Oh really?? Female member here.........
I had a guy sound/behave exactly that way to me (you summed it up in a nutshell, thanks ) It was vile and annoying. Needless to say I knocked it on the head soon after, so please don't make sweeping assumptions
Karma, you can listen to all the advice in the world but without hard facts - WHY she left you, from the horses mouth so to speak its all pretty meaningless. But, tbh, from her sudden change of heart it really would seem she's met someone who's swept her off her feet very quickly. Your comments would indicate that you were both insecure about each other anyway which is no way to have a relaxed, fun relationship - which is how it should be
Its heartbreaking but time truly is a healer. You have some great mates on here who are behind you 100% and hopefully you will have a fresh start and lotsa fun for a while!!!
All the best mate
Linda
xx