This is a bit private but its just doing my head in and just wondered if I was being stupid or whether anyone else had the same trouble. Basically me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 years now, and for the last 7 months we have been engaged, she said yes obviously 7 months ago and everything is great with us but the trouble is all my friends and family no, my mum wants to throw us a party and things but for the last 7 months she just will not tell her mum or dad or step mum or anyone in her family so for the last 7 months ive been telling my parents to hold back as where not ready to tell anyone yet. Not being funny but its making me look a massive idiot, am i right in saying to her 'if you weren't ready to tell people and everything then you shouldn;t have said yes as your not ready'?