supra-lover Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 Buy what? a bag of chips Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
imi Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 That had crossed my mind... its just she used to get well mad with friends who'd cheat, like actually angry with them and stuff. Thats why if she has a new bloke its so out of character. 2 weeks ago when I felt something was up i asked if she was happy. I even said are you happy with us do we need a bit of time apart. She said she wants me and to not be stupid. I just don't get it. On Tue everything was great, wed different girl. perhaps she is just embarassed and ashamed that she is no better than her freinds who cheat..... always expect the unexpected. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
michael Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 That had crossed my mind... its just she used to get well mad with friends who'd cheat, like actually angry with them and stuff. Thats why if she has a new bloke its so out of character. 2 weeks ago when I felt something was up i asked if she was happy. I even said are you happy with us do we need a bit of time apart. She said she wants me and to not be stupid. I just don't get it. On Tue everything was great, wed different girl. My experience is that sometimes you have no idea what they are up to and then all of a sudden the bomb gets dropped, hopefully I'm way out on this in your case though. They are odd things sadly, it kind of makes you understand the whole being gay thing at times, must be much easier apart from all the bumming and things. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
damouk Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 Same here m8, its just one of those things, its called keeping her options open! you may find this other bloke is a total a$$hole but says the right things, but she cant judge him from past history cos there is none, but she knows you like a book, knows exactly what to say to keep you hanging, thats why you need to stand strong and call the shots! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dragonball Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 Keep your pecker up mate! They are odd things sadly, it kind of makes you understand the whole being gay thing at times, must be much easier apart from all the bumming and things. PMSL How was the Samaritans training? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KamaSupra Posted June 29, 2008 Author Share Posted June 29, 2008 yeah she just different to weeks ago but she said she didn't wanna break up. wed she moved out, I knew she was going out fri nite so sent some flowers to her work so she knew i was thinking of her also incase any guys at work were after her. She text me later that day saying thanks lots of love. I said hope she has good night out. Sat she accuses me of sending text back that day to make her feel guilty about going out. its messed up! She hated friends who'd cheat on their boyfriends. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rayman Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 My experience is that sometimes you have no idea what they are up to and then all of a sudden the bomb gets dropped, hopefully I'm way out on this in your case though. They are odd things sadly, it kind of makes you understand the whole being gay thing at times, must be much easier apart from all the bumming and things. LOL'd Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rayman Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 Sounds like she's cheated and now feels guilty, and wants to get out of relationship because of it. Not that that makes you feel any better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whitesupraboy2 Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 yeah she just different to weeks ago but she said she didn't wanna break up. wed she moved out, I knew she was going out fri nite so sent some flowers to her work so she knew i was thinking of her also incase any guys at work were after her. She text me later that day saying thanks lots of love. I said hope she has good night out. Sat she accuses me of sending text back that day to make her feel guilty about going out. its messed up! She hated friends who'd cheat on their boyfriends. this is a classic case of she's trying to make you react so that she can hate you for something you say or do or remove her own guilt. You should of replied just saying 'sorry that wasnt what i was trying to do' and any further txts she sent not replied too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tbourner Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 I said hope she has good night out. Sat she accuses me of sending text back that day to make her feel guilty about going out. its messed up! That's just women!!!! You can't say anything to them without it being taken out of context and twisted into something bad - the whole bleedin lot of them have paranoid episodes!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
damouk Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 think you and me must be brothers, she is laughing at you, think how good must she feel at the mo, just comming out of a 5 relationship, and now not being able to loose, she has this new and exciting thing going on with some other bloke and you are desperate to keep her, showing no matter what she does to you, you will have her back, will say anything just to keep you there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
drnas78 Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 if you have tried otehr methods the try ignoreing text , and dont react , ask her to collect her stuff soon as she can and hang in there few days, have a break on ur own go see few mates out of town . and see what happens. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikeyb10supra Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 When she comes for her stuff chain her to a chair, that way she can't leave you. Simple eh? good one I feel for you dude, it must be devestating to lose a loved one in such a way and I hope I never have to experience it first hand in such a way. maybe talk to her mum if you have a good relationship with her parents and see how she feels. Have you been neglecting her lately or being distant ie going out all weekend spending too long on the car? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SilverSoop Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 Just read this thread, sorry Karma, i do know how you feel, i had a similar thing happen to me a while back... Im sorry to hear this mate, i hope you and your girlfriend sort everything out... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KamaSupra Posted June 29, 2008 Author Share Posted June 29, 2008 So i should just act like it don't bother me when she comes to collect her stuff or should i ask if this is it over forever? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JamieP Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 if you have tried otehr methods the try ignoreing text , and dont react , ask her to collect her stuff soon as she can and hang in there few days, have a break on ur own go see few mates out of town . and see what happens. thats what i would do. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rayman Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 yes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whitesupraboy2 Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 So i should just act like it don't bother me when she comes to collect her stuff or should i ask if this is it over forever? Do not ask that question would be my advice. Surely you only want to be with her if she naturally wants to be with you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AndyT Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 Do not ask that question would be my advice. Surely you only want to be with her if she naturally wants to be with you? Agree with the above. Don't ask that and don't let her know that she's got you round her little finger. You'll be exploited and left hanging. Gotta move on mate. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KamaSupra Posted June 29, 2008 Author Share Posted June 29, 2008 Went out last night to get it off my mind. Met a girl who I once had a bit of fun with when out but just didn't feel like doing anything guess because it was just too early. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
drnas78 Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 being with some one just for the guilt is no way of sorting things out so as hard as it is be silent, when she does come around be ready look smart as if ur going out and relaxed dont let the face expression give you away. i just do hope its just a time out thing which happens and nothing more. If you like let us know when shes coming around and will get a mini meet around ur's Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AndyT Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 Went out last night to get it off my mind. Met a girl who I once had a bit of fun with when out but just didn't feel like doing anything guess because it was just too early. Good man. You're on the road to mending already. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris Wilson Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 Moderators: Emotional outpourings section, chop chop!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Branners Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 Moderators: Emotional outpourings section, chop chop!! hmm, that would mean a moderator would have to read all the emotional outpourings...Im a heartless git and I tend to keep my views to myself so it wouldnt be me... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gaz1 Posted June 29, 2008 Share Posted June 29, 2008 been there seen it and got shitloads of t shirts, in every case it involved another guy:rolleyes: ( i must be crap in bed or summit), be strong and as many have said, do not contact her, any replys to texts keep them short and shrift, i don,t mean act like you don,t give a stuff, but act it cool don,t lose it and get angry at anytime you are with her as she will expect that, (beat a pillow up or something) women cannot get there heads around them not being number 1, she has the upper hand but you can change that around easily;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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