I'm so sorry to read about this. I'm just visiting the forum today in memory of my husband Rik Gardiner who you'll remember was killed in his Supra almost exactly a year ago (5th July).
This is all a bit too deja vu for me, and I can't bring myself to read all of the thread, but I'd just like to send my heartfelt condolences to all his family. Have strength. It doesn't get better but it gets easier.
I'd also like to say that I hope they gain as much comfort and support from all your messages as my family and I did this time last year. You guys really did help.
Vicki, Brett and Luca Gardiner