KamaSupra Posted June 29, 2008 Author Share Posted June 29, 2008 being with some one just for the guilt is no way of sorting things out so as hard as it is be silent, when she does come around be ready look smart as if ur going out and relaxed dont let the face expression give you away. i just do hope its just a time out thing which happens and nothing more. If you like let us know when shes coming around and will get a mini meet around ur's Great idea, she used to be the one complaing if i went out as she wanted to see me or incase i met someone else. So if i at least pretend i'm going out might make her confused on whats going on and if I've moved on? Its just trying to keep a happy face when she's around thats the hard part. THANKS TO EVERYONE GIVING ADVICE, I NEED IT! Its true you don't realise what you have till its gone... carry on with with the comments as feel a lot better since reading them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KamaSupra Posted June 29, 2008 Author Share Posted June 29, 2008 been there seen it and got shitloads of t shirts, in every case it involved another guy:rolleyes: ( i must be crap in bed or summit), be strong and as many have said, do not contact her, any replys to texts keep them short and shrift, i don,t mean act like you don,t give a stuff, but act it cool don,t lose it and get angry at anytime you are with her as she will expect that, (beat a pillow up or something) women cannot get there heads around them not being number 1, she has the upper hand but you can change that around easily;) When she contacts me to get some things should I just act cool about it and act its a great idea. Thought of ignoring har but guess that'l just cause her to be angry with me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KamaSupra Posted June 29, 2008 Author Share Posted June 29, 2008 Just don't know what to say as she texts not phones. What kinda things should i say when she says ' can i come round to pick up some things'? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
imi Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 Just don't know what to say as she texts not phones. What kinda things should i say when she says ' can i come round to pick up some things'? answer: only if you come over between 8:00pm and 8:15pm cause I am going out after that... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jspec Germany Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 Pile her things up in your living room. When she calls, act like you're in a great mood (just in case you're not), and smile throughout the entire phone call. When she says she's ready to drop by to collect her things, say with a big smile, "oh great, I've got everything ready for you, when is a good time?" edit - if she texts, don't answer. Simple as that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JamieP Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 Just don't know what to say as she texts not phones. What kinda things should i say when she says ' can i come round to pick up some things'? Send back "yea no problem, im going out tonight so what time are you thinking of?" I rekon she will ask you where you are going, if she dont ask give up on her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gaz1 Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 Just don't know what to say as she texts not phones. What kinda things should i say when she says ' can i come round to pick up some things'? just text back "yeah sure, let me know what time as i would rather not be there when you collect your stuff as it would upset me" then go on to say would you be able to collect the rest of the stuff within the next 2 weeks so we can both get on with our lives, now she will think "bloody hell" he is already making plans,and that will confuse her, either way it goes you will need to be strong, and look forward, if you go for a beer then leave your phone, NEVER TEXT OR RING when you are pissed, if she knows you are really cut up and upset she will think you are weak, gaz1 for club agony aunt:D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tom S Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 gaz1 for club agony aunt:D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AlexM Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 That had crossed my mind... its just she used to get well mad with friends who'd cheat, like actually angry with them and stuff. Thats why if she has a new bloke its so out of character. 2 weeks ago when I felt something was up i asked if she was happy. I even said are you happy with us do we need a bit of time apart. She said she wants me and to not be stupid. I just don't get it. On Tue everything was great, wed different girl. I had one who was the same, high morals etc. Then she went funny and we split up - found out she'd started seeing someone else behind my back, decided he was better and made her move . Oh she dumped me on msn too, one of those things she swore blind she would never ever do and anyone that did it should be pitied. Try and forget about it (I know it's hard), remember what you had, get a clean break and move on. Don't go clingy either, it'll just make you feel worse. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tbourner Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 just text back "yeah sure, let me know what time as i would rather not be there when you collect your stuff as it would upset me" then go on to say would you be able to collect the rest of the stuff within the next 2 weeks so we can both get on with our lives, now she will think "bloody hell" he is already making plans I'd go with this too, rather than saying "I'm going out tonight" cos it sounds like an obivous txt and she'll think you're just making it up. Would be good if you could get 4 or 5 supes round when she turns up though, make it a weekend and make sure you're all outside having a BBQ with a few beers or something, all having a laugh and a good time!