelings, and i've always felt abit awkward meeting new people so i always throw my heart and soul in to my relationships. Feel free to have a proper good laugh at this next bit though: I just joined match.com lol. What do you chaps think? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marbleapple Posted November 4, 2008 Share Posted November 4, 2008 4 months?!?! Drink beer, watch some pron, Prawns? Shouldn't this agony aunt stuff be in a girly forum!!? Yep (Only messing Dave) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave17 Posted November 4, 2008 Author Share Posted November 4, 2008 It does take time mate.. is this your first relationships break up? do you want to get her back etc...? please feel free to PM me if u wanna chat? These things are always so so horrible but its true that time is a healer.. it takes time but it does work... trust me, i been there Thanks man i appreciate that This thread has perked me up alot actually, and i must get the lemsip tommorow when i go shopping lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lbm Posted November 4, 2008 Share Posted November 4, 2008 sure are I wonder now though at how many women will be like "yep heard that one" and "so you've read that book eh?" I must learn some magic tricks soon And when they've sussed your game, they'll work out your magic tricks too...still it's the correct attitude Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
benkei Posted November 4, 2008 Share Posted November 4, 2008 It does take time mate.. is this your first relationships break up? do you want to get her back etc...? please feel free to PM me if u wanna chat? These things are always so so horrible but its true that time is a healer.. it takes time but it does work... trust me, i been there We've all been there at some point. And it always hurts. No point trying to get her back, it'll never be the same again and ti'll always be in the background, plus her friends will always be looking for excuses to cause trouble and s**t stir between you. It's true that it will heal in time, but it will take time. Leave it all behind and push forward dude. It'll make you a stronger person having survived it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charlotte Posted November 4, 2008 Share Posted November 4, 2008 It's good to see the threapy group alive and well. Rejoice in the knowledge that you didn't move in together and it stopped working before things got too serious. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RiceRocket Posted November 4, 2008 Share Posted November 4, 2008 It's good to see the threapy group alive and well. Eh? threap –noun 1. an argument; quarrel. 2. a hostile charge; accusation. –verb (used with object) 3. to rebuke; scold. –verb (used without object) 4. to argue; bicker. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charlotte Posted November 4, 2008 Share Posted November 4, 2008 I don't even know what I'm talking about, it must be hard for you, I can only apologise. I think I meant therapy? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
3LL Posted November 4, 2008 Share Posted November 4, 2008 four months is nothing mate, and although you probably feel like a warmed up turd right now things will get better! Go see friends, keep busy, socialise and try to have fun. forget dating sites, concentrate on enjoying yourself rather than replacing your ex and before you know it you will be over her and someone else will be on the horizon! as for your job, these things happen to us all, your certantly not the first guy to have to go on the dole for a while.. i know i have been there before. just remain positive, focus all your energy on spendin time with friends and lookin for another job, let her go mate.. theres tons more girls out there, and maybe you should have a bit of "fun" while finding the right one when the time is right.. Things dont always have to be so serious in life for you to enjoy it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
imi Posted November 5, 2008 Share Posted November 5, 2008 I went to pick her up one day and got pissed when she said she was getting a lift with one of her male friends, and well, i went off on one at her mates. The thing that really hurts is that its all my fault, and i'm not possessive at all. hmm - makes you sound like a dog. hope you learn from this experience and treat people with respect. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Havard Posted November 5, 2008 Share Posted November 5, 2008 Have to agree with Imi, that comment makes you sound nuttier than squirrel sh!t with a snickers on top..... How are we today?? Leave the dating sites alone mate. I have heard very few stories of attractive people joining dating sites, they tend to be desperate munters who are gagging for it.......... Actually, it's not all bad then...... Chin up mate!! H. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thorin Posted November 5, 2008 Share Posted November 5, 2008 4 Months? Grow a pair, go out, and get drunk. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GeordieSteve Posted November 5, 2008 Share Posted November 5, 2008 Mate it's awful. The girl I've been with for 3 years now left me a few weeks back and I'm feeling the same as you... destroyed. The only thing is if you want something you have to fight for it. I know in the bak of my mind I've got no chance of getting her back. She's a young, attractive, clever girl who can get her choice of blokes... but I refuse to be sat here in ten years time, miserable knowing that I didn't try hard enough. If your feelings are that strong stick at it mate. We get on well most of the time (to be honest she's horrible to me as well a lot of the time, but that's a knee jerk reaction to keep me at arms length) and just hope she see's what used to be and what can be in the future. DAMN I've been wanting to type that on here for ages. So to cut a long story short without my whining on... keep at it mate. If she decides that she wants someone else, doesn't want to be with you any more just bite your tongue and deal with it... until then mate go for it. You clearly care too much to let it go so easy /Jerremy Kyle mode off/ EDIT: As others have said, if you want to talk mate PM me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CardiffSupra Posted November 5, 2008 Share Posted November 5, 2008 Who did you do? Sorry.... What did you do? Get World of warcraft, Happy days.... Seriously tho, Just give it time and you will get over her. I know right now your thinking you never will..... But you will. Good luck boyo. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
benkei Posted November 5, 2008 Share Posted November 5, 2008 Mate it's awful. The girl I've been with for 3 years now left me a few weeks back and I'm feeling the same as you... destroyed. The only thing is if you want something you have to fight for it. I know in the bak of my mind I've got no chance of getting her back. She's a young, attractive, clever girl who can get her choice of blokes... but I refuse to be sat here in ten years time, miserable knowing that I didn't try hard enough. If your feelings are that strong stick at it mate. We get on well most of the time (to be honest she's horrible to me as well a lot of the time, but that's a knee jerk reaction to keep me at arms length) and just hope she see's what used to be and what can be in the future. DAMN I've been wanting to type that on here for ages. So to cut a long story short without my whining on... keep at it mate. If she decides that she wants someone else, doesn't want to be with you any more just bite your tongue and deal with it... until then mate go for it. You clearly care too much to let it go so easy /Jerremy Kyle mode off/ EDIT: As others have said, if you want to talk mate PM me You've gotta reverse the situation. How would you feel about a girl who you broke up with who won't take 'no' for an answer and keeps trying to get you back? You'd get annoyed with her and just want rid! You've gotta take a step back, give her chance to miss you. Then if/when she gets in touch with you again, make sure you're a lot stronger than you were before, more independant, more confident, just more attractive in general. she'll soon want you back! But you can't force it, if it's over then it's over, there's plenty more girls out there, just as good, if not better than the one you just lost! Make her jelous too! Let her see you with other girls, she'll soon see what she's missing and come running back! If you don't play the game, you can't win it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SUPRALOOPY Posted November 5, 2008 Share Posted November 5, 2008 Get World of warcraft, Happy days.... LEEEEEEEEEEEEROYYYYYYYYYYYYYY MMMMMMMMMMMM JAAAAAAAACCKKKSOOOOOOOOOOOOOONNNNNNNNN!!!!!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GeordieSteve Posted November 5, 2008 Share Posted November 5, 2008 ahhh I missed that part out. I moved out when we were still together to give her space. I acted like an idiot again and she left me. She still lives in our house and we're still mates just taking our time about things. I'm not begging her to come back cos I know that'll push her away. I'm just trying to make things normal again. Things we're great then. In fact her ex (which is my best mate... long story) even said if he knew we'd be so good together he'd have ended things long before hand with her and told her to come to me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suprash Posted November 6, 2008 Share Posted November 6, 2008 My god, why all of a sudden do I feel like Chirs Wilson...... Supra61 has had the best advice here so far, seriously mate, WTF !!!! 4 months, and at 22 years of age and you're feeling like your life has been ripped away........:taped: Try 10 years, since you was 17, after building 2 houses and a business together, her running off with who you thought was your best mate at the time and having to see them around every corner because he slipped himself into every circle you are in because he wants the life you had, after that I might have some sympathy..........:taped: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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