If its the same as the US spec then the LED brake light (even if you had one) isn't connected to the light fail sensor.
Again, if its the same as US spec, the tail lights "proper" are fed from the bulb fail unit by red wires with a white stripe, and the LED is fed by a green wire with a white stripe. All the earths are white with a black stripe.
The connector you desrcibe certainly sounds like the LED feed, but there should be 12V between the pins when you press the pedal because its a permanent feed and there are no other switches / relays in the way.
As for your warning lamp being on, has one of your stop lights been converted to a rear foglamp? This will probably confuse the bulb fail box and cause it to light up the warning on the dash.
Edit: The number plate lights also seem to be connected to the bulb fail box. Did you check those too?