couv3z Posted March 20, 2008 Share Posted March 20, 2008 My ex has just rang me to tell me how much of a dick her new fella/not fella he doesn't pay his way and he had a 5 year old kid, and he brags about all the birds his been with why has she called to tell me this?? really? she still knows i'm in love with her and want her back, why has she call me... the call end with her hanging up when i said "i don't want to know about your new, fella, i'm still in love which you hearing your voice brings a tear to my eye" then she hung up is to kick me while i'm down?? or does she still have feelings? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
n boost Posted March 20, 2008 Share Posted March 20, 2008 Am not a lady mate, but deffo seems like a cry for attention. Everyone thinks the grass may be greener but then it ain't. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr_Doom Posted March 20, 2008 Share Posted March 20, 2008 My advice would be to walk away mate.. Cut all methods of comunication with her, she's just messing with your head! I've been through the same thing and i'm sure lots of other members have too... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matt H Posted March 20, 2008 Share Posted March 20, 2008 probably just lonely and wanted to unload on someone? but to be fair, how could any of us know? none of us know her? Wallicechick? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
juanchan Posted March 20, 2008 Share Posted March 20, 2008 Sounds like a vague cry for attention to me. But, she might just need to offload some moaning about her new bloke, thought that the two of you were getting along fine and so called you as a shoulder(ish) to cry on - you telling her you still had feelings for her may have been a surprise to her! As Dr Doom says, try and cut communication with her as it'll only mess more and more with your head. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TonyP Posted March 20, 2008 Share Posted March 20, 2008 couv3z said: My ex has just rang me to tell me how much of a dick her new fella/not fella .........................................................................................is to kick me while i'm down?? or does she still have feelings? F*ck knows! I'll never understand them if I live to be 100. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JODY T Posted March 20, 2008 Share Posted March 20, 2008 I had this happen once. I bet shes doing it BECAUSE you still love her.. She know that youll listen.... Walk away and keep walking.. When relationships get like that it really is best to find another one... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KimberleyAnn Posted March 20, 2008 Share Posted March 20, 2008 If she had feelings for you she wouldnt be with another bloke. She is probably trying to get you back NOW because she knows you still love her. The bloke she is unhappy with has obviously annoyed her and she now needs affection from somewhere else, and wants you to feel sorry for her. Honestly........ex's are ex's for a reason. If its meant to be it will work out, but dont let her take you for a ride. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stevie_b Posted March 20, 2008 Share Posted March 20, 2008 n boost said: Am not a lady mate But are you female? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lbm Posted March 20, 2008 Share Posted March 20, 2008 It seems a little tasteless to phone you up for that quite frankly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
couv3z Posted March 20, 2008 Author Share Posted March 20, 2008 Matt H said: Wallicechick? think a certain 17 year old member is trying to meet her. cheers guys/girls i'll just have to ignore her and try and move on, if only i could stop the mental images:blink: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kslb Posted March 20, 2008 Share Posted March 20, 2008 Seems like she is keeping your emotions high to keep her backup in play. She wants to know you are there on the reserve bench for her to use when needed and is just keeping you thinking about her so you don't move on before she is ready to let you. I am sure you don't wish her any ill will and know you still have feelings for her but move on, put yourself first. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darren-K Posted March 20, 2008 Share Posted March 20, 2008 im no lady,but O M F G !! lol is it not obvious to you why she has phoned ? dude !!! its as plain as the freckle on the end of my nose. couv3z said: My ex has just rang me to tell me how much of a dick her new fella/not fella he doesn't pay his way and he had a 5 year old kid, and he brags about all the birds his been with why has she called to tell me this?? really? she still knows i'm in love with her and want her back, why has she call me... the call end with her hanging up when i said "i don't want to know about your new, fella, i'm still in love which you hearing your voice brings a tear to my eye" then she hung up is to kick me while i'm down?? or does she still have feelings? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJButler Posted March 20, 2008 Share Posted March 20, 2008 Two sorts of fools in this world mate, little fools try to understand women and big fools who think they do. Well thats what my old man taught me and i haven't forgotten it yet, works for me:d:d:d Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
juanchan Posted March 20, 2008 Share Posted March 20, 2008 DJButler said: Two sorts of fools in this world mate, little fools try to understand women and big fools who think they do. Well thats what my old man taught me and i haven't forgotten it yet, works for me:d:d:d I bought my Dad one of those comedy "Everything Men know about Women" books the other Christmas Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gibson Trimming Posted March 20, 2008 Share Posted March 20, 2008 She knows you have feelings for her and she is using you to make her feel better and to keep you on the backburner incase it really doesnt work out with her new bloke..simple as that.. Miss Ffi Ffi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sheefa Posted March 20, 2008 Share Posted March 20, 2008 Gibson Trimming said: She knows you have feelings for her and she is using you to make her feel better and to keep you on the backburner incase it really doesnt work out with her new bloke..simple as that.. Miss Ffi Ffi Absolutely spot on. I'd say you are on her 'reserve' list as a contigency partner if things go tits up with her new Fella mate. Walk away right now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snake Posted March 20, 2008 Share Posted March 20, 2008 Run forrest Run,don't fall for it and be the back up guy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Supragal Posted March 20, 2008 Share Posted March 20, 2008 I have no idea. Possibly because she likes the idea that she still has a hold over you? Even on a subconcious level. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest cj748 Posted March 20, 2008 Share Posted March 20, 2008 Definitely agree with this. Keep walking................. I once heard that some women are like monkeys. They don't let go of one branch until they have hold of the next. Most of us have been through it. Try not to get caught up in it. If it is meant to be, then she would drop everything and come back to you. So keep reminding yourself every day that it just isn't worth it. Ex for a reason.......... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ian R Posted March 20, 2008 Share Posted March 20, 2008 Just tell her to get tae F**K Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ian W Posted March 20, 2008 Share Posted March 20, 2008 Ian R said: Just tell her to get tae F**K I'm liking your grasp of the scottish language there Ian, very impressive Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gaz Walker Posted March 20, 2008 Share Posted March 20, 2008 Ian W said: I'm liking your grasp of the scottish language there Ian, very impressive Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest wallicechick Posted March 20, 2008 Share Posted March 20, 2008 Sorry for the late reply. Been out today doing usefull things with my life :-p Hmmmm, does seem pretty obvious why she phoned you. She knows that your still in love with her, shes knows that you will listen, and shes using you because she knows that you will be there to make herself feel better. When you said to her that you didnt want to her about her new fella, it would have taken her by surprise because to her it would seem that your moving on with your life, and that you wont just drop everything when she wants you too, so she probably got annoyed and hung up. Shows the real kind of person she is. She rang you for one thing, self gratification, and when you acted strong and told her that you werent interested, she lost interest too. Not worth bothing with if you ask me. I would stay strong and move on from her. That way she wont walk all over you. You did the right thing imo.., Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jevansio Posted March 20, 2008 Share Posted March 20, 2008 Surely this is a case for our very own resident Agony Aunt.... Chris Wilson? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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