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gaz1 Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 I had one who was the same, high morals etc. Then she went funny and we split up - found out she'd started seeing someone else behind my back, decided he was better and made her move . Oh she dumped me on msn too, one of those things she swore blind she would never ever do and anyone that did it should be pitied. Try and forget about it (I know it's hard), remember what you had, get a clean break and move on. Don't go clingy either, it'll just make you feel worse. i can beat that i was dumped by text message after being with her and married for 10 years, now how did it go again " dear gary i love you, but i am not in love with you":rolleyes: best thing that ever happened to me, although you don,t realize it at the time:D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
drnas78 Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 BBQ fantastic IDEA invite her parents if you get on with em, and some of ere mate syou get on with , and dont forget the lads and ladies on here to local to ya, when she comes to collect her things be polite and say ur welcome to stay if you wish keep it simple ... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest itsmeeee Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 easiest thing to do is be polite, do not harrass her at all and do not under any circumstances be an arse to her in any way as this will just make her think she has done the right thing its easy for people to say "do this and do that" but its so hard when your in upto you kneck in it all and you cant stop thinking about it tbh i think it might be the end but just give her space and time and see what happens all the best with it emma Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lexsum Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 always find a song to express yourself, this is my recomendation; http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5SfjS6sX97U Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whitesupraboy2 Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 easiest thing to do is be polite, do not harrass her at all and do not under any circumstances be an arse to her in any way as this will just make her think she has done the right thing its easy for people to say "do this and do that" but its so hard when your in upto you kneck in it all and you cant stop thinking about it tbh i think it might be the end but just give her space and time and see what happens all the best with it emma Interesting username! Maybe this should of been in members only. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
drnas78 Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 point her to the thread make her realise Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RobSheffield Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 Just gauge how things go, have no specific plans, deal with anything she says on a whim. If she wants to talk, talk, if she doesn't then don't. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AndrewOW Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 My advice: 1. Be cool. Act as if everything is normal. 2. Let her feel the guilt. 3. Its still your place, enjoy the silence. 4. Go out and enjoy yourself. 5. Meet someone else, maybe lots of them. 6. Don't worry, be happy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pabs Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 Mate, totally gutted for you. Really know how you feel, and it isn't great. But I'm sure things will work out for the best. I too didn't attend the basingstoke meet today - mainly as I didn't have my seats in my car, but also because I've spent the entire day trying to save my relationship too..(been with my girl for 5 years next month) Things are not looking too promising here either. Chin up fella - all the best. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KamaSupra Posted June 29, 2008 Author Share Posted June 29, 2008 Thanks for the support, I'm trying to get on with things even though I just don't feel like doing anything. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KamaSupra Posted June 29, 2008 Author Share Posted June 29, 2008 Luckly its my house and my laptop so i can just go on here anytime that I'm alone! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JamieP Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 Try and keep yaself busy, sitting about alone will drive you up the wall for the next few days, if you are shallow like me you will soon get over it:D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KamaSupra Posted June 29, 2008 Author Share Posted June 29, 2008 Try and keep yaself busy, sitting about alone will drive you up the wall for the next few days, if you are shallow like me you will soon get over it:D Tell me about it i was going mental earlier when i was alone had to get out. Got mates round now but thier on Playstation! Better than no company..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pabs Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 I know it's probably not much mate, but as you know there are a good few of us Supra owners living very near to you - if you ever fancy doing anything, meeting up or whatever, just give me a shout and if I'm free we can go down pub, or out for a drive, or a mini meet or something... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest dangerousandy Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 i can beat that i was dumped by text message after being with her and married for 10 years, now how did it go again " dear gary i love you, but i am not in love with you":rolleyes: best thing that ever happened to me, although you don,t realize it at the time:D that sucks dude...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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