KamaSupra Posted June 29, 2008 Author Share Posted June 29, 2008 I know it's probably not much mate, but as you know there are a good few of us Supra owners living very near to you - if you ever fancy doing anything, meeting up or whatever, just give me a shout and if I'm free we can go down pub, or out for a drive, or a mini meet or something... Thanks mate, think we'll have to have another meet arranged soon as didn't get to todays one. I regret not going, its just i didn't really feel like being sociable earlier you know? Hope you sort things out in your relationship. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stevie_b Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 Sorry to hear about this chap. There's a few of us in the Basingstoke area, so if you fancy meeting up sometime, drop us a PM (more likely to see it than a thread ) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Supradan Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 just text back "yeah sure, let me know what time as i would rather not be there when you collect your stuff as it would upset me" then go on to say would you be able to collect the rest of the stuff within the next 2 weeks so we can both get on with our lives, now she will think "bloody hell" he is already making plans,and that will confuse her, either way it goes you will need to be strong, and look forward, if you go for a beer then leave your phone, NEVER TEXT OR RING when you are pissed, if she knows you are really cut up and upset she will think you are weak, gaz1 for club agony aunt:D Good Advice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nick Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 Sounds like she's not 100% sure that the new chap is an upgrade yet so she's keeping her options open. Spot on. Change the locks and get yourself on the first flight to Bangkok. Women are waiting to love you long time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tbourner Posted June 30, 2008 Share Posted June 30, 2008 all the best with it emma Why banned? Something to do with this thread? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AndrewOW Posted June 30, 2008 Share Posted June 30, 2008 Why banned? Something to do with this thread? ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jake Posted June 30, 2008 Share Posted June 30, 2008 Moving on is very easy said then done,That's good then. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Havard Posted June 30, 2008 Share Posted June 30, 2008 They are odd things sadly, it kind of makes you understand the whole being gay thing at times, must be much easier apart from all the bumming and things. I thought that your "failed traders convention" post couldn't be bettered but that has run it close Michael...... To be honest KSM it sounds as if she has either met someone else or is having doubts about you both. you can never predict other peoples behaviour but being distant is a big sign of someone else getting her attention. Question is, why would you want to have a relationship with someone who has no back bone and is deceitful. If anyone treated me like this I would not even consider having them back as it will only happen again (because you have allowed it). It's hard and you heart will want them but you must trust your head..... Time to move on mate, you'll only regret it if you do get her back!! In the long run I would bet my house on it being doomed. H. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Professor Kenny Posted June 30, 2008 Share Posted June 30, 2008 To be honest KSM it sounds as if she has either met someone else or is having doubts about you both. you can never predict other peoples behaviour but being distant is a big sign of someone else getting her attention. Question is, why would you want to have a relationship with someone who has no back bone and is deceitful. If anyone treated me like this I would not even consider having them back as it will only happen again (because you have allowed it). It's hard and you heart will want them but you must trust your head..... Time to move on mate, you'll only regret it if you do get her back!! In the long run I would bet my house on it being doomed. H. This sounds like good advice to me. Sorry to read about this mate, I hope you get to a better place soon. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Class One Posted June 30, 2008 Share Posted June 30, 2008 Why banned? Something to do with this thread? Banned member posting under a psuedonym. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Havard Posted June 30, 2008 Share Posted June 30, 2008 Banned member posting under a psuedonym. That's a big word for a Monday morning Doug... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jurgen-Jm-Imports Posted June 30, 2008 Share Posted June 30, 2008 http://encyclopedia2.thefreedictionary.com/Psuedonym Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charlotte Posted June 30, 2008 Share Posted June 30, 2008 I'm fast coming to the conclusion men talk about this 'relationship' stuff a lot more than women do! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cheekymonkey Posted June 30, 2008 Share Posted June 30, 2008 I'm fast coming to the conclusion men talk about this 'relationship' stuff a lot more than women do! There must be something in the air at the moment! