markymark Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 I was with my ex for 11 years (started going out when I was 17) - I thought for the first month or so when we split that life wasn't worth living but got back out there, met a new girl & 3 years down the line I've never been happier - now I can't even believe I stayed with my ex for 11 years & worse, I thought I was happy then?!?! Move on, chin up (as others have said) & remember things always happen for a reason mate - good luck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ady Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 Until he gets AIDS... have you not heard of comdoms? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikeyb10supra Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 I have great endurance. Read into that what you will you can put up with a lot of sh*t then ;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Havard Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 have you not heard of comdoms? Are they like condoms but different... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ady Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 Are they like condoms but different... You know the ones then ;) there for special big boys Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Havard Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 You know the ones then ;) there for special big boys Yeah I know the ones, they have the use by date stamped on them but apparently I don't roll them back far enough..... H. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ady Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 Yeah I know the ones, they have the use by date stamped on them but apparently I don't roll them back far enough..... H. hahah :D:D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Firestorm Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 times a healer mate. The worst time ever in my life was when i broke up from my x of 2.5 years, the only girl i have ever loved. I didnt want to be with her anymore so i called it quits, 4/5 months later i realised the mistake i had mate.... she didnt want to take me back......gutted. so hard, took me a while to get over, but you do, just takes time........ Best thing to do is dont keep in contact with her, try to foget, move on and let time do everything else Hey mate.. been here done and got the t-shirt. was the same age aswell. with girl i was mad for she went to uni only 40mins away and i saw her when i could- 1st year was okay for the most part -let her have her space and saw her and stuff. but then she started to change- one day she just decided she wanted to start smoking again.- then toward the end of that year 1st year she basically said she wasnt int love with me and we broke up - tottaly and massively heart breaking.. well bout 9 months roll by we talked a bit now and then- all of sudden she comes to a rock club im djing and decides that she misses me and wants me back.. for the next 4 or 5 months we kinda started talking again and then i thought she had changed so we got back together.. but basically by then her party lifestyle was still in full swing - as in she wanted to go out do shed loads of drugs and get pissed - now that cool and all but its real strain on the reltionship if you dont live near by and drugs change me people- plus she had loads of guys wanting to get with her( she says he never cheated tho ...hhm) so then 3 months into us getting back 2gether.. she basically says she aint in love with me it aint working and she was more or less in love with another guy!Uni changes people and not always for the better! boom second heart break- biggest mistake of my life! i was devestated! but then 6 months later i met my current partner and she is just amazing! she beautiful shes caring she gives a cr*p and she ticks all my boxes as i do hers.. and so the moral of the story is that.. try not to think about to negatively time will heal and you will find the right person for you who will treat u better than anything(probably make ur x jealous too) and in the mean time ur single lad get back out on the pull - have a few rebounds and drive ur supra... beleive me u wont be hard pushed to find a girl if you take her out on a date in that ! smile mate!! things will get better! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kieren1234 Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 times a healer mate. The worst time ever in my life was when i broke up from my x of 2.5 years, the only girl i have ever loved. I didnt want to be with her anymore so i called it quits, 4/5 months later i realised the mistake i had mate.... she didnt want to take me back......gutted. so hard, took me a while to get over, but you do, just takes time........ Best thing to do is dont keep in contact with her, try to foget, move on and let time do everything else I suppose it does help that you are a model and can pull any lass you want when you go out. I still think you look gay though LOL :d:d Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lbm Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 My ex dumped me,then got married in Bali to my best mate. obviously i was a little upset. He doesn't know what he's gonna do without him Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marc_p Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 I still think you look gay though LOL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matt H Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 I suppose it does help that you are a model and can pull any lass you want when you go out. I still think you look gay though LOL :d:d lol, I wouldnt go that far, but yeah, pulling girls left right and centre is one thing, but finding someone you actually connect with and want to be with so much you cant go to work without getting excited about seeing them that night is another.