OK guys gonna pick your brains for this dilemma.
My girlfirends mother is a "questionable" character shall we say, but this really takes the michael!
She went on holiday recently (didn't tell my GF she was going until she was at the airport about to leave) and was due to come back a few days before her birthday (today). So my GF decides to get her some birthday presents, think she spent about £20-£30. GF doesnt have much money to spare what with recently moving so this was quite a lot for her to spend on presents.
She rings her mum on Monday to ask her if she'd like to come over for a birthday meal. Got told "No I'm expecting my boyfriend to take me out", which is fair enough. Then the GF asks about which day would be best to take her presents over an is told "Take them back and get your money back, I don't want them cos I bought some perfume for £40 on holiday, you can give me the money for it"
I thought this was a bit out of order, but my GF decided to take the presents over anyway as she thought her mum would like them, explained that she couldn't afford to give her mum the £40 for the perfume and was simply told "I dont want them, take them back, get a refund and get me something else"
I'm really unsure as to whether to stay out of this or get involved. Personally I think her mum is being an ungrateful b*tch and acting more like a brattish teenager rather than a parent.