thesword22 Posted February 23, 2008 Share Posted February 23, 2008 :badmood:hey guys just got in from anight on the drink. i got a message from my fiancee of 5 years about 530pm saying she want ed to chat. she then proceeded to tell meshe was leaving me. i was well pissed so i went out on the lash. when my head is clear io have all my finances tyo sort out and try and think of a solution to keeping the house on my own. oh well shi* happens Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
and1c Posted February 23, 2008 Share Posted February 23, 2008 :badmood:hey guys just got in from anight on the drink. i got a message from my fiancee of 5 years about 530pm saying she want ed to chat. she then proceeded to tell meshe was leaving me. i was well pissed so i went out on the lash. when my head is clear io have all my finances tyo sort out and try and think of a solution to keeping the house on my own. oh well shi* happens Bugger Sorry to hear that m8. Is it 'definately' over? or is there some talking to be done.....? If it is, then as you say, sh*t happens and everything happens for a reason so they say. im still trying to work out a lot of them though.....(reasons that is!) Good luck mate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gaz6002 Posted February 23, 2008 Share Posted February 23, 2008 Was she leaving you because you were out on the lash? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thesword22 Posted February 23, 2008 Author Share Posted February 23, 2008 no she says she aint been happy for a while. i dont understand why she just didnt talk to me. she recently got back from holiday with her sister and i knew there was something up then coz she got back to the uk on the friday nad didnt come home till the monday. she then had three days of work. she has cheated in the past but i dont know if she has cheated again. she asked if i would be available for a meeting with the mortgage comnpany on friday so i guess its final. all i can do is wait to hear from her and take it from there. cheers for teh comments guys just needed somewhere to vent. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Havard Posted February 23, 2008 Share Posted February 23, 2008 Sorry to hear but it sounds as if it's pretty final. Don't waste your time with someone who doesn't want you... If she's cheated before then it's always going to be difficult to trust her, so I reckon you are better off without!! She could have talked to you but did you ask her if she was happy?? H. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
supra61 Posted February 23, 2008 Share Posted February 23, 2008 Sorry to hear that bud but if she's cheated your better off rid of her,i know thats not what you want to hear right now and is a little harsh,but you will get over it in time.Good luck hope you get sorted. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ManwithSupra Posted February 23, 2008 Share Posted February 23, 2008 Sorry to hear this mate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carl0s Posted February 23, 2008 Share Posted February 23, 2008 Bugger Were there any signs? (I'm wondering what to look out for!). Like, not talking much? erm, are you never home or something? Going out with the lads a lot? Have you got really fat in the last few years? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikeyb10supra Posted February 23, 2008 Share Posted February 23, 2008 no she says she aint been happy for a while. i dont understand why she just didnt talk to me. she has cheated in the past but i dont know if she has cheated again. you better off out then mate....if she has once, chances are she has been tempted again have you got good mates who will supoprt you if you do part company? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MaveriK Posted February 23, 2008 Share Posted February 23, 2008 its going to hurt at first and maybe for a while but it will get easier and like others have said if she has cheated before she may again. Cant live with 'em,cant live without 'em! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Havard Posted February 23, 2008 Share Posted February 23, 2008 Bugger Were there any signs? (I'm wondering what to look out for!). Like, not talking much? erm, are you never home or something? Going out with the lads a lot? Have you got really fat in the last few years? I can claim all 4 of those, do I win a prize? H. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thesword22 Posted February 23, 2008 Author Share Posted February 23, 2008 cheers for the replys guys. with regards to signs there were some and i di ask if everything was ok but was reaasuered it was all fine. and no i havent suddenly got fat over the last two years lol i work a lot becasue of my business so time is limited but she has never complained before when the moneys there nad she gets wat she wants. anyway ill hopefully know more after the weekend. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Elias Posted February 23, 2008 Share Posted February 23, 2008 Sound horrible, let's hope it solves in the best possible way! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carl0s Posted February 23, 2008 Share Posted February 23, 2008 Did you forget valentines day? (it was about a week ago) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thesword22 Posted February 23, 2008 Author Share Posted February 23, 2008 no we agreed not to do valentines lol oh well Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ivan Posted February 23, 2008 Share Posted February 23, 2008 Sounds like she had too good a time on holiday with her sister. Bad luck mate. PS, Pete - if you're going to edit the swear words, at least do it properly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suprash Posted February 23, 2008 Share Posted February 23, 2008 cheers for the replys guys. with regards to signs there were some and i di ask if everything was ok but was reaasuered it was all fine. and no i havent suddenly got fat over the last two years lol i work a lot becasue of my business so time is limited but she has never complained before when the moneys there nad she gets wat she wants. anyway ill hopefully know more after the weekend. That would just annoy me, asking if everything is ok and them reassuring you things are when clearly they are not....... The more life goes the more I think its not like woman make out that all men are a***holes and treat them like crap, if anything they get treated like crap cause we get fed up of being hurt or let down, I have been there myself recently, but girls seem to pick who they want to be with and if they get bored of you/not want it anymore instead of working through things they just find another bloke. But after being let down on a few occassions and generally loosing a lot of respect for the female population I went on a treat them like shit routine at the end of last year, and soon had the girl saying the usual, your an a***hole etc, well what do they expect when I had been hurt last year like I had, still didnt stop my ex thinking she can obviously do a lot better for herself then me, I wouldnt mind if I was an a***hole but I gave her everything she could ever want......... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thesword22 Posted February 23, 2008 Author Share Posted February 23, 2008 That would just annoy me well lets just say i have to replace a door at work thats a bit worse for wear. the mazing thing is i didnt even hurt my hand.lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carl0s Posted February 23, 2008 Share Posted February 23, 2008 That would just annoy me, asking if everything is ok and them reassuring you things are when clearly they are not....... Mine does this Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Havard Posted February 23, 2008 Share Posted February 23, 2008 Mine does this I thought they all did that...!! Obviously with the exception of my good lady wife as she may read this! H. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carl0s Posted February 23, 2008 Share Posted February 23, 2008 I thought they all did that...!! Obviously with the exception of my good lady wife as she may read this! H. I think they probably do ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikeyb10supra Posted February 23, 2008 Share Posted February 23, 2008 i work a lot becasue of my business so time is limited but she has never complained before when the moneys there nad she gets wat she wants. anyway ill hopefully know more after the weekend. that sums it up for me mate....you sound better off ducking out Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Max Headroom Posted February 23, 2008 Share Posted February 23, 2008 Change the locks on your doors Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suprash Posted February 23, 2008 Share Posted February 23, 2008 Mine does this But why, it just doesnt make logical sense, surely if something was up and you loved that person and wanted to be with them then you would make the other person aware of what your feeling no, burrying your head in the sand is just going to end in tears, woman, even now I struggle to understand them.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carl0s Posted February 23, 2008 Share Posted February 23, 2008 But why, it just doesnt make logical sense, surely if something was up and you loved that person and wanted to be with them then you would make the other person aware of what your feeling no, burrying your head in the sand is just going to end in tears, woman, even now I struggle to understand them.... They're just retarded. See, she is frustrated that I'm "always right" (too frickin' right I am ), but I am frustrated that she's always irrational. HTF can I not be the one who's right when her brain works the irrational way that it does.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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