THIS.
So many people are quick to hammer Xbox that half the time they don't even qualify what they're saying or posting online. Like you said, it's not a dig at anyone in particular, it's just a common theme among gamers.
What makes me laugh is that when PS expose users credit card information including email and home addresses, it kinda gets brushed under the carpet. When there servers can't cope with the big releases and lag like hell, or in some cases, just take a shit, it's all good in the hood. It's Playstation after all.
A lot of people complained that Xbox Live charge for your online subscription, but you can guarantee the same people aren't vocalising any upsets regarding the PS4 doing the same now.
You got'a love the Playstation loyalists.