Kirk Posted October 4, 2008 Share Posted October 4, 2008 Ok some will see this as pathetic but I don't care.. Here's the scoop Me and this girl has been mates for almost 7 years, I physicaly love her and adore her, she's knows that.. We've spoke nearly everyday as she lives right across road from me but now it almost seems like she's ignoring me, she appears sad, doesn't reply to my txts or calls or anything. I feel like I've done something wrong but I don't see what. Last time we spoke was thurday and we had a laugh.. What is a guy to do? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JamieP Posted October 4, 2008 Share Posted October 4, 2008 Give up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kirk Posted October 4, 2008 Author Share Posted October 4, 2008 Suppose you do have a point JP... Posted via Mobile Device Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jake Posted October 4, 2008 Share Posted October 4, 2008 Grow up. EFA. z Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kirk Posted October 4, 2008 Author Share Posted October 4, 2008 F**k it.. Mods delete thread... Posted via Mobile Device Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bonus_2000 Posted October 4, 2008 Share Posted October 4, 2008 Mate, it sounds like you have tried, all you can do is just wait a while and see if she comes round. Give it a couple of days, and if nothing by then, then maybe try popping round to see if everything is ok? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JamieP Posted October 4, 2008 Share Posted October 4, 2008 Ok, does she know you are in love with her? Mates for 7 years and nothing has happened yet then i feel you are wasting your time loving this girl and need to move on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dan4 Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 does she know how you feel? Whats stopping you knocking on the door? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigcol Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 I agree totally, knock on her door flop it in her hand and tell her just how you feel you have nothing to lose you never know it may just be what she wants too, better to know for sure than dwell on it forever Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
p111ddy Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 7years is a long time!! & within 7years you should be able to know/understand the women! I don't mean to be harse but it aint going nowhere son otherwise it would have happend already! Just be greatful you have a good friend out of this & keep it like that otherwise it'll turn sour & you'll feel/look like a plum! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Swampy442 Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 Has she started seeing someone? Did you make a drunken 'faux pas'? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SimonG Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 i find myself agreeing with everyone on this it may have nothing to do with you maybe just call tell you have seen her looking down and ask her whats up do face to face let her know you care about her good luck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Benzsupra Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 I've been in the same situation for 10 years and for the past 4 months we've been happily together. I had to see her with other blokes and she saw me with other women it was always hard for me but i never knew it was hard for her too. Maybe if you just get on with things she'll miss you. It worked for me... If you let it get to you it will show and women don't seem to find that attractive. There are loads of similarities in your story to mine but i won't go into all of them. I just came to terms with the fact we would only ever be good friends and that's when she came running to me! Just a bit of personal experience, if it helps at all... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Havard Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 Ok some will see this as pathetic but I don't care.. Here's the scoop Me and this girl has been mates for almost 7 years, I physicaly love her and adore her, she's knows that.. We've spoke nearly everyday as she lives right across road from me but now it almost seems like she's ignoring me, she appears sad, doesn't reply to my txts or calls or anything. I feel like I've done something wrong but I don't see what. Last time we spoke was thurday and we had a laugh.. What is a guy to do? Martin, Have a Lemsip and a w@nk and get over it........OR storm over there and sweep her off her feet. Take some flowers and a bottle of champers and say in a loud clear voice "(Name here), I wanna see your goods baby...!!"* *This may not work to your liking but may be quite amusing for passers by. Havard cannot be held responsible for any damage or injury that may occur from following this advice.* H. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tbourner Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 I'd leave it for a few days, I don't know how pushy you are so if you've been txting her a lot then definitely leave it cos she's probably pissed off. Then if you don't get anything from her for a while then go over and ask if anything's wrong, maybe ask her if she fancies going for a drink just to get away from life for half an hour. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sexysupra Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 from a womans point of view, i think you should go over and tell her exactly how you feel. But maybe leave it for a few days first as youve been texting her a lot recently. She may not know how you feel, we're not mind readers no matter how many signs you blokes think your showing. She may be thinking shes reading the signs wrong and wont make a move, worried she'll make a fool of herself. If she finds someone else, you may loose her forever. go for it and good luck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
osso Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 Leave it for a few weeks I'd say, would probably get her thinking why she's not heard from you in awhile, then do what tbourner suggests ;o) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pig Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 Sit back and relax. Make sure she has a text/email from you saying you hope everything is ok and if she wants a shoulder or friend then you will be there when she is ready. It might be worth putting in there that your sorry if you have done anything to upset her. Edit: good shout from the lady above. It sounds like you could lose the woman you love. Give it a few days and do as she says. Question to sexy supra, do you think he should take some roses round when he puts his neck and friendship on the line/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Havard Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 we're not mind readers Can you please confirm that you are in fact female after that comment....... Women always know what you are thinking......apparently!! H. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sexysupra Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 Can you please confirm that you are in fact female after that comment....... Women always know what you are thinking......apparently!! H. yeah, we can only 'mind read' certain things though. And thats not really mind reading. Its just that men are so predictable!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sexysupra Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 Sit back and relax. Make sure she has a text/email from you saying you hope everything is ok and if she wants a shoulder or friend then you will be there when she is ready. It might be worth putting in there that your sorry if you have done anything to upset her. Edit: good shout from the lady above. It sounds like you could lose the woman you love. Give it a few days and do as she says. Question to sexy supra, do you think he should take some roses round when he puts his neck and friendship on the line/ Not sure on the roses. Its a nice gesture but maybe leave the roses until you know how she feels. Theyre a good thing to take round on a first date type thing though Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mike Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 Go over and ask her what's up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mike Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 *This may not work to your liking but may be quite amusing for passers by. Havard cannot be held responsible for any damage or injury that may occur from following this advice.* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SupraStar 3000 Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 7 years of heartache and love is alot to ignore and walk away from. Give it a few days. Write down what you want to say. Practice your lines and go over to talk. BUT prepared for the worst and dont expect miracles. Good luck fella. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrs H Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 Just go and ask her what is wrong you'll only get the answer by asking a direct question. Vicki x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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