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Firestorm Posted June 30, 2008 Share Posted June 30, 2008 Guys have feelings aswell... mostly bout our supes on here but still!! lol chin up mate. as its been said before you dont wanna be with someone who cant talk to you.. screw that mate been ther done that its the worst..if she can't face up to it then your better off without her.. yeh its gonna suck for ages but once youve dealt with it means you can get ur groove on in the single world bud.. and you have a supe so its not all bad! oh and the next tip is that if u break up for a while and she comes crawling back.. dont do it!! its never the same! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KamaSupra Posted June 30, 2008 Author Share Posted June 30, 2008 Luckly when I visited her at her parents and we broke up I took the house keys off her. Not because I'm nasty. But because i thought well if we've broken up and its my house that I bought and all the furniture etc I paid for why should she have the keys? I don't wanna risk her coming round and taking stuff when I'm out. Also funny thing is when I got home and checked they were the right keys, she had kept one certain key- My garage key where my Supe is kept! So ended up going back straight round her parents to get it back! Felt like an idiot going back there so soon but because i wasn't expecting to break up i figured i shouldn't expect her not to do something else thats stupid like trashing my car. Today at work was so hard trying to cocentrate but trying to get on with stuff. Still in 2 minds if wither I'd take her back because she was always such a brilliant girl.....till the other day! Damn I'm still messed up! She's the only person I've broken up with before and gotten so upset. I usually wouldn't give a shit so its so strange its screwing with me so much. Its good to get everyones feedback on what I should do as i didn't have a clue, still in some ways i still don't know. Guess I'll see what happens when she does ask to get her things..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Havard Posted June 30, 2008 Share Posted June 30, 2008 Have a Beechams hot lemon and a damn good tug and you'll wonder what all the hassle was about..... H. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KamaSupra Posted June 30, 2008 Author Share Posted June 30, 2008 Have a Beechams hot lemon and a damn good tug and you'll wonder what all the hassle was about..... H. Have to admit that did make me laugh considering how pissed off I've been! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Supranature Posted June 30, 2008 Share Posted June 30, 2008 Have a Beechams hot lemon and a damn good tug and you'll wonder what all the hassle was about..... H. Reliably caustic as usual.................... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lbm Posted June 30, 2008 Share Posted June 30, 2008 Have a Beechams hot lemon and a damn good tug and you'll wonder what all the hassle was about..... H. In fact it's such good advice, I'd like to incoroporate this in to my lifestyle regardless Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KamaSupra Posted July 1, 2008 Author Share Posted July 1, 2008 Why banned? Something to do with this thread? Banned member posting under a psuedonym. ''itsmeeee'' was banned? Wasn't my EX on here was it?! Gotta watch her... Surprising how better i feel just days after the breakup. I do still get down in the dumps at some points during the day but not feeling as bad just now. She asked to come round for some stuff earlier. Text me at lunch time, So I said yeah sure call me later I've got some of your stuff looked out already for you to come and get.... I haven't heard a thing since! She leaves me confused on what the hell shes thinking! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Havard Posted July 1, 2008 Share Posted July 1, 2008 ''itsmeeee'' was banned? Wasn't my EX on here was it?! Gotta watch her... Surprising how better i feel just days after the breakup. I do still get down in the dumps at some points during the day but not feeling as bad just now. She asked to come round for some stuff earlier. Text me at lunch time, So I said yeah sure call me later I've got some of your stuff looked out already for you to come and get.... I haven't heard a thing since! She leaves me confused on what the hell shes thinking! Stop worrying about what she is thinking. Worry about what YOU are going to do now. DO NOT WASTE YOUR LIFE WAITING FOR HER........... H. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KamaSupra Posted July 1, 2008 Author Share Posted July 1, 2008 Your freakin right! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Havard Posted July 1, 2008 Share Posted July 1, 2008 Your freakin right! No sh!t.......;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevie72 Posted July 1, 2008 Share Posted July 1, 2008 KarmaMan reading this brought back a similar memory i had not too long ago. One minute everything was fine and then the next i had a text saying she didn't want to see me no more. She wouldn't talk to me or anything and i found out later she went back to an ex. The problem is you will stay awake at night pyschoanalysing everything and thinking that you did something wrong. Trust me, you sound like a decent lad and the chances are you have grown apart (her side) and you need to show you're head strong. I Guarantee to you that in around 6 months or so, you'll look back at this post, with a beatuiful lady in tow and will be laughing. Chin up, after all you own a Supra! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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