You direct (as it appears) a female to post 'her' pic on joining, yet you don't get a male member to do it. As Pete says, this is not the right way to go.
Members should be treated equally on here regardless of gender. Thats why I never posted as a newbie as I knew the flack I'd get posting as a woman, seeing how others had been treated. This thread goes to prove my point, once more. Well said Pete - guys, please take a chill pill and find some respect, its off putting and offensive to women even though it may be harmless banter to you. It may be no coincidence that the number of women joining this club in recent months has declined though its generally low anyway.
thanks
Linda