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matt H Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 My ex dumped me,then got married in Bali to my best mate. obviously i was a little upset. Wow, now that is a wounder! hope you never speak to that "mate" of yours ever again after that! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matt H Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 You call it heartbreak, I call it a lucky escape for you. Learn from it and move on I've never known anyone to be married as long as me that have any GOOD words to say about it How are you still married? That is a very good question. I have never known anyone to be married for so long with no good words to say about it!! H. a) Thing is, if they ever parted, he wouldnt know what to do with himself or b) he actually did get married to the first bird that would have him............ fancy getting married today love, aye, go on them.......oops Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Conrad Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 Wow, now that is a wounder! hope you never speak to that "mate" of yours ever again after that! My old man always says your mates are the ones you should keep an eye on. The irony is that it's them you trust the most with your bird.... A few years back one of 'our gang' was shagging my best mates missus. When it all came out there was fireworks to say the least. Nobody speaks to that lad or that girl anymore and they rightfully have no friends. They went out for a while afterwards until she did it again to him! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
debonaire9989 Posted March 19, 2008 Author Share Posted March 19, 2008 well it must be official, uni does change people, but in my case for the worse. well on the bright side the money i spent on her can go on the supra. i got a uk bonnet scoop put on her today, iv ordered an fmic and am off to miami gt with regards to going bpu. tonight im meeting a nice lassie that aparently has had a thing for me for a while, so let the rebounding begin:eyebrows:. once again thanks guys for the help an support. i just gota keep my end and listen to what you guys have said. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
juanchan Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 tonight im meeting a nice lassie that aparently has had a thing for me for a while, so let the rebounding begin:eyebrows: Have a good one dude! Don't do anything we wouldn't do though Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
couv3z Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 we'll expect a blow by blow report Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blackie Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 Havent read the thread, Just grin and bear (sp) it and it will be fine. I have had some really bad s**t happen in my life but i'm fine now. Times a great healer..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marbleapple Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 well it must be official, uni does change people, but in my case for the worse. well on the bright side the money i spent on her can go on the supra. i got a uk bonnet scoop put on her today, iv ordered an fmic and am off to miami gt with regards to going bpu. tonight im meeting a nice lassie that aparently has had a thing for me for a while, so let the rebounding begin:eyebrows:. once again thanks guys for the help an support. i just gota keep my end and listen to what you guys have said. Uni always is a relationship splitter (new environment, friends and alcohol etc). Saying that though it can work out, so you don't give up if you dont want to. I can speak from experience here as Clare and I met at 15, almost (very almost) split but we worked through it and we now plan to marry next year. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
juanchan Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 Uni always is a relationship splitter (new environment, friends and alcohol etc). Seconded, although me being in Southampton and her in York didn't help things either! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marbleapple Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 Seconded, although me being in Southampton and her in York didn't help things either! Yer well in our case she was in Leeds Uni and so was I. She was at a different set of Halls though and thus made different mates. I think it is hard to try stay faithful and loyal whilst at the same time trying to make new friends and adapt to the new environment. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
juanchan Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 Yer well in our case she was in Leeds Uni and so was I. She was at a different set of Halls though and thus made different mates. I think it is hard to try stay faithful and loyal whilst at the same time trying to make new friends and adapt to the new environment. Definitely. Once I'd got over that particular ex (that'll have been about 3 Snakebite and blacks I think...), I had a ball while living in halls. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Supra_dan Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 Happens to the best of us. My ex of 2 1/2 years has just got with a fella. I had the I don't love you blah blah blah. It happens to the best of us but you just have to get on with it taken me 4 months to come to terms with it but the Supra helps. Plus the interest I have now is good Alllllllll goooooooood! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marbleapple Posted March 19, 2008 Share Posted March 19, 2008 Plus the interest I have now is good Alllllllll goooooooood! I have found though that if girls think you are taken, then you are automatically more attractive to them... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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