cheekymonkey Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 Been in a similar situation myself very recently, although not 7 years, more like 1 year. I managed to stuff things up a number of times by trying to push her too quickly making her decide things, but in the end I just chilled out, knowing that she knows how I feel, and she's finally sorted her head out and now we're together My advice is to cool it for a few days and don't sweat it too much. She isn't going to suddenley cut you out of her life after 7 years but I think you do need to make sure she knows how you feel mate. Good luck! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
supradibbs Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 7 years of heartache and love is alot to ignore and walk away from. Give it a few days. Write down what you want to say. Practice your lines and go over to talk. BUT prepared for the worst and dont expect miracles. Good luck fella. Who inthere right mind would take love advise from you:d Just do her sister Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JamieP Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 Who inthere right mind would take love advise from you:d Harsh but funny:D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vicky Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 Just text her asking if she is ok and that you are only across the road if she needs anything, dont crowd her or be to persistant. Let her come to you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SupraStar 3000 Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 Shut it fellas. !! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kirk Posted October 5, 2008 Author Share Posted October 5, 2008 Ok to clear up a few things, I dint give the full story, much confusion, my fault, Right to answer all of these, 1 she's not there, I've tried goin round, 2 she knows how I feel, she feels sorta the same but she's got a fella and I always said I'd still be her best mate... its a complicated story you see.. I got my panties in a twist all to quick, let the days pass, see what's what x Posted via Mobile Device Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnd-mkiv Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 After 7 years and she knows how you feel its time to move on, your in the "friends zone" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vicky Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 Like i said in my post, dont crowd her. just let her know you are there if she needs anything. its all you can do Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest CoolsBlue Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 maybe shes upset becuase shes making her mind up over you and this other feller, 7 years seems like a long time, i bet shes deciding, thats why she seems sad and there a no texts, it hurts her to much? or maybe im just wrong... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Havard Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 Ok to clear up a few things, I dint give the full story, much confusion, my fault, Right to answer all of these, 1 she's not there, I've tried goin round, 2 she knows how I feel, she feels sorta the same but she's got a fella and I always said I'd still be her best mate... its a complicated story you see.. I got my panties in a twist all to quick, let the days pass, see what's what x Posted via Mobile Device Aaah right, now I understand. Forget my previous post and just have a w@nk...... H. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SUPRALOOPY Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 Have a Lemsip and a w@nk and get over it........OR storm over there and sweep her off her feet. Take some flowers and a bottle of champers and say in a loud clear voice "(Name here), I wanna see your goods baby...!!"* H. Thanks Paul, I tried to do both, I now have lemon sticky flowers,a bottle up my arse and a restraining order:rolleyes: Note to self Do not listen to Havard:Pling: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Havard Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 Thanks Paul, I tried to do both, I now have lemon sticky flowers,a bottle up my arse and a restraining order:rolleyes: Note to self Do not listen to Havard:Pling: LOL....lots... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kirk Posted October 5, 2008 Author Share Posted October 5, 2008 Thanks Paul, I tried to do both, I now have lemon sticky flowers,a bottle up my arse and a restraining order:rolleyes: Note to self Do not listen to Havard:Pling: LOL! Posted via Mobile Device Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rob Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 Go over there and shoot her in the head on her own doorstep, if you can't have her no-one else should either. It worked for me and that newsreader I fell in love with, and I managed to stitch up the local nutter too. Lets hope they never let him out.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest CoolsBlue Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 Go over there and shoot her in the head on her own doorstep, if you can't have her no-one else should either.QUOTE] i take it youve seen that film 10,000BC:d:p Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fizzle Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 write her name on your pecker, get a boner, take a pic on your phone, send that to her with the caption "whats up?" its a guaranteed method, worked for me!! u may need to bone up first, then write the name if your not as gifted Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bromy Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 Are you good at fighting? Go and give her fella a good working over. That always works a treat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ivan Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 Go over there and shoot her in the head on her own doorstep, if you can't have her no-one else should either. It worked for me and that newsreader I fell in love with, and I managed to stitch up the local nutter too. Lets hope they never let him out.... Oh, that's terrible. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
toyotasupra1980 Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 stop texting and speak to her face to face, thats the problem know days, everyone is bloody texting, go speak to her face to face, atleast then you will know whats going on and you well get some closure even if it works out or not. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guigsy Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 ive been in a similar situation mate. You dont know what she is upset about. she might have just split up with her bloke. So leave it be like you have been doing and keep playing the friend line for a little while. Worked for me... ... untill she stopped talking to me a year ago... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marbleapple Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 After 7 years and she knows how you feel its time to move on, your in the "friends zone" As above. IMO if she hasn't made a move after that long then she isn't likely to and you probably missed your chance years ago. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chewie Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 Let it go. I'd be pretty p155ed off if some bloke across the road from my girlfriend kept stalking her. So p155ed off, he might come over and visit you. And can you really blame him? Probably not what you want to hear but that's life. Hard to believe I know but sometimes you need more than a Supe to pull birds. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pig Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 Ok to clear up a few things, I dint give the full story, much confusion, my fault, Right to answer all of these, 1 she's not there, I've tried goin round, 2 she knows how I feel, she feels sorta the same but she's got a fella and I always said I'd still be her best mate... its a complicated story you see.. I got my panties in a twist all to quick, let the days pass, see what's what x Posted via Mobile Device After reading above i would suggest moving on......sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blackie Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 just have a w@nk...... H. Totally your answer to everything http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=NZG3rrYuUKU (sorry, Not funny) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Havard Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 Totally your answer to everything Yes, everything becomes clear once you get the "tatty watter" off your brain....... I think of it as my profession, luckily it's my hobby too..... H